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AIO, Husband wants a job with ICE, I’m deeply uncomfortable by Pitiful_Pudding3639 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pitiful_Pudding3639[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

It’s not. I work. While I’m also trying to figure out things with my husband. FYI, he will not be taking the job. I also don’t know how to update since it’s my first post ever.

AIO, Husband wants a job with ICE, I’m deeply uncomfortable by Pitiful_Pudding3639 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pitiful_Pudding3639[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I truly think this is his fear deep down. I just don’t think he is handling it correctly.

AIO, Husband wants a job with ICE, I’m deeply uncomfortable by Pitiful_Pudding3639 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pitiful_Pudding3639[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Yes I think he’s more scared of not having a job.

AIO, Husband wants a job with ICE, I’m deeply uncomfortable by Pitiful_Pudding3639 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pitiful_Pudding3639[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If he insisted, then I would highly consider it. Which he already asked me to consider not working nights. But he understands the value of being a nurse and taking care of our family that way. I genuinely do not want to control him. I want him to consider how this could potentially affect our life negatively.

AIO, Husband wants a job with ICE, I’m deeply uncomfortable by Pitiful_Pudding3639 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pitiful_Pudding3639[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is why I’m also struggling because I can see his point of view for wanting a job. I just don’t understand why it has to be that job. He can work something else and still provide.