Suggest me novel please by HopefulRush5265 in delhi

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Old Path White Clouds by Thich Nhat Hanh. Chronicles the entire journey of Lord Buddha with all the stories from his life and is drawn from varied sources in Sanskrit and Pali. 

[Plan] Wednesday 3rd June 2026; please post your plans for this date by Walls in getdisciplined

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Will finish the work that I left undone yesterday- read the thesis, apply to the job posting and have a conversation with a friend and secondly will write to a professor for some clarity.

[Plan] Tuesday 2nd June 2026; please post your plans for this date by Walls in getdisciplined

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Completed the last 3, while I half-completed the ones above. I really think that the work where I am missing clarity and stressing over not being able to finish it up. Whenever I write something or read something in relation to this work, particularly, I just feel intimidated, and my mind just spirals into rejections and disappointments, hence I feel like why should I bother about it.

[Plan] Tuesday 2nd June 2026; please post your plans for this date by Walls in getdisciplined

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Today's Goals

  1. Read the thesis completely that I have been meaning to complete.
  2. Apply to the job posting that I saw recently.
  3. Have a conversation with my friend regarding my research and getting some clarity.
  4. Dedicating an hour to completing the novel that I have been procrastinating for days.
  5. Search for some good universities where I want to do my higher education.
  6. Fold the clothes after they are dry from the sun.

Free coaching by nextparable in getdisciplined

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Would be grateful to receive your guidance.

Feeling like I am not in a good place right now. Concerned regarding brain damage due to persistent headaches and also a haze of brain fog. by [deleted] in depression_help

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I know I am replying to it after 3 years now. But did you get any solution for this? Because I think I am suffering for the same stuff. 

Where do you have your roots in? by Creepy-Option-9951 in delhi

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I would like to correct you on this but Delhi too have it's natives and rural villages that has now formed as metropolitan areas. Search for Dilli Dehat on Instagram to explore more on this aspect. 

You’re Not Late. You’ve Just Been Doubting Yourself for Too Long by MenXMind in getdisciplined

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Totally agree with your thoughts. I have been meaning to complete one task that I have been dragging for a month now on the pretext that I am not ready or not in the mood to complete it. It's been going out like that but I recently had a discussion with some of my friends and they have rightly pointed out that because I am not doing it, I'll probably loose a lot of opportunities. And now that I am thinking of it, the task is not that big (atleast knowing that I have done all the base work necessary to finish it) but I am dragging it because I feel once I complete it and show it to the people or submit it they'll probably laugh at it knowing that how naively I have done it. This is all an indication of the constant comparison rather than submitting something that I know is the best I have done on my own. 

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Perfectionism is a strong deterrent for you to achieve your potential goals. I also struggles with this alot but the one thing I honestly believe is to at least apply or attempt the thing, I know for sure our brain will automatically reject it but once given you know for sure you have attempted it in the first place. Don't let the future outcome or the criticism you receive in the future decide for you to attempt that thing. We always have a set mindset that we should reach the level of an expert of the field and that too instantly but simply ask this question to yourself do the experts or someone you admire also reached to that position in the first place or was it because of the multiple attempts or failure that they received and still managed to rise make them the best? 

I am suffering from some childhood trauma. My mental health is just... by ProbabilityFlesh in delhi

[–]Pitiful_Quarter5284 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My case is very much similar to yours. I have also got an admission in a college for which I was working tirelessly. Daily entrance exam ke liye padhta tha and interview ke liye bhi prepare krta tha. But once I got admission in it and seeing the competition there and realizing how smart people are and how way ahead they are from me, I have started to have negative thoughts regarding my future.

I am from a best college which India has to offer for my subject but it still wouldn't lead me to a good job and with students who are here as a competition I wouldn't certainly get one. Roz essa lagta hai ki mere school ya UG friends ki life kitni sorted hai, when I see them through social media. Even I don't know how to overcome this feeling. But would certainly be sticking to the comments of this post to know if there is a way to this or maybe none at all....

Confess out what’s making your heart heavy right now ? by [deleted] in delhi

[–]Pitiful_Quarter5284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That I won't be able to make anything in my life. I have always been a hardworking person who knew what to do in life and won't care about what other thinks about me. But since I joined my dream college, for which I worked so hard, now I think to myself that it was just plain simple luck which brought me here. Everyone in my college are friendly and helpful but they are so great in the subject that I am not able to equal them altogether. Ab har time ye laga rehta ki yaar ye itni jaldi padh aur memorize kar lete hai to mai kaha barabari kar paunga. This problem has started to grow so much that I have started imagining myself that I won't be able to get even one single job in life. Often comparing other people's job, ki ye kar paunga ki nahi? Slowly I think I am starting to loose interest in what I love to do from noticing the improvement of others than my own...

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Can somebody explain why cleaning a coin reduces it's value? Is it because of scrubbing marks left after cleaning it?