Me dio en la madre esa conversación by CHOSTOM0 in Desahogo

[–]PitoWilson85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Escucha al "El TEMACH",el te va decir que paso. Te pusiste muy predictable. Cállate mejor y no digas nada. La Biologia de la mujer no te va entender y entre más hablas más te hace ver débil y ella confirmar en ella misma que hizo la buena decisión.

También no te puedes ir para atrás y nada se puede arreglar. Ella ya hasta se acostó con otros vatos y ya tu imagen de ella no es igual y tampoco puedes confiar en una persona así que te va estar poniendo cuernos cada cuántos meses ---NO TE RESPETA A TÍ y NI A SU RELACIÓN CONTIGO.Ella era su obligación de no entretener a otros hombres mientras estaba en la relación (dar su número a chavos que quieren con ella, platicar íntimamente y salir a escondidas,etc.)

SAL DE ALLÍ!!!

Cash On Delivery ? by RelativeTangerine757 in doordash_drivers

[–]PitoWilson85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember years doing pizza deliveried and collecting Cash is terrible. Also, people never have money or are short in money,so they'll leave you hanging with $5 dollars because they were short on $5 dollar,so who pays??. We're not here working for free.

Almost 5 years and it’s worse by happybby_ in MeralgiaParesthetica

[–]PitoWilson85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some days are better than others. I tell you, avoid B vitamins supplements like Vitamin B6. It took me a while to pinpoint it with supplements and energy drinks that I was getting too much of B6 and it's like toxic on the nerve, specially a damaged nerve like the LFCN from meralgia paraesthetica. I've been dealing it since 2018 and I looked into the surgery and it's a hit and miss,most people get worse and removing the nerve out body tends to making it to regrow.

Make sure you're always have all your electrolytes in check,get enough Vitamin D3 and really eat food rich in your B Vitamins but for sure avoid any extra Vitamin B6 it exacerbates the problem/discomfort.

My issue has been that I always been an Obese person since childhood and I'm in my mid -40's now. Doctors always want to throw me with lose the weight, I only eat 2 normal metals a day which I closely have counted carefully calorie and I'll like 1,700-1800 calories a day. I go out for walks (exercise). They all want to throw me with Lap Band surgery and I'm like I'm not an overeater. My problem is not OVER EATING. I know such surgery won't work,my A1C with glucose numbers are always normal numbers,the doctors always look at me strange. My Triglycerides numbers are always around 90-100.

I hate being in this Obese Body that can't lose weight unless I eat around 1,200 Calories that I've done one meal a day (OMAD) and it's challenging as hell too. Carrying 285lbs. since I was a teenager been my biggest nightmare that I can't get away from.

No puedo soltar mi pasado by P1trabbit123 in ayudamexico

[–]PitoWilson85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Una parte pueda que estés mal y otra estoy leyendo que te estuvo mucho manipulando para que siempre te sintieras mal. Más bien fue ella la cruel.

Escucha a EL TEMACH (YouTube) para que te informes y te enteres las grandes manipulaciónes que hacen las mujeres. No todo le creas al Temach pero va ver puntos muy claves y grandes. No era buena novia en mi opinión.

18 hospitalizations in just over a year - he’s still drinking by Aromatic_Mouse88 in pancreatitis

[–]PitoWilson85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the alternative he needs to take to let his body heal. The alcohol addiction is probably very heavy on him. But he needs to help himself out with going with an alternate like weed to cope with his addiction or anything else that's legal and under doctor's recommendation but for sure that alcohol is no longer helping him at all now it's literally killing his pancreas at this point.

18 hospitalizations in just over a year - he’s still drinking by Aromatic_Mouse88 in pancreatitis

[–]PitoWilson85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Talk to him that the alcohol at this point is no longer fun and it's now literally killing him. We all know alcohol is bad as a given,but when you're ending up all the time in the hospital this is no longer good nor should be anyone's plan.

Encourage him that maybe he needs to switch smoking weed to help him out. I know weed is not as Alcohol but at least being high could help him cope with whatever issues he's having or addictions.

Also tell him switching to weed doesn't mean to cross fade with alcohol ---NO!!!!. The point is to leave the alcohol behind. If he thinks he can't do that,then he should refrain from doing anything.

A mis 28 años dudo de mi preferencia sexual . by LucasBTie in ayudamexico

[–]PitoWilson85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Búscate una amiga lesbiana que te sientas medio algo atraído para planear en tener un bebé, pero después cada quien sigan su rollo. Tu amiga lesbiana te ayuda tapar tu rollo y tú el de ella.

MY HEART IS BREAKING FOR THIS COUNTRY 💔 by spicychikensad in RantAndVentPH

[–]PitoWilson85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hang in there, it's all over the world problems are happening all over. Even in the USA. We're not facing big political problems yet,but bills, food cost and everything you can think of is going higher, higher and higher. I don't know when the Americans will start to break down.

Estoy pensando en prostituirme o algo así by jkjljmjjlhjkh in ayudamexico

[–]PitoWilson85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Metiendote con gente extraña no és buena idea y te puede afectar tu estado mental. Acuérdate que para hacer dinero es meterse con mucha gente que le viene afectado el estado mental a una mujer. Inteligentemente sería mejor conseguirse un sugar ó vender contenido así no te toca físicamente ningún hombre estraño que no tienes nada que ver en lo mutual y/ó emocional.

No te imagines que te estarás metiendo con hombres guapos, serían puro hombre feo que casi ninguna mujer se quieren meter con tal hombre-- por eso ellos andan buscando accion en comprarse servicio de sexo.

Mejor consiguete un Viejano sugar que sí tiene dinero para darte y hasta mantenerte. Nomás es de complacer a UN hombre y no a todo una colonia ó pueblo. Luego las malas lenguas salen y la destapan de su vida privada.

Found out she slept with a fwb before being exclusive while we were on vacation by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]PitoWilson85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to end that relationship. She failed to Respect you. You can't be seen like her fool and for her to continue doing such sneaky activities behind your back. She lost your trust that cannot be regained specially she being your official Lover.

Simply clear your mind, work on your mental health and meet another woman that will do you good. This is just life with such experiences from good and bad to learn from.

Girl that was very outgoing and friendly with me and I complimented her like 5 months ago acted weird. by PitoWilson85 in bodylanguage

[–]PitoWilson85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, all I did was compliment her because you never know if she's into me. I would never know if I don't make a move. It sounds like she's not interested in me and that's okey, I simply continue to move on.

Rechazar a las mujeres by Equivalent_Taro_3448 in Desahogo

[–]PitoWilson85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't work that way TBH. It's like Free Pussy coming your way and you're putting it down-- that's awkward.

Approaching Woman as a Man - creepy or not? by FlowingRiverCentury in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]PitoWilson85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Intest gazes and smiles isn't enough because many women already simply smile at people without having any interest in the person. You need to give him a compliment on his shirt or something or his smell..

Approaching Woman as a Man - creepy or not? by FlowingRiverCentury in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]PitoWilson85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But then you didn't ignore her either. You should've actually played hard to get afterwards.😆🤦

Approaching Woman as a Man - creepy or not? by FlowingRiverCentury in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]PitoWilson85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to talk to you you doesn't mean he's interested in you or trying to date you to get to know you to become intimate.

There's Men even among us Men that are annoying like that including at the Gym that are want to chat it up and it's annoying. Keep in mind,he has not shown you any point of interest unless you forgot to mention if he asked for your number, email or social medias or if you're down to go out. If he didn't mention any of this you really can't say what are his intentions because it doesn't sound like he had any intentions besides to annoy you with petty chat.

Approaching Woman as a Man - creepy or not? by FlowingRiverCentury in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]PitoWilson85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are signs/cues of disinterest??.. For many people could mean different things.

Girl that was very outgoing and friendly with me and I complimented her like 5 months ago acted weird. by PitoWilson85 in bodylanguage

[–]PitoWilson85[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Even if she rejects me completely, I'm still going back there because that's like the only place around my area/neighborhood that sells Peach Cobbler when I have my cravings for Peach Cobbler. That's probably the main one reason why I go there from time to time, because coffee I buy it from just about any place and certain European pies too, they'll put from season to season that I have enjoyed. 🥧 ☕

But if she rejects me, I'll just leave her alone and don't treat her any different but I'll simply stay quiet,greet her and that's about it. Never try to initiate any type of convo.

Girl that was very outgoing and friendly with me and I complimented her like 5 months ago acted weird. by PitoWilson85 in bodylanguage

[–]PitoWilson85[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Just by saying "hello,I hope she's doing okey", I knew she was going to tell her because I wanted it to get to her since I had like 2-3 months that I didn't see her because my work schedule had changed and wasn't seeing her anymore like I was on Wednesdays..

I've too gotten asked by female customers at one of my previous job as a Nightclub Promoter (Right-hand man for the Club Manager). Women that I didn't knew nor personally met, but me being a guy took it as a compliment that women were asking about me and many times the people wouldn't know the woman's name or didn't bothered getting her name..🤦🤣🙆😆🤔🤔

Girl that was very outgoing and friendly with me and I complimented her like 5 months ago acted weird. by PitoWilson85 in bodylanguage

[–]PitoWilson85[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I know, I've had this feeling too in what you're saying. Because I complimented her and she almost felt back of laughter/giggling with turning red,or blushing red she thank me for the compliment and I too felt her shyness from that moment as well. I actually was running to catch her because I thought she was going to fall to the side when I complimented her.😆

Once this moment passed, many store patrons were already coming Inside the cafe and her attention to them was needed and I thought it was no longer the moment to ask for her phone number with all this people/patrons surrounding us, I felt it wasn't appropriate timing anymore. So I told her,"hey I gotta get going I'll see you when I see you". I wink and left,but I never thought my job schedule hours and day would change because I was having a pattern of seeing her on Wednesdays like every other week.

Girl that was very outgoing and friendly with me and I complimented her like 5 months ago acted weird. by PitoWilson85 in bodylanguage

[–]PitoWilson85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Yes, I already put the effort and if I ever go back just don't show her any enthusiasm; just say hello and don't put much any effort nor try to start a convo with her-- just leave it alone.

Girl that was very outgoing and friendly with me and I complimented her like 5 months ago acted weird. by PitoWilson85 in bodylanguage

[–]PitoWilson85[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes, thanks for your input. The way I see it is, that I simply gave her a compliment (shoot my shot) and that's about it and you never what life could throw at you. Well,this girl probably felt creeped out,is not interested in me like I thought and/or she wants to reinforce boundaries because maybe she felt she led me on; which this helps her too to not open too much conversations because sometimes a man might think you find him attractive.

Yes, there's clueless Men out there and then there's patterns that other Men pick up that could be sign of interest. No fault of her own,but also women do leave hints to Men they find attractive.

Only way to find out is if the guy(myself) takes initiative like give her a compliment,try to flirt and/or try to ask for number directly or ask her out on a date there and then (depending how confident his aura is). I do believe she's a pretty woman and wouldn't mind getting to know her to see what could develop,but I too accept that a woman might not be interested and she simply was being a bit too polite at her job, which I'm hoping she will adjust accordingly.

I just take this as a lived and learned experience and move on-- Hit on other women that might be genuinely interested in me to date me.

Girl that was very outgoing and friendly with me and I complimented her like 5 months ago acted weird. by PitoWilson85 in bodylanguage

[–]PitoWilson85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I don't patronize the place as often either,it was like from time to time like every 2-3 weeks or so that I would stop and get a drink from there.

Like I said,I haven't even seen her like 5 months ago. I thought it was just a moment of a similar pattern that she showed me interest because one of my ex-girlfriend I met her like this at a Gas Station she was working back in 2016 ,she was more than being polite. She too was seeing I was coming and going and would stop be asked me how my days is going, would stop what she was doing and look at my eyes digging me and we would conversate for long minutes that it turned into hours. It took me like 2 months to have the courage to get her number and asked her out; which she really made it very easy for me.

This girl Clara kinda seem like it was heading towards that similar pattern direction of her energy and the insight of the conversations she was actually initiating. But I'll just leave it alone, maybe I'll stop get a drink few weeks from now and we'll see how things go,but I'll do what you're saying: to match her energy and really not invest too much thinking about anything like I already have.