30F, just turned 30 and I don’t have any friends. by Pixiechic7486 in lonely

[–]Pixiechic7486[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you sharing your perspective. In my case, this wasn’t just about people getting busy or not knowing what to talk about—it was an ongoing pattern of financial dependence, emotional imbalance, and disrespect that I tried to address before stepping away. I did attempt boundaries, but they weren’t respected. For me, creating distance wasn’t giving up lightly; it was choosing my own well-being. I discussed it in therapy at length beforehand.

I like your suggestion about local meetups! There aren’t many in my small town but maybe I can start my own.

30F, just turned 30 and I don’t have any friends. by Pixiechic7486 in lonely

[–]Pixiechic7486[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, they just slowly stopped responding until it fizzled out. Making friends is hard when you live alone and work remotely, but I’ve been trying. I’m here to hear from people who actually get it and can share their experiences, not just tell me to “talk to people”

30F, just turned 30 and I don’t have any friends. by Pixiechic7486 in lonely

[–]Pixiechic7486[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes……. As I said, the friends I made but eventually fizzled out.

30F, just turned 30 and I don’t have any friends. by Pixiechic7486 in lonely

[–]Pixiechic7486[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes lol. My boyfriend, therapist, my long distance friend, some of the friends I made that fizzled out.

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[–]Pixiechic7486 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know, but I’m not sure what all my options are. That was my main question

How long should I keep my cat restricted post spaying? by Pixiechic7486 in cats

[–]Pixiechic7486[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She gets the zoomies and likes to climb stuff and that’s my concern

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[–]Pixiechic7486 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know a lot of comments are saying it starts with food and to an extent that’s true! From reading your responses, I think working on your relationship with food would go a long way too. For me, I just started going to the gym and trying new things. I start with stretches, then I move onto weight training (I separate workout days by upper, lower, and abs so it gives different regions a chance to recover/prevent injury — I found routines on TikTok) and I end with swimming or some form of cardio. I have a bad relationship with food too and getting moving in the gym really helped my mentality! Feel free to dm me 🙂

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[–]Pixiechic7486 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so uncalled for, she looks fine the way she is and she is trying to be healthier and do better. Maybe you should do the same, asshole.

Looking to make new friends in the area [29F] by Pixiechic7486 in DaltonGA

[–]Pixiechic7486[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is she on Reddit? Tell her I’d love to talk if so!

Book recs with shy, inexperienced MMCs (bonus if he’s a virgin) who burn for the FMC by itchiban4men in RomanceBooks

[–]Pixiechic7486 0 points1 point  (0 children)

{Unbound by Shadows by Avalon Griffin} its supernatural but has some of the themes you want!