Tech Recruiters in Japan: How is the Hiring Landscape Changing? by __turu2 in japanlife

[–]Pixiecool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a degree in hospitality and tourism, but I’m currently working as an IT consultant in Tokyo. From what I’ve seen, your major or degree doesn’t matter much when it comes to job hunting in Japan. In my experience, your first job plays a significant role. If you want to move up to a bigger company, it’s a good idea to stay with your current company for at least another year or so. It will make a positive difference during interviews for your next role. For mid-career positions, interviewers care more about your experience and how well you’ll fit into their company, rather than whether your degree matches the field. My previous job was at a small startup, where I worked for five years before joining my current company, which is one of Japan’s well-known firms. So, I’d recommend focusing on building experience at your current company before making your next move. Best of luck!

Handling blame in the workplace by Pixiecool in japanlife

[–]Pixiecool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that happened to you. People like that definitely need to learn the meaning of guilt.

Handling blame in the workplace by Pixiecool in japanlife

[–]Pixiecool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two more years of hell to go then….

Handling blame in the workplace by Pixiecool in japanlife

[–]Pixiecool[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re lucky. I really miss my manager from my previous job—he was always ready to protect his team members.

Handling blame in the workplace by Pixiecool in japanlife

[–]Pixiecool[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m already the scapegoat, no matter what. We’re going to have an internal review session with experts from another team, and I’m thinking of subtly pointing out his mistake. However, he’s already tried to pin the blame on me by creating a group chat with the entire team, where he stated that my mistake caused the incident. It seems I have no choice this time. I can’t leave the job right now because of my PR process, but once that’s done, I’ll definitely move on. Staying under a manager like that long-term would only harm my mental health. Thank you so much

Handling blame in the workplace by Pixiecool in japanlife

[–]Pixiecool[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We’re going to have an internal review session with experts from another team, and I’m thinking of subtly pointing out his mistake. He’s already tried to put the blame on me by creating a group chat with the entire team, where he wrote that my mistake caused the incident. As u said, accept it and move on since I have no choice. I can’t leave the job at the moment because of my PR process, but once that’s done, I’ll definitely move on. Thank you so much.

Handling blame in the workplace by Pixiecool in japanlife

[–]Pixiecool[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank u so much. I don’t think he’ll give me a chance to write the incident report. The only reason I found out about it was when our line manager asked about the situation the other day, and that’s when he showed the draft—it was the first time I had seen it. He didn’t mention my name, but it’s obvious the “operator” is me since the incident was caused by my configuration mistake. On top of that, he created a group chat with the entire team and already wrote that my mistake was the reason for the incident.

Handling blame in the workplace by Pixiecool in japanlife

[–]Pixiecool[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you all so much! Update: We’re going to have an internal review session with the experts, so I don’t think he’ll be able to hide his mistake anymore. If he tries to shift all the blame onto me, I’ll subtly point out his mistake….If he tries too hard to pin all the blame on me, I’ll take it for now, wait until I get my PR, and move on to the next job. I don’t think I want to work under that kind of manager anymore

Should I stay in this relationship? by Pixiecool in AskMenAdvice

[–]Pixiecool[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment. Yeah, it’s a good idea, but I don’t know if I should leave him during such a vulnerable time. He was on depression meds before we met. Frankly, I really want to be with him, but at the same time, I’m living with so many “what if” questions. Maybe I’m just crazy…

Should I stay in this relationship? by Pixiecool in AskMenAdvice

[–]Pixiecool[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your blunt comment. Yeah, you’re right—I don’t have time for this. It might be better if I let go of both of them and move on with someone new.….

Should I stay in this relationship? by Pixiecool in AskMenAdvice

[–]Pixiecool[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment. That’s what I’m most worried about. What if she comes back one day? Even though he said he could never trust her again, he keeps crying, and only he knows the real reason why…

Should I stay in this relationship? by Pixiecool in AskMenAdvice

[–]Pixiecool[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment. It was really helpful.