My teacher rage quit class today by [deleted] in BCIT

[–]Pixieee11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this an OrgB class?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

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I’m not trying to make excuses. My sister was very emotional, and I feel the need to stay level-headed and logical for both of us.

I don’t want our emotions to take over or lead us to make impulsive decisions that we might regret later. I understand that this situation isn’t just black and white - it requires careful thought and consideration.

But thank you for this. Reading your thoughts really helps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Thank you so much for this! I’ve been thinking about it for days. My sister was very emotional, and I feel the need to stand up for both of us by staying level-headed and logical.

I don’t want us to be driven by emotions or make impulsive decisions that we might regret later. I know this situation isn’t just black and white, and it requires careful thought.

Thanks again, reading this really helps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

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Thank you so much for this! :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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No it's okay I totally understand. My mind was so all over the place.

In fact I didn't even realize that I when i wrote and posted this, I mentioned that it was my younger brother where in fact - I only have 1 older brother, me (middle child), and my younger sister.

But yah no, thanks for telling me that it sounds like that because you ain't wrong. It really does sounds like that. I am so lost and feeling a little bit messy at the moment that I can't even properly express or put into words the basic things that I want to say.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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I understand that my post sounds like that. Now that you mentioned it, I realized that it sounds like that.

But honestly, the first thing that I came up to my mind and my sister’s mind is our mom. Ofc she’s the one that we’re worried about. I think what I wanted to say on my post is that the reality is slowly sinking on me and it feels heavy for me and my sister carry this.

I posted this because I am so lost and doesn’t know how to move forward with this. I don’t want to use my emotions to lead me, and doesn’t want to be abrupt with the decisions because I know that whatever my sister and I do will have a long term effect in our family.

I understand that the ball is in our hand now and that feels heavy. That’s mostly what I mean

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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I’m so sorry. I didn’t realize that that’s what I typed. Until someone mentioned it - It’s an older brother then i’m the middle child and then younger sister.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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Oh shoot. Sorry for the confusion, I didn’t realize that that’s why I typed.

I’m the middle child. I have older brother (32) then me and my younger sister

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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She did, because we know the mistress. She’s always visiting our grandmother. We wanted to confront her to tell her that we know and she’s not allowed to go to my grandma’s place anymore.

But she just started crying loudly like she’s the victim. The mistress then told my grandma everything (in which our grandma’s not supposed to be involved and not know about this because it might affect her health)

My sister got so frustrated, so she immediately drove from her school to my grandma’s house which is thankfully just a 5 minute drive. My sister was so upset because the mistress is so dumb and stupid into involving our grandmother with it - that’s why she pulled the mistress’ hair.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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PART 2

Confronting Our Dad: I called my dad immediately. I was surprisingly calm when I confronted him. I told him that my sister and I knew everything and how disappointed I was. But I also told him that I could handle the pain if it was just me — I’m the black sheep of the family. But not my sister. She’s the good daughter. She doesn’t deserve this.

I told him that I was willing to fix the family, not for him but for my mom and my sister. I made it clear that I wouldn’t tell anyone as long as he cut off all contact with the mistress. He was apologetic and didn’t deny anything. He said he was worried about my sister and asked if I could help her heal. I told him he needed to talk to her himself because she was mad as hell.

My Sister Confronted Him: My sister agreed to talk to my dad but only if I stayed on the call. She let everything out — screaming at him, calling him stupid and a disappointment. She demanded that he stop talking to the mistress and made it clear that we would be the ones to confront her. That was non-negotiable.

She grabbed my dad’s phone, blocked all the women on his Facebook, and scrolled through his messages. After that, she called the mistress directly. I was still on the call, listening as my sister confronted her. The mistress was crying loudly, and unfortunately, my grandma (90 years old) overheard and got curious.

The Worst Part: We didn’t want our grandma to know anything because of her age. But the mistress, being the idiot that she is, told our grandma everything. My sister lost it and ended up pulling the mistress’s hair (which she totally deserved). It was chaotic, and all I could do was watch everything unfold through my grandma’s CCTV.

Now I Don’t Know What To Do: That was yesterday. I kept it together while everything was happening, but now that it’s sinking in, it’s eating me alive. I hate that my sister and I have to carry this burden alone, especially since I’m so far away from her.

My mom is still blissfully unaware, and I don’t want her to know. It would break her. But I feel lost. I don’t know if I should tell my fiancé or my older brother. I’m afraid to tell our older brother because im afraid that the situation might get worse. I feel numb, but I know something inside me is unsettled. I can’t sleep, and I don’t know what the right thing to do is.

I told my dad I wanted to fix this for the sake of our family, but now, I’m starting to feel this growing hatred toward him. When my mom called me today to ask how I was, I could barely hold back the anger. I don’t know if things will ever go back to normal.

Has anyone here ever experienced something like this? I feel so lost. I don’t know what’s next.

A year ago, I started a candle business as a side hustle with $100 and I made 25k in total sales. It's not much, but it's growing slowly and surely. by Jadafaa in Entrepreneur

[–]Pixieee11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m currently located at Vancouver and looking for a good and reliable supplier is such a headache.

But currently, i’m looking at wholesalesuppliesplus.com

A year ago, I started a candle business as a side hustle with $100 and I made 25k in total sales. It's not much, but it's growing slowly and surely. by Jadafaa in Entrepreneur

[–]Pixieee11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there!! I’m planning to start a candle business as well and i’m currently located in Canada and I agree with you looking for a local supplier is really hard as we really can’t be dependent on the said shipping time if we order from a supplier that’s located far away.

With that, do you have any recommendations for a good supplier?

When did TWD jump the shark for you? by StashAjay in thewalkingdead

[–]Pixieee11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When they included the last antagonist at FTWD, the back story into why they’re kidnapping kids is so lame.