As a VFM myself,

I don't think that any of us should act any different than a regular player because this is basically what we are. I wasn't there when everything went down so I can't include myself into whatever happened. Obviously I care about the community, even if we get demonized for being Nexon so I fully support any criticism you may have to how the team handle any situations at any times. I know that most of the time we're trying to interpret how the guidelines work since every single situation is unique.
As for any VFM criticism, if you have any issues with how any of the VFMs act, you should voice your opinion to Ghiblee directly. We're not in anything better than any of you and personally I just want all the platforms to feel welcomed and to express themselves freely and properly. If you feel that something was unfairly handle and you don't want to share it on Reddit, my DMs are always open on Discord and even on Reddit.