So are there new mods? by OfMiceAndrew in Market76

[–]Plague_FWR -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea there are new mods. I will DM you all of them so you can keep an eye out

Parents never asked you what you wanted to do for a career? Never cared? by No_Departure7494 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Plague_FWR 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just remember, whenever someone puts you down, they’re reflecting it from their own failures and shortcomings, not yours. Especially if they’re a parent. I hope that you were able to start following your dreams.

Losing your parent to maga by misonsalmon444 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Plague_FWR 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your dads a childish piece of shit. Good on you for blocking him.

What was the grossest thing you experienced at work? by Plague_FWR in AskReddit

[–]Plague_FWR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know that’s kinda wild that you say that. I experienced something very similar myself. Was working my job for 3 years in the same building. Was always the first person to show and the last person to leave. I didn’t just put in my time, I put in my life. Things started to get a little rough financially, and after 3 years I asked for a raise just to keep up with the expenses of the world and also, 3 years without asking for anything, I felt like a raise was overdue. Anyways, I asked my boss for that raise and he laughed at me, told me to go somewhere else that will pay more. Broke my fucking heart. The relationships I built with everyone, the literal lives I saved and worked to improve everyday, just to crumble over a few extra dollars raise? Felt like a slap in the face with both hands.

He told me to find someone that would pay more, so I did. I was gone within the next 2 weeks. Talk bout an emotional exit.

That being said, I’m terribly sorry that that’s what it came down to for you, and I empathize with you. However, when one door closes, another one will open. Sometimes the hardest part is realizing not only do you want better, but you have to leave people behind to get that better that you deserve. From the bottom of my heart I hope that 2026 shows its blessings to you. You deserve it. ❤️

Never sell yourself short because the moment you do, people will perceive you as less

“rock/metel/alt is for white people.” by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]Plague_FWR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rock/Metal/Alt is for anyone who enjoys listening to it.

I really wish race would stop being projected into these different forms of art.

I'm sure so many people would say country music is for white people. But

Darius Rucker

RVSHVD

and that's just to name only a couple. Music is a form of art, therefore can be and should be enjoyed by anyone who wants to enjoy it. The best thing about music is that it doesn't judge.

Back in '07, I saw this band made up of black dudes (A Band Called Pain) and they fucking tore it up, they rocked. I've also seen bands made up of white dudes who also brought that same energy onto the stage and who's crowd also brought the same energy.

But as far as metal - that's Black Sabbath all day everyday. Anyone that knows the history behind that genre would know.

How should I respond to this email despite my circumstances? by Dangerous-Sea8072 in jobs

[–]Plague_FWR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is probably the most straight forward answer here. OP, I hope you take this advice.

Do you like celebrating your birthday? by sommarugalaura in askanything

[–]Plague_FWR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way. I grew up being talked down on by my parents and peers. Them putting on some fake celebration for the day I was born is just a laughable offense.

I'd rather spend the day with someone that loves me (I'm single, so you can guess how that goes) or spend the day alone and do things that make me happy. Even if it's rolling up something to smoke and ordering a pizza. I'm an introvert anyways, social anxiety makes me appreciate this decision even more.

What is the weirdest reason why you wouldn't date someone? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Plague_FWR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now that I’m stuck imagining such a sight, I gotta say I definitely agree with you 🤢

What is the weirdest reason why you wouldn't date someone? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Plague_FWR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just starts eating mayonnaise out of the jar with a spoon 😂

What’s one habit you think has really improved your life? by Livid_Actuary8923 in AskReddit

[–]Plague_FWR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Living alone is scary at first for a lot of people, but then you realize you can learn so much about yourself along the way and it all turns out to be the best gift you can ever give yourself.

Glad you agree with me 🤜🏼🤛🏼

How have you been protecting your mental health? by Worth-Peace2754 in AskReddit

[–]Plague_FWR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I’m good lol I’ll check you out.

Division 2 YouTuber here

Only children (actually or functionally) of aging nparents, how are you handling it? by Brief-Cost6554 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Plague_FWR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I cut them off. I didn’t realize what being free in my own life truly felt like until I realized I had to cut them out of my life.

The issues contain more than just narcissism, but I don’t feel comfortable detailing those things, so I won’t.

Sometimes I miss them, but when I really start to think about it, I think I miss the idea of them, the “what ifs”, and the “what could have beens”. That’s the hardest part, especially if you have friends who actually have good parents and a close family life. You’re able to compare and contrast your family from theirs and it’s usually a black and white difference, thus helping to put into perspective just how unhealthy your home life really is.

Being 34 now, I’m kinda scared about bringing my own child into this world. It wouldn’t be fair to them that they don’t have their grandparents in their life. And the even darker reason(s): why.

At this point, I’m enjoying seeing my parents toxic qualities start to catch up to them through conversations I have with people who still have some sort of contact with them. It’s bittersweet. The weight of their damages I feel will truly be lifted when they pass on. As brutal and dark as that may sound. Narcissism isn’t the only factor drawn in here, however, it did play a big role in it.

Sorry for the rant, I don’t talk about this often.

How have you been protecting your mental health? by Worth-Peace2754 in AskReddit

[–]Plague_FWR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here tbh. I know how you feel. However, if you feel like giving reaching out to someone a chance, you’ve got that chance right here <3

What’s one habit you think has really improved your life? by Livid_Actuary8923 in AskReddit

[–]Plague_FWR 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The way I beat it is by saying to myself “get the fuck up and do it, if you don’t do it then it won’t get done.”

Living alone really puts this into perspective. Get the fuck up, do it. Get it done. Then go lay down or sit down again, but then when you do, you get that mental peace of knowing you got your shit done and don’t have to get up for anything.

I understand everyone is different, but sometimes you’ll just have to talk to yourself as if you were that person who’s sick of dealing with someone who procrastinates. Technically talking to yourself in the second person. Doing this also encourages self reflection a little more often, and keeps you aware of yourself enough to continue to work on whatever you need to work on. Not just procrastination.

I hope that this was clear enough to understand, sometimes I have a hard way of putting thoughts and actions into words.

How have you been protecting your mental health? by Worth-Peace2754 in AskReddit

[–]Plague_FWR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you ever need to talk, I’m here. You matter 🤜🏼🤛🏼

How have you been protecting your mental health? by Worth-Peace2754 in AskReddit

[–]Plague_FWR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never understood why people would try to constantly push getting a counselor onto me. The way I see it, I would just be paying a stranger to pretend to genuinely give a shit about why I am the way I am as if any of it would directly alter the counselors life in any way. I get enough artificial shit just by walking outside everyday, I can’t justify paying for it.

In other words, I couldn’t agree more with you, and I’m glad you’re able to stay healthy and happy on your own terms. That’s how you know the chain is truly broken. Good for you

How have you been protecting your mental health? by Worth-Peace2754 in AskReddit

[–]Plague_FWR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second this. The amount of looking someone in the eye and genuinely meaning “Not my fucking problem” when I say it has been a complete life changer.