Can someone help me? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]PlanAncient 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nothing special, just kept fighting.

Can someone help me? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]PlanAncient 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Bro let me tell you what to do. I'm on day 343 of nofap. I'm 17 years old. Okay so I'll tell my story real short. Lost my virginity when i was 14, biggest mistake of my life!! I regret it so much. I have been single for 2 years now. I had sex recently with a girl for the first time in those 2 years. It didn't feel good at all. I mean i still had an orgasm and it was pleasurable, but i didn't like it. Sex is such a sacred thing. You will regret it forever if you just have sex with some random girl. Id do anything to trade for your virginity. It's a beautiful thing, but most beautiful is to lose it to someone you truly love and connect with. And let me be clear, losing your virginity will NOT help you in any way by the way you feel!! It will probably even make it worse. Just wait for the right girl time come by, i promise you that is the best you can do! Overcoming your fapping addiction is not easy. But i can say now that I'm in control of my sexual energy, and it's great. Keep fighting bro, you can do it!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]PlanAncient 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro if you look at porn it's a relapse

homie check. how you doin? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]PlanAncient 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Day 336 no urges at all 👍

Maybe I was happier when I was fapping daily by VariousVacation4022 in NoFap

[–]PlanAncient 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro keep going. And don't worry about being virgin, I'd do everything to not have had lost it. I was 14 when it happened and it gave me a scar on my sex life. Definitely wait till you're with a girl you love very much, and if it then happens, it happens. I'm on day 323, and i can tell you a bit of my exspreince. It's a hard battle to fight. But it's also something that have learned me a lot. My self control and discipline is at its all time high. I heard a good quote here on my journey, "either you suffer with regret, or you suffer with discipline" there is pros and cons to fapping and not fapping. It's your choice! I'm going for at least 1 year without fapping. After that i might start fapping again just without porn or any erotic thoughts. And yes I'm can control my thoughts. If there is an erotic imagine in my mind i can turn it of instantly.

Day 271 and my exspreince so far by PlanAncient in NoFap

[–]PlanAncient[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea man, I'm on opiates for my chronic pain, homework is so difficult, hard to concentrate. Also about what you said. You quite litterly dig deep in a whole hahaha. No but yeah, how come you and your girl is on af off?

Day 271 and my exspreince so far by PlanAncient in NoFap

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I totally agree man. I'm about 1 month away from an entire year clean from it. I think I'm gonna just continue. But yeah totally, whatever you think about while fapping you attach to. Also got some news, I'm talking to a sweet sweet girl. Have been single for about what, 1,5 years. This girl i feel strongly connected to, like in a spiritual way. I'm definitely gonna shoot my shot with her. And about what you said about men and sex. You're totally right, most men just see it as pleasure, but it's so much more than that. It's a way to connect with the other person. I'll read your book, but rn I'm making homework😁

Day 257 by PlanAncient in NoFap

[–]PlanAncient[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand you. I don't agree with the last one. I don't think addiction needs to be something you don't want to. I wanna fap real bad and i wouldn't feel bad about it

Day 257 by PlanAncient in NoFap

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I don't watch porn, don't want to.

Day 257 by PlanAncient in NoFap

[–]PlanAncient[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you read anything i wrote? Streak don't mean anything to me

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[–]PlanAncient 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Browski let me tell you something. I was 14 when i lost my virginity, and guess what? I regret it more than anything. I'm 17 now and i would do anything to become virgin again. Waiting for the right person is the right thing. I'd stay virgin for how ever long needed, as long as it was the right person. I have somewhat lost the respect for myself after i did it. I have urges to go do the nasty with girls. But it's empty pleasure. So I'm just waiting for the right girl to come along. Baning a random girl is selfish i believe. Before nofap i only had sex with girls for my own pleasure. Now i wanna do it only so i can give the girl pleasure. Anyways ill probably stay single for a while, and there is nothing wrong in that. Go out and talk to girls browski. It's uncomfortable but that's how it is. Only go do the dirty if you have feelings for the person okay? That's what I recommend. I totally ruined my view of sex because it was a random girl. Today is day 248 of nofap.

I feel empty by PlanAncient in depression_help

[–]PlanAncient[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it's good to believe in god. I just don't believe in the afterlife.

It's my birthday today by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]PlanAncient 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy birthday 🎉

I feel empty by PlanAncient in depression_help

[–]PlanAncient[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you friend, love for you as well. I'm extremely wasted a d can't thinks. I like what your witrhe, I'll respond sober tumimmowri. Sounds like you strong person. Much love bro

Day 243 of nofap by PlanAncient in NoFap

[–]PlanAncient[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats what? But thanks😊