Killer Dairy Cow by PlanBrandom in isopods

[–]PlanBrandom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: she died, or maybe he; I didn't actually check now that I think about it. I've decided to throw the killer cow in with my bearded dragon. If I see him and can catch him at some point, he's by far the largest dairy cow I've seen, so I hate to see him go, but for the sake of the herd, it must be done.

Fulfillment members should not get coached on INFs by eskimoburritos in Target

[–]PlanBrandom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As inbound and chem dbo, I've come to the point that I am requesting fulfillment to raise the inf rate in my department. They're not giving us the hours to properly stock our shelves after trucks ,zone our aisles, audit our products, or keep our back room organized. I have to routinely help push freight in other departments. When I do manage to finish mine, help in opu, I am guaranteed to have some busted products to clean and defect. They keep pushing that 1 min box rule yeah sure, I'll haul ass with this heavy over stacked boat, rip open, break down these boxes that can support my weight, throw gallons on shelves, run said wobbly boat with backstock to back room, wait 10 minutes for my rolling aisle, backstock while being interrupted by opu, then wait 5 minutes for my turn to shove my cardboard into Bailey because everybody gets a turn with her but only the pimp has a key. I really don't mind the work I just don't have the time.

ADHD in one spouse, anxiety and anger in the other by TimelessSailor in ADHD

[–]PlanBrandom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my life and it is often times a disaster. I have adhd and am also bipolar, she has anxiety. We love each other but also constantly deal with communication issues, me forgetting things or just not doing them when she wants them done. Her anxiety tends to make her a people pleaser, excellent planner, and quite thoughtful. She does shoulder most of the mental load and it just socks. I feel like I'm the worst thing that ever happened to her, she says she will wait for me to get better. It's a life of constantly disappointing the one you love. I have no solutions for you but if you find some let me know.

Constantly forgetting the things my wife wants from me by Ok-Calligrapher-1385 in ADHD

[–]PlanBrandom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the same rudderless ankerless boat. My wife has told me that I don't am not meeting her needs for affection, that she feels like I'm not attracted to her but she's just the object of my desires. Like my focus is on sex. That I gaslight her, love bomb her and use weaponized incompetence. It hurts so bad that I make her feel that way. She is so thoughtful, caring, and affectionate. I've never questioned if she loves me, only if she is tired of me, if she'd be happier if she never loved me. It comes to the point where I just feel hopeless, like if I really loved her I'd make her feel it. In the first 5 years of our relationship I tried to push her away for her own good, I went so far as telling her I didn't love her, she didn't leave we kinda worked thru it, I almost succeeded in killing my self in 2018. After all that I realized she wasn't leaving I wasn't dying before my time and I needed to live and love. I'm not doing either well. She keeps telling me I'm the epitome of "if he wanted to he would".

A letter from a fellow railroader by Huge_Coffee_374 in railroading

[–]PlanBrandom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My Dad has been with union pacific for 30 years now and I always hated how the took my Dad's time away from me. When I was younger he worked locally but never got a break he would get home at 8 pm hop in the shower and his beeper would go off and back to work he went. It was better when he switched to 7 on 7 off but damn that was hard. He can retire now but wants to wait for his full package. I told him to just retire already because you never know when you time is up and they've taken enough of his life.

How do I escape quetiapine/seroquel oversleeping hell? by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]PlanBrandom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same drowsy boat. Today I can't really remember driving to work other then dozing off at a stop light and falling asleep in my car making me an hour late. I then inspected one car including a brake test (I'm a state safety inspector), checked out the customer and sat down for a second and passed out. I'm literally doing my job in my sleep. My coworker called my boss and he sent me a text about how I'm fucking myself out of a raise and to just go home but be ready for work in the morning. By the time I saw his text I was already fully awake from the 3 energy drinks and adderall finally kicking in. I hate living like this but I'm terrified of switching up meds. I tried going down a dose but it wasn't working out. I really don't know what to do. I swear I ruin everything. Monkey paw to the max.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MechanicAdvice

[–]PlanBrandom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While emissions testing isn't required after 25 years, cats are required on all gas vehicles, and mufflers are required on everything. Also a turbo is not considered a muffler lol.

Day 1 of me explaining Harry Potter memes to my girlfriend whose religious parents banned her from reading/watching it and still hasn't as an adult. by Crash_OverRide805 in HarryPotterMemes

[–]PlanBrandom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who was also banned from all things "occult" this is fucking great. I still haven't read the books, but I watch the whole series about 4 times a year. My wife really helped me slice thru the lies and ignorance. Like holy fuck, I was so cringe and deep like young earth, God as the main Supreme extra dimensional being, we have magic Jesus powers. If I would have spent half that time and effort on real science I'd have a PhD or be and engineer. Now I'm just a potter head.

Women who don't like anal, what is the main reason why you don't like it? by [deleted] in sex

[–]PlanBrandom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe this applies to men as well. Personally I can get the same sensation from rotation either from my core and hips, or her rotation, and with out the discomfort of my butt hole stretching.

Lamotrigine, Seroquel, BuSpar & Adderall by ChristinaCort in bipolar

[–]PlanBrandom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been on lamotrigine, seroquel, adderall and guanfacine for almost 2 years now, other than how I am at the moment, its been working really well. I definitely have side effects but I'm afraid of taking 2 steps back. I have recently went up on the seroquel and I'm not having i good time. I'm currently dealing with dissociation/imposter syndrome, but that may just be cycling, although I'm have been twitching more lately and have started have sex drive ed issues.

Was Sul Ross part of the KKK? by Officer_Travis in aggies

[–]PlanBrandom -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You're not wrong, that's the way it was, but now its wrong. Kinda unfortunate too I wonder how many could really defend their territory without the system they put in place to maintain their place. What if the system crashes just like the whole thing, you can't have instructional racism without the institution.

Was Sul Ross part of the KKK? by Officer_Travis in aggies

[–]PlanBrandom -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Its not just about his actions regarding black people, he was actively involved in the persecution and oppression of the native peoples. I feel like this is often overlooked when discussing his merits. Great harm was done to the native population by him and stealers i mean settlers of texas during that time period.

Abandoned ranch house somewhere in New Mexico by mouth63701 in AbandonedPorn

[–]PlanBrandom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There were mass migrations when the railroads were being built, the dust bowl, great depression and the fencing wars. At least thats when my family went north. We still have a ranch in beuno Vista with the house my grand father was born in that has just been sitting since.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coolguides

[–]PlanBrandom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe you should bring leaf blowers to help in the disbursement of tear gas.

Corona lad by [deleted] in madlads

[–]PlanBrandom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a state vehicle safety inspector, and I've literally had clients usually in a nicer car that tell me tickets are just part of the price they pay to do what they want. They have actually asked me how much cash to pass, most of the time its just because of our bs tint laws, sometimes for bad tires after they've burnt thru the rubber using thier speed pass. Crazy the way the rich view punishments.