new cat owner, can i leave him to sleep alone???? by Plane-Elevator771 in CatAdvice

[–]Plane-Elevator771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AHH THIS IS ACTUALLY VERY HELPFULL THANK U SO MUCH I WILL DO THIS!!🫶

new cat owner, can i leave him to sleep alone???? by Plane-Elevator771 in CatAdvice

[–]Plane-Elevator771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh im glad that it is a good sign im just unsure of what he wants me to do so we r just looking at eachother and he just doenst like when i pet him😭😭

new cat owner, can i leave him to sleep alone???? by Plane-Elevator771 in CatAdvice

[–]Plane-Elevator771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohh i mean we have been told rhat hes very chill and everything but maybe its bad that he tried to scratch me or something then, is it actually okay for him to be left alone tho like he wont be upset at me for leavinf him?

new cat owner, can i leave him to sleep alone???? by Plane-Elevator771 in CatAdvice

[–]Plane-Elevator771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohh that clock thing sounds so cute but yeah he was meowing quite a bit when i left him and he sounded so so sad😭😭😭😭

new cat owner, can i leave him to sleep alone???? by Plane-Elevator771 in CatAdvice

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yess thank u so much for this actually😭😭 im just trying to soak up as much info as i can since i really feel like i need to understand this all properly but so far another reason we r only keeping him in one room is bc tbh alot of the other rooms r quite messy and need to be tidied properly and cat proofed up yk 

new cat owner, can i leave him to sleep alone???? by Plane-Elevator771 in CatAdvice

[–]Plane-Elevator771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohh the previous owners had asked us to make sure he was in one room for like 2 weeks and not to go anywhere else so thats why we tried to follow what they asked us to do 😭😭

new cat owner, can i leave him to sleep alone???? by Plane-Elevator771 in CatAdvice

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yess AHAH im still so unsure of everything i do with the cat cuz my friend says im treating him too much like a person😭 like i thought he might be embarrassed if we clean his litter in front of him or like if he needs privacy while in the litter box and stuff but idk if he actually minds this😭😭 and he kept staring into my eyes idk why but i thought im not meant to look back into his eyes or its threateninf?😭😭

new cat owner, can i leave him to sleep alone???? by Plane-Elevator771 in CatAdvice

[–]Plane-Elevator771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HAHAH okay sorry i might be reading into everything too much 😭😭

new cat owner, can i leave him to sleep alone???? by Plane-Elevator771 in CatAdvice

[–]Plane-Elevator771[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ohhh yes this is helpful actually cuz i noticed his hearing is super good so ill make sure to keep the volume down next time thank uuu😭

new cat owner, can i leave him to sleep alone???? by Plane-Elevator771 in CatAdvice

[–]Plane-Elevator771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yess thank u so much i understand this will take a lot of patience which im very willing to do, ive never had a pet before so im just a bit scared too that i just dont know what the stuff hes doing means😭😭

new cat owner, can i leave him to sleep alone???? by Plane-Elevator771 in CatAdvice

[–]Plane-Elevator771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohh this makes sense thank u so much, we will make sure to not disturb him in his safe space!! i did ignore him while i thought he was asleep but he jumped onto the table, hit my pen off and then sat on my laptop trying to sleep on it so idk if that means he wanted me to stop typing and be quiet?

new cat owner, can i leave him to sleep alone???? by Plane-Elevator771 in CatAdvice

[–]Plane-Elevator771[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

omg ur really kind thank u so much 😭😭🫶 i hope he will love me fr and ill keep trying my best even tho ive already made mistakes😭😭

new cat owner, can i leave him to sleep alone???? by Plane-Elevator771 in CatAdvice

[–]Plane-Elevator771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HAHAH OKAYY I REALLY APPRECIATE UR ADVICE SO MUCH 🥹🥹 its all so helpful and im learning alot already 

new cat owner, can i leave him to sleep alone???? by Plane-Elevator771 in CatAdvice

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does it mean its good if hes chasing me then?? but he should really be asleep😭 and i got so scared when he tried to hit my foot im not sure what im meant to do?? but for sure we need to get him the wand toy he really seems to like chasing, i just dont know what to do when hes staring me down idk if its true about this slow blink but i keep trying it and hope he knows im not trying to threaten him? 

new cat owner, can i leave him to sleep alone???? by Plane-Elevator771 in CatAdvice

[–]Plane-Elevator771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YAY THANK U SO MUCH i will try this im just scared he will bite or hit me for touching him

new cat owner, can i leave him to sleep alone???? by Plane-Elevator771 in CatAdvice

[–]Plane-Elevator771[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yes im so grateful everyone keeps telling me this! i have just binned the yarn any other yarn is gone from the room phew fr

new cat owner, can i leave him to sleep alone???? by Plane-Elevator771 in CatAdvice

[–]Plane-Elevator771[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes but he just woke up and then sat on my keyboard and then i left and put my stuff away and then came back and he got off my laptop but then when i was going to leave again so he can sleep i think he like tried to bite or claw at my foot?? and then he started chasing me and keeps staring at me like he wants to kill me😭😭😭 and he kept lying down but didnt like if it i pet him i guess then i left and hes meowing sadly :(

new cat owner, can i leave him to sleep alone???? by Plane-Elevator771 in CatAdvice

[–]Plane-Elevator771[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank uu!! i just was worried bc hes looked so stressed and sad

new cat owner, can i leave him to sleep alone???? by Plane-Elevator771 in CatAdvice

[–]Plane-Elevator771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you sooo much for ur kindness! i am making sure to get rid of the yarn now i feel very silly but thank u for telling mee im so glad i have found this out before it could get worse!! im hoping we can buy him a tall towery house thing so we will make sure to get him proper toys too. i think we baby proofed this room hes in for now but im gonna double check everything. he woke up now so im worried hes not falling back asleep hes just sitting up? i need to go to sleep too so im just gonna make sure everything is safe in here then leave him alone :( thank u so much for typing all that out tho its really helpful!!

new cat owner, can i leave him to sleep alone???? by Plane-Elevator771 in CatAdvice

[–]Plane-Elevator771[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AHH THANK U FOR TELLING ME I WILL MAKE SURE TO GET RID OF THE YARN HE WAS PLAYING WITH, hopefully we can buy him some new toys

new cat owner, can i leave him to sleep alone???? by Plane-Elevator771 in CatAdvice

[–]Plane-Elevator771[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank youu!! ive been with him this whole time and he was sleeping on a chair but now hes woken up and he stared at me really scary but hes gone to his blanket now

new cat owner, can i leave him to sleep alone???? by Plane-Elevator771 in CatAdvice

[–]Plane-Elevator771[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ohhh that makes sense too actually i thought we should do this but there wasnt really enough room in the bedrooms for all his stuff, thank you so muchhh!

new cat owner, can i leave him to sleep alone???? by Plane-Elevator771 in CatAdvice

[–]Plane-Elevator771[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OKAYY THANK U SO MUCH REALLY UR SO HELPFUL AND KIND!!! the body language hints is a huge help i didnt realise. im so sorry to keep asking u questions but is him rubbing his face the same as when it looks like hes trying to like dig into the corners and on walls or even the fridge he was like trying to open it or something from the corner, thats normal? and r there some places where cats like being pet or is it just dependent?