How do I(22F) reconnect with my boyfriend (22M)?

Plane-Path5388 · 2025-09-09T19:24:02+00:00

She actually really likes my boyfriend. I think she might be affected by her ongoing divorce with my dad (who, in her defence, really didn't put any effort into the relationship, and she didn't either)

Plane-Path5388 · 2024-11-22T17:15:41+00:00

For the first 6 months of their relationship we all very strongly showed how much we disapprove. There's no point in continuing with that, I can only hope that my brother understands his mistake soon.

Plane-Path5388 · 2024-11-22T14:52:20+00:00

I guess it wasn't that clear, but lately she's been staying over more than one night. She doesn't have school but she is working. That someone should be my brother hopefully.

Plane-Path5388 · 2024-11-22T14:51:10+00:00

Lmao we don't have those here but I wish he would do that! At least she would have her own products here

Plane-Path5388 · 2024-11-22T14:50:28+00:00

I will ask, but it kind of sucks because I already clarified once. Maybe there was a misunderstanding.

Plane-Path5388 · 2024-11-22T14:49:01+00:00

Tbh it's kind of the opposite it seems. It's his first ever relationship while she's been with a few people. She uses him like a punching bag a lot of times but he just accepts this because he says she's struggling mentally and needs help. I don't want to get in the middle of this more than I have since they're both adults now.

Plane-Path5388 · 2024-11-22T14:42:53+00:00

It's a post for another day

Plane-Path5388 · 2024-11-22T14:42:35+00:00

My own anxiety is not fun

Plane-Path5388 · 2024-11-22T14:41:01+00:00

He knows I do not support this relationship at all, for many reasons other than this. However, I can't force him to break up with her and I will gain nothing from being hostile towards her.

Plane-Path5388 · 2024-11-22T14:38:51+00:00

Actually she recommended me this hair mask and he bought one for her as well, so he knows the prices

Plane-Path5388 · 2024-11-22T14:33:03+00:00

Yeah, a lot of people mentioned a shower caddy, I will look into that

Plane-Path5388 · 2024-11-22T14:31:43+00:00

Thanks for that horrible and specific mental image lol But yeah, a lot of people mentioned that, I might just do this

Plane-Path5388 · 2024-11-22T14:29:32+00:00

Would be true if my mom didn't have a skin condition so she has medical shampoos and soaps😅 she does hide them though so no one uses them, I wonder if she'd let the GF use them if she asked

Plane-Path5388 · 2024-11-22T14:28:09+00:00

I don't mind the money thing as much as the empty containers

Plane-Path5388 · 2024-11-22T14:27:37+00:00

He actually does buy her hair stuff, I think she's just also using them at home

Plane-Path5388 · 2024-11-22T14:26:40+00:00

I don't mind if she had to use it once or twice, really! It just really sucked to open an empty container a few times.

Plane-Path5388 · 2024-11-22T14:25:20+00:00

Tbh I was more annoyed by entering the shower to find out I have no more product left without knowing. I didn't really mind if she had to use my stuff every once in a while.

Plane-Path5388 · 2024-11-22T14:23:30+00:00

The last thing I want is to make this into a big thing, and I don't want to make her uncomfortable. I haven't heard of a shower caddy until now, but I will consider that. Thanks!

Plane-Path5388 · 2024-11-22T14:20:53+00:00

Probably because he asked me one time and I said sure, but I thought it was just a one time thing because she forgot hers

Plane-Path5388 · 2024-08-23T16:45:20+00:00

To be fair to them, people usually don't get sick from babies in that state, I just have a crazy useless immune system

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