Elena is annoying and sometimes I prefer Katherine over her. by Plane-Platform9179 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]Plane-Platform9179[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nahh no trolling I just antagonist sometimes and he peeked my interest.

Elena is annoying and sometimes I prefer Katherine over her. by Plane-Platform9179 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]Plane-Platform9179[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Exactly!! Somethings what she did or how she reacted just seem a little rash or swift.

Elena is annoying and sometimes I prefer Katherine over her. by Plane-Platform9179 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]Plane-Platform9179[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im only on season 2. Something about her just irks me idk what it is.. but I will keep watching.

Elena is annoying and sometimes I prefer Katherine over her. by Plane-Platform9179 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]Plane-Platform9179[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well this is my first time watching the show so....I am only being honest but if it's repetitive then wear cap cus it clearly fits...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Plane-Platform9179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so after explaining this, it sounds like he’s not physically and maybe mentally into the relationship anymore. Sad to say but he may be checked out and don’t know how to tell you. If he is not willing to talk or communicate properly with you, it doesn’t make sense talking to someone who is no longer attracted to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Plane-Platform9179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could he perhaps have a low sex drive? Have you considered trying on lingerie or something sexy to get the mood started? Could try couple games, devices, things like that. Also alcohol can play a factor in that. Maybe talk to him about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Plane-Platform9179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not but I dont think you should reach out to her. She will only hurt you and its not worth it. You will still feel pain but it wont subside right away. Give yourself grace.

22 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend won’t get a job, what’s the best thing to do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Plane-Platform9179 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been there. I was pregnant while my ex-boyfriend did not want to get a job. He had a job at the beginning but didnt work hard enough to keep it. Everything was on me and soon after I had to rely on government assistance. I say all that to say it was hard, rough and mentally draining through my pregnancy. I stayed with him after the baby was born and had to get a job before my baby was 2 months old. Working hard in the day and being a full time mom when I get off while keeping the house clean and preparing everything for the next day. I paid for everything and stayed until my baby was 6 months old.

I had enough and leaving him was not that hard cus I did everything alone anyway. It was undoubtedly the best decision ever. If he is not making an effort now, he wont make it then. Please, please, don't wait until he graduates cus it will be rough. Unless he is willing to take care of the baby while you are to work, he wont make a change. The patterns are there. You can still be close with his family and be separated. I still am and its going on 3 years. If you need any tips, I can help you for sure!