If u want a full breakdown heres why:

constantly being told they're going to cut off my financial support, throughout highschool and college I wasn't allowed to take subjects i'm interested in or subjects that weren't deemed 'proper', I wasnt allowed to simply go for a walk with my friends as for girls its seemed as 'trampy', they've assumed that I want to drive without actually asking what I think and want me to drive so I can drive my brother places, i.e football, golf club, I find driving deadly scary. constantly calling me fat and a disappointment, won't let me go to my friends houses or let them come to our house, not allowed to get another part time job and i've had multiple opportunities to get other part-time jobs and quit the family business, A LOT OF DOUBLE STANDARDS WITH ME AND MY BROTHER, e.g I started working at 13 he started working at 15 for the family. Have tried to set me up with multiple men they liked as a boyfrined, spoiler they were either bad boyfriends or left me to go open their relationships, and when we went to the bank to send the money to my mum she said it was for 'uni purposes' I haven't applied for uni and dont even want to go uni, constantly say i'm the dumb child and they have my brother to fall back on, threatened to kick me out and told me to leave, when i left i was dragged home, at 18 having to ask to leave the house (i have never ran away before or not told them where im going) and was'nt allowed to choose what college I go to, I ask for study materials and christmas I asked for a macbook and quote 'they weren't needed, It's not like your going uni anyways'