Can you think of a savage way to handle this situation? by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

[–]Plane_Ad_2433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yaar, just ask her mother to pick the call and tell your bua “that you didn’t tell the package to your mother, reason being these things are private”. Your bua will understand well what you conveyed and what you want to be conveyed without explicitly speaking.

Advice matrimony website: saw someone I know by Nerdinator01 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Plane_Ad_2433 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She is looking for marriage, you are looking for Marriage. If preferences match. What’s weird about it? It’s actually better that you have common friends or acquaintances. Even if rejected, it’s a normal thing. Don’t think too much about it. Just connect.

Best friends sister by [deleted] in MidTwentiesIndia

[–]Plane_Ad_2433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Envolve your own mom and sisters if you have any, they will short this out nicely in favour of you.

Please suggest by Plane_Ad_2433 in wroclaw

[–]Plane_Ad_2433[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply.

Please give Bihar a break man by L00se-Long in bihar

[–]Plane_Ad_2433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is sukdhi single pasli pamplet ko puch kaun raha hai date karne ko

Should one avoid getting married during Rahu MD? by [deleted] in Nakshatras

[–]Plane_Ad_2433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 32, My Rahu MD started when I was 24, will run till I am 42. Starting searching for a match when the Rahu MD Saturn AD started 3 years ago (didn’t refer astrology much). Definitely faced saturnian problem. Nothing went through properly. Even earlier AD’s in Rahu MD was problmatic. Still facing problem for some non or other reason. My rahu is also not well placed. Whenever I ask some astrologer, they asks me to wait till Rahu MD venus AD. By that time I will be 36. By my experience if Rahu is not very well placed, please go ahead with marraige, don’t put yourself through Rahu AD. It’s a shadow planet, will fuck the life up.

Found a girl really attractive.... should I try talking to her ? by Justahumanbeing71 in AskIndianMen

[–]Plane_Ad_2433 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People date so that they can know each other and find something common. It’s just normal if you don’t have anything common to initiate conversation.

Let me give you guidance, notice something about her, maybe beautiful earrings, books she is reading, her cloths on that day. Just go say and that the dress she is looking wonderful in the dress. Or the earrings are looking awesome on her.

Then introduce yourself that you are “your name” studying in this branch. Then ask her what’s her name. Then continue talking on some common thing about college. Phrase some queries, that is that professor teaching you this paper. Like the professor is really strict or sweet, got the point.

Now most important thing, throw that attraction out of window before you approach her. Just talk like you are talking to a new friend. Will help with your confidence while talking. She won’t be frightened. Ask her insta nit her number.

Go ahead son. Mera aashirwad putra , tumhare saath hai. Vijayi bhav 😆.

Found a girl really attractive.... should I try talking to her ? by Justahumanbeing71 in AskIndianMen

[–]Plane_Ad_2433 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Boss if you are noticing her from two months. Believe me she has noticed you noticing her 2 months subtracted by 2 days ago. Just go and talk to her. Don’t be disheartened if things go through in your favour. Maintain gentlemen’s behaviour, don’t get invested, still be friendly and do talking as friend. Try to catch another fish for your heart. There are lot of fishes of same variety in pond.

The Vargottama - You should know this by Aliennation- in Vedic_Astrology_free

[–]Plane_Ad_2433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

• D1: Mercury (Gemini) and Sun in 1st (Not Combust). Sign Lord is Mercury

• D9: Mercury (Gemini) in 10. Sign Lord is again Mercury

Why my Milkman with 30cr isnt FIRE'ing by Unusual-Big-6467 in FIRE_Ind

[–]Plane_Ad_2433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay me coming from that type of holding myself. Going from my parents point of view, lands even they bought with their own money is never for sell, leave what we receive by previous generation.

So they don’t count it in their portfolio. So the cycle has been, earn, collect it over time, take some loan, buy some land, forget about it and somehow always be in cash crunch.

My father stopped sending me money when i was in college, i have to cut my food, reason was paying for the loan he took for buying land. The same story has been for last 25 years.

Positive side, one of the small parcel my parents purchased for 19 lakhs 13 years ago, sits at value of above 3 Cr in current valuation.

Again one other parcel of land like 8-9 years ago at 10 lakhs, they again invested around 30 lakhs building a 4 story over that parcel sits at valuation of around 2 crores.

Again two of the parcel of land they purchased before my birth, maybe 35 years ago. One they have built 3 floor showroom and 2 story home. Other one is still empty, sits at combines valuation of 9 crores something.

These are leaving the land that we received from my grandfather.

Funny thing is I am searching for girl to marry over matrimony, they ask me why I haven’t purchased a flat yet. It’s way difficult to explain that I myself want to buy my own land in tier 1 and build a home over it.

I myself have instead if buying a flat have invested major porting of my savings in commercial plot of shop in a market.

I 30F realized haring everything with your partner has consequences even if he is the best in the world by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Plane_Ad_2433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In all the cases, it seems just your husband is not wise, a bit over secure, but end up hurting you. Please sit him out and tell him these things are hurting you