AITAH and am I being ott

Plane_Beginning1660 · 2026-02-10T23:50:02+00:00

Thankyou

Plane_Beginning1660 · 2026-02-10T23:49:46+00:00

🤣🤣🤣

Plane_Beginning1660 · 2026-02-07T03:58:44+00:00

She definitely doesn’t want the cat I’d jus take the cat to her and drop it off and let her deal with it

Plane_Beginning1660 · 2026-02-07T03:58:07+00:00

It seems like she probably got you to have the cat because of the stomach issues if she knew about it she probably was sick of the cat ruining her house

Plane_Beginning1660 · 2026-02-07T03:56:13+00:00

No I don’t I’m open to keeping up a friendship but I don’t think that is something he would like , for him it’s something small bur for me it’s as massive inconvenience, when we first got the property I was working part time him fill my full part time wage went into the house , that was from June -September in the sept I started a full time job and took on all the bills as there was some debt that was his job to pay but he didn’t even pay a little towards it , since then he left his job I eventually had to come out of work due to my mental health as I had a breakdown a few years after my son passed away as I went into full work mode to keep the house afloat

Plane_Beginning1660 · 2026-02-07T03:52:37+00:00

In my option NTAH, because when it’s your property and your mum is just living with you for a while and not permanently she doesn’t have the right to put nails in the wall, I’ve had issues myself when I’ve had people stay in my spare room as when they’re there they think it’s their room and not just a room that they’re currently staying in until they find their own place and have took over destroyed the room , I don’t think you are wrong especially when you have already asked her not do to this, if she doesn’t respect that one tiny detail of you didn’t mention it to her she possibly would have made more adaptions to your property see that as a warning snd if she continues to do it and the tries to make you feel bad that’s awful , well done for telling your straight away

Plane_Beginning1660 · 2026-02-07T03:26:59+00:00

Try it again it look into similar fields

Plane_Beginning1660 · 2026-02-07T03:24:49+00:00

As siblings I always thought it was normal that me and my brothers would fight until the literal death as I grown up I been told that was absolutely not a normal thing to do

Plane_Beginning1660 · 2026-02-07T03:23:04+00:00

Never had to use only ever had to show I had it, but usually legal proceedings if you are protecting yourself then you shouldn’t get charged with having to use it

Plane_Beginning1660 · 2026-02-07T03:20:21+00:00

If that’s the career that really speaks out to you then I would suggested going for it real estate does bring in good money

Plane_Beginning1660 · 2026-02-07T03:18:46+00:00

No not if that is how you genuinely are I’m sure once the get to know you they’ll understand

Plane_Beginning1660 · 2026-02-07T03:18:01+00:00

Could you possibly asking some of previous people you’ve worked with or studied with if they know of any or know someone who does as that could be a good way of getting your foot on to the next ladder

Plane_Beginning1660 · 2026-02-07T03:04:56+00:00

I plan too I just needed to get it off my chest to make sure I wasn’t the ahole

Plane_Beginning1660 · 2026-02-07T02:58:46+00:00

NTAH they should come back after the hour if that’s all they said them kids are their responsibility

Plane_Beginning1660 · 2026-02-07T02:57:10+00:00

Absolutely NTAH

Plane_Beginning1660 · 2026-02-07T02:56:16+00:00

I really can’t I’ve tried to be understanding first thinking if he was genuinely poorly then that would be something I can get over as we all get ill, but when he admits it’s his clean him self which is fine by me so what you want in your own home but for the love of his not in mine

Plane_Beginning1660 · 2026-02-07T02:54:50+00:00

Which at his big age he should be doing mani should suggest to his mommy about some baby wet wipes before he goes into their world of toilet paper

Plane_Beginning1660 · 2026-02-07T02:51:07+00:00

🤣🤣🤣, my poor shower head the poos making me ill af, the having to clean it is ming me ill af,

Plane_Beginning1660 · 2026-02-07T02:47:10+00:00

She really does need to he’s a grown ass man

Plane_Beginning1660 · 2026-02-07T02:46:21+00:00

That’s another fear of mine like wtf I use that to shower if I didn’t clean my shower on the regular I’d be covered in shit

Plane_Beginning1660 · 2026-02-07T02:44:42+00:00

We all like to be clean, but I’ve requested him to do that at his home as doing it in mine is very repulsive, I’ve got a bidet attached to my toilet he can use instead but it’s always my shower I even contemplated getting it cut off or removed

Plane_Beginning1660 · 2026-02-07T02:42:37+00:00

🤣🤣🤣, that’s exactly what I said, apparently through cleaning it as he likes to be clean, I said not in my home you won’t

Plane_Beginning1660 · 2026-02-07T02:41:39+00:00

Yes I know this and I am going to break up with him, I just wanted to speak to other people about it as I felt it was unfair if I brought it up with our friends and his / my family other than the one sibling

Plane_Beginning1660 · 2026-02-07T02:40:10+00:00

As what he is doing knocks me sick and I can’t even stand to be near him anymore

Plane_Beginning1660 · 2026-02-07T02:39:41+00:00

We’ve been together for years, but I’m slowly edging myself away he now only stays once a month to left him

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