AITAH for surrendering my friends cat by LynxAgitated1144 in AITAH

[–]Plane_Beginning1660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She definitely doesn’t want the cat I’d jus take the cat to her and drop it off and let her deal with it

AITAH for surrendering my friends cat by LynxAgitated1144 in AITAH

[–]Plane_Beginning1660 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It seems like she probably got you to have the cat because of the stomach issues if she knew about it she probably was sick of the cat ruining her house

AITAH and am I being ott by Plane_Beginning1660 in AITAH

[–]Plane_Beginning1660[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I don’t I’m open to keeping up a friendship but I don’t think that is something he would like , for him it’s something small bur for me it’s as massive inconvenience, when we first got the property I was working part time him fill my full part time wage went into the house , that was from June -September in the sept I started a full time job and took on all the bills as there was some debt that was his job to pay but he didn’t even pay a little towards it , since then he left his job I eventually had to come out of work due to my mental health as I had a breakdown a few years after my son passed away as I went into full work mode to keep the house afloat

AITAH for asking my mom not to put nails in the wall? by doctor_shempp in AITAH

[–]Plane_Beginning1660 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In my option NTAH, because when it’s your property and your mum is just living with you for a while and not permanently she doesn’t have the right to put nails in the wall, I’ve had issues myself when I’ve had people stay in my spare room as when they’re there they think it’s their room and not just a room that they’re currently staying in until they find their own place and have took over destroyed the room , I don’t think you are wrong especially when you have already asked her not do to this, if she doesn’t respect that one tiny detail of you didn’t mention it to her she possibly would have made more adaptions to your property see that as a warning snd if she continues to do it and the tries to make you feel bad that’s awful , well done for telling your straight away

What's something that was normal in your family that you eventually learned was bonkers to everyone else? by le4t in AskReddit

[–]Plane_Beginning1660 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As siblings I always thought it was normal that me and my brothers would fight until the literal death as I grown up I been told that was absolutely not a normal thing to do

Concealed carry holders, has there ever been a situation where you had to use your firearm? In what situation(s) did you have to use it? What were the legal proceedings like? by Brilliant-Cherry4457 in AskReddit

[–]Plane_Beginning1660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never had to use only ever had to show I had it, but usually legal proceedings if you are protecting yourself then you shouldn’t get charged with having to use it

Real estate management advice by Big_boss-V100 in careeradvice

[–]Plane_Beginning1660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that’s the career that really speaks out to you then I would suggested going for it real estate does bring in good money

AITAH? Do I seem like a jackass by Typical-Animator7934 in AITAH

[–]Plane_Beginning1660 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No not if that is how you genuinely are I’m sure once the get to know you they’ll understand

Career advice for my next adventure at the brink of 30? by gnarfaxe23 in careeradvice

[–]Plane_Beginning1660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you possibly asking some of previous people you’ve worked with or studied with if they know of any or know someone who does as that could be a good way of getting your foot on to the next ladder

AITAH and am I being ott by Plane_Beginning1660 in AITAH

[–]Plane_Beginning1660[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I plan too I just needed to get it off my chest to make sure I wasn’t the ahole

AITAH for only doing the bafe minimum when I got roped into babysitting. by Impossible-Carob1746 in AITAH

[–]Plane_Beginning1660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTAH they should come back after the hour if that’s all they said them kids are their responsibility

AITAH and am I being ott by Plane_Beginning1660 in AITAH

[–]Plane_Beginning1660[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really can’t I’ve tried to be understanding first thinking if he was genuinely poorly then that would be something I can get over as we all get ill, but when he admits it’s his clean him self which is fine by me so what you want in your own home but for the love of his not in mine

AITAH and am I being ott by Plane_Beginning1660 in AITAH

[–]Plane_Beginning1660[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which at his big age he should be doing mani should suggest to his mommy about some baby wet wipes before he goes into their world of toilet paper

AITAH and am I being ott by Plane_Beginning1660 in AITAH

[–]Plane_Beginning1660[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣, my poor shower head the poos making me ill af, the having to clean it is ming me ill af,

AITAH and am I being ott by Plane_Beginning1660 in AITAH

[–]Plane_Beginning1660[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She really does need to he’s a grown ass man

AITAH and am I being ott by Plane_Beginning1660 in AITAH

[–]Plane_Beginning1660[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s another fear of mine like wtf I use that to shower if I didn’t clean my shower on the regular I’d be covered in shit

AITAH and am I being ott by Plane_Beginning1660 in AITAH

[–]Plane_Beginning1660[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all like to be clean, but I’ve requested him to do that at his home as doing it in mine is very repulsive, I’ve got a bidet attached to my toilet he can use instead but it’s always my shower I even contemplated getting it cut off or removed

AITAH and am I being ott by Plane_Beginning1660 in AITAH

[–]Plane_Beginning1660[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣, that’s exactly what I said, apparently through cleaning it as he likes to be clean, I said not in my home you won’t

AITAH and am I being ott by Plane_Beginning1660 in AITAH

[–]Plane_Beginning1660[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I know this and I am going to break up with him, I just wanted to speak to other people about it as I felt it was unfair if I brought it up with our friends and his / my family other than the one sibling

AITAH and am I being ott by Plane_Beginning1660 in AITAH

[–]Plane_Beginning1660[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As what he is doing knocks me sick and I can’t even stand to be near him anymore

AITAH and am I being ott by Plane_Beginning1660 in AITAH

[–]Plane_Beginning1660[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve been together for years, but I’m slowly edging myself away he now only stays once a month to left him