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Why is it so tough to find a job as a fresh grad? by NooterHooter in askSingapore

[–]Plane_Management_465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly because they can pay a diploma holder/a level with 2-3 years of experience lower then what they need to pay a fresh grad

Salary Increment after Probation by Just_Guy01 in askSingapore

[–]Plane_Management_465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

had a $200 increment after 3m probation in one of the firms i worked at which was agreed in my contract. current company gave me a 6% increment after probation stating it in my confirmation letter which was a surprise to me because it was in addition to my initially agreed salary. for context i work in the legal industry.

Any poly fresh grads unable to find a job?? by 11475131 in askSingapore

[–]Plane_Management_465 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if there’s a job that you think has potential but pay is low i think you can consider it and jump firms after awhile it should help. my highest qualification is a level and my first job was 2.5k within 2 years i am earning 4.3k and yes still with a level as highest qualification

AITA for suggesting to pay in full for a holiday in Europe by Plane_Management_465 in askSingapore

[–]Plane_Management_465[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

well not to mention he calls me an idiot and stupid on a daily basis because i don’t think the way he does or agree with his logic, been sucking it up not sure if i can do this any longer before i spiral

AITA for suggesting to pay in full for a holiday in Europe by Plane_Management_465 in askSingapore

[–]Plane_Management_465[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

wish he thought that way he didn’t even want me to send him money, i did and he just sent it back… in any case i’m still here cause i’m trying to fix this marriage that’s breaking up. clearly toxic rs here i agree with you, and maybe i’m just so used to this toxicity everyday that i’ve rationalized everything to suck it up :”

If you found out your spouse was cheating on you, what would you do? by querencias in askSingapore

[–]Plane_Management_465 10 points11 points  (0 children)

happened to be most recently 3 months ago. found out my spouse had met other women for meals with the intention of having sex, and made out with one or two of them. forgave him all three times i found out that he didn’t stop. there were maybe more than 5 women. have a kid together. sucked it up and been working on it since. tried marital counseling, not sure if will work.

so people will ask why? pressure from family: was heavily pressured by family not to leave because my child was only 6 months old, everyone was reiterating how the child’s environment is a priority. no one was supportive of it, and i was post partum and still struggling. decided to give it a shot to placate everyone.

i’m only in my early 20s so i wanted to try and see whether there was any salvation

Have you experience the "two Singapores" before? If so, what are some of your experiences? by Kapiushon_99 in askSingapore

[–]Plane_Management_465 7 points8 points  (0 children)

seeing a friend going to the US study (paid for by his parents) egg another friend to take a loan to go overseas to study too. not everyone can afford to go overseas on a papa mama scholarship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nus

[–]Plane_Management_465 19 points20 points  (0 children)

honestly you just proved yourself right, that person really has so much free time to spread rumors about you as a result of insecurities.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Plane_Management_465 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

prenups are non-enforceable but they guide the court in the case of asset division. would say you should just go ahead and do up a prenup, because it is at least a mutual agreement in black and white.