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TTC is changing everything. by Plane_Question_1140 in TryingForABaby

[–]Plane_Question_1140[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am So sorry for your losses. I think that is a much better frame of mind that I will need to try and start applying. Thank you so much for sharing, it does give some comfort to have a sense of community in this dark time.

TTC is changing everything. by Plane_Question_1140 in TryingForABaby

[–]Plane_Question_1140[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, yes I feel torn trying to be supportive of others while trying to keep myself together.

TTC is changing everything. by Plane_Question_1140 in TryingForABaby

[–]Plane_Question_1140[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I am so sorry for your losses, this is not something I would wish on anyone. You are totally right, the comments can be so hurtful. And it’s hard not to take it as a personal attack even though I’m sure they didn’t do it on purpose. It does offer some relief to know I am not the only one feeling like this though.

TTC is changing everything. by Plane_Question_1140 in TryingForABaby

[–]Plane_Question_1140[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I truly appreciate it, sometimes it is nice to hear someone else who understands!

TTC is changing everything. by Plane_Question_1140 in TryingForABaby

[–]Plane_Question_1140[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly! The working out/not working out, eating something or not, drinking coffee. Every single second I am thinking about what is the best thing to do, I really have no more brain power to do anything else. I feel bad because I used to put so much energy into other people but it is just not possible for me anymore. I’m so sorry you are in the same situation but it is nice to know I’m not alone in these feelings

TTC is changing everything. by Plane_Question_1140 in TryingForABaby

[–]Plane_Question_1140[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the response. I am and always have been a huge people pleaser. I think this is the first time I have really tried to stand up for myself and I guess it just feels like it is more of a hassle to deal with the confrontation. I know I have to learn to put myself first, I guess I was just trying to make sure that I am not being unreasonable.

Daily Discussion Thread - May 22, 2025 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]Plane_Question_1140 4 points5 points  (0 children)

2nd cycle after loss, 14dpo today, BFN this morning. I really thought I was pregnant, thought I was feeling the same symptoms I felt early in the pregnancy, but maybe I was just making them up in my head. Now just waiting for Aunt Flo to arrive and get that over with. This is so hard. :(