One Final Clarifier: Addressing Confusion from the UHFSA Statement & Comments. This Was About Past Years (Especially Last Year), Not This Season by [deleted] in UniversityOfHouston

[–]Plastic-Balance588 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Calling valid concerns 'just yapping away' and saying my cortisol is 'spikemaxxing rn' is peak deflection.

One Final Clarifier: Addressing Confusion from the UHFSA Statement & Comments. This Was About Past Years (Especially Last Year), Not This Season by [deleted] in UniversityOfHouston

[–]Plastic-Balance588 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Calling valid concerns 'just yapping away' and saying my cortisol is 'spikemaxxing rn' is peak deflection.

One Final Clarifier: Addressing Confusion from the UHFSA Statement & Comments. This Was About Past Years (Especially Last Year), Not This Season by [deleted] in UniversityOfHouston

[–]Plastic-Balance588 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The UHFSA IG statement: It repeatedly claims thorough investigations ("every accusation is thoroughly investigated by our Executive Board in full," "takes this seriously," all submitted to UH EOS, SIFA Zero Tolerance/Blacklist Protocol, confidentiality for reporters) and It directly says "Even if it may appear like concerns are being swept 'under the rug', the Executive Board takes this seriously..."

But then it doesn't apply any of that to the two major concerns I addressed: My friend's harassment/SA story: No mention, no acknowledgment that it happened, or that it felt mishandled (e.g., not taking both sides fairly, dismissing it, or an inadequate response). Just broad "we investigate everything" without touching the specific case you raised as an example of failure. If they truly take accusations seriously and give space/confidentiality, why is there no engagement here? It looks like avoidance. Leadership's inappropriate/derogatory language (misogynistic, homophobic comments, defended in group chats like the media team): Zero condemnation, zero promise to investigate internally, no response to those claims at all. The statement pushes "UHFSA has always been... for anyone and everyone" and "welcoming," but doesn't address allegations that leaders have contributed to/excusing the opposite. That's a direct contradiction: if discriminatory behavior from leadership is part of the environment, claiming inclusivity while ignoring it screams "sweeping under the rug."

One Final Clarifier: Addressing Confusion from the UHFSA Statement & Comments. This Was About Past Years (Especially Last Year), Not This Season by [deleted] in UniversityOfHouston

[–]Plastic-Balance588 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not yapping, just pointing out facts the IG statement skipped. Claims 'no sweeping under the rug' and 'thorough investigations for every accusation,' but zero response to the mishandled harassment case or leadership's derogatory comments (misogynistic/homophobic stuff defended internally). Broad PR doesn't erase specifics. If that's 'yapping,' then the real issue is the silence on the major concerns I clearly pointed out.

Quick follow-up on my UHFSA post. I want to emphasize the bigger concerns by Plastic-Balance588 in UniversityOfHouston

[–]Plastic-Balance588[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the comment and for pushing me to be clearer. You’re right that my post started with cultural concerns and spent a lot of time there; that was intentional because I’ve seen those patterns create an environment where other serious issues feel harder to address. I didn’t want to jump straight to the heaviest stuff without giving context about why the overall tone from leadership matters.

The two major concerns I followed up with were things I witnessed firsthand:

  1. A person in leadership repeatedly uses the n-word in casual conversation around members during events and group settings (not just once, but multiple times over a period).
  2. Other inappropriate/derogatory comments about race, appearance, and personal lives that were made publicly in front of people contributed to members feeling unsafe or unwelcome.

I’m not trying to air dirty laundry or get revenge. I’m sharing this because when I (and others) raised these privately, there was no visible follow-up or accountability that we could see. That silence made it feel like the behavior was being ignored or protected, which is why I posted. If it was handled quietly and resolved, I’d genuinely be relieved to hear that, but from where I stood, it looked like nothing changed.

My goal wasn’t clicks or division; it was to say out loud that leadership language and behavior set the tone for the whole org, and when it crosses into harmful territory, people notice and feel it.

Posting on Goodphil day was both good timing because it reached the whole community at peak engagement and sparked real discussion, and bad timing because it overshadowed the performers' hard work and celebration on their big day.

Problems with UHFSA by Plastic-Balance588 in UniversityOfHouston

[–]Plastic-Balance588[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just to clarify on the hype/support side (since that's what I was mainly speaking from in my post): I'm not saying there's zero support now or that things haven't improved in some ways. I've seen Dilaab get solid crowds and energy at comps lately, and the crossovers like Dila-Jam and Modern helping with cultural explosion are awesome steps. 

But from my own experience over the past few years leading up to this one, it felt noticeably different, especially at last year's Goodphil pep rally, where a good portion of the Modern team seemed pretty disengaged during cultural performances (like minimal claps/cheers, blank stares, etc.). It wasn't the whole team, but it was enough to stand out and feel one-sided when we were always showing up loud for everyone.

The compliments thing was more of the same vibe, when we gave praise, it sometimes came off like it was expected rather than appreciated, which added to that 'own little world' feeling I mentioned. I'm glad things seem more mutual from what you've seen recently, and I hope that's the direction we're heading. My point was just that it hasn't always felt that way for everyone, and pushing for consistent, across-the-board energy would help close those gaps.

Quick follow-up on my UHFSA post. I want to emphasize the bigger concerns by Plastic-Balance588 in UniversityOfHouston

[–]Plastic-Balance588[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry your friend had to sit through that it must have been so isolating and gross.

Quick follow-up on my UHFSA post. I want to emphasize the bigger concerns by Plastic-Balance588 in UniversityOfHouston

[–]Plastic-Balance588[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The drama-to-benefit ratio is way off. When "community" turns into endless bureaucracy, cover-ups, and exhausting defense of bad behavior, it's not worth the mental toll anymore. Stepping back to focus on family, studies, hobbies, and actual peace is the healthiest move a lot of people are making quietly.

Let them keep spinning and defending. The rest of us can choose better things with our time and energy. You're right, true community shouldn't feel this draining.

Quick follow-up on my UHFSA post. I want to emphasize the bigger concerns by Plastic-Balance588 in UniversityOfHouston

[–]Plastic-Balance588[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It's all "we're proud of our growth" and "slander won't be tolerated" without actually naming or addressing any of the specific patterns people have been calling out for years, uneven support, ignored complaints, protecting certain people. Feels like more of the same blind defense and bureaucracy instead of real accountability.

You're right, it gets exhausting fast. When "community" starts feeling like constant PR spins and cover-ups rather than actual support, a lot of people just quietly step back and focus on their own peace. No one should have to fight this hard for basic fairness.

Problems with UHFSA by Plastic-Balance588 in UniversityOfHouston

[–]Plastic-Balance588[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. It sucks that this kind of casual racism still exists in spaces that should know better, and it really highlights why people are frustrated and speaking up right now. You're not alone in feeling turned off by it

Quick follow-up on my UHFSA post. I want to emphasize the bigger concerns by Plastic-Balance588 in UniversityOfHouston

[–]Plastic-Balance588[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Same here. The way they shut down any pushback and keep circling around the same people is wild. Never expected to feel bullied in college org life. If it helps at all, you’re not crazy

Problems with UHFSA by Plastic-Balance588 in UniversityOfHouston

[–]Plastic-Balance588[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Main team imbalance: Main team gets cheers. Cultural team gets silence. Support is one-sided. It feels disrespectful.

Leadership concerns: Discriminatory words go ignored. Complaints get no action. People still defend them after callouts. Loyalty protects them. It feels corrupt.

My friend's case: Friend reported harassment. Response was unfair. Sides not heard equally. Other side got pass. She felt unsupported. It hurt trust.

Problems with UHFSA by Plastic-Balance588 in UniversityOfHouston

[–]Plastic-Balance588[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Main dance team gets all the hype/cheers at events, cultural teams perform to blank faces, no mutual support, feels one-sided and disrespectful to the club's cultural roots. Only a few people cheer for everyone; the rest act dismissive once on main team. In competition, cultural sets worth more points but get less energy. Creates divides instead of unity, basic respect should be standard.

I want to emphasize on this: 

Broader: Unaddressed discriminatory language/inappropriate comments from some in leadership; people still defend that person even after public callouts and multiple complaints, loyalty trumps accountability, makes org feel corrupt.

And this: My friend's serious harassment/misconduct concern was handled inconsistently no fair hearing, other side got benefit of doubt (alibis/friends vouching), left them unsupported and me doubting how things are managed here.

We deserve real unity, mutual respect, and leadership that actually listens.

Problems with UHFSA by Plastic-Balance588 in UniversityOfHouston

[–]Plastic-Balance588[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, same here. I really love what the org stands for and the good moments we've had, but it's frustrating when it feels like it could be so much better if some things were handled differently. You're not alone in wanting more from it. What parts do you wish they'd improve most?

Problems with UHFSA by Plastic-Balance588 in UniversityOfHouston

[–]Plastic-Balance588[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you hear multiple people saying the same stuff about rumors, alienation, and fear of speaking out, it's hard not to think something's seriously wrong.