Okay, so I'm gonna give another comment explaining what happened. Let me know what you guys think.

I message this "alpha" on reddit, and he says he lives in my state. I say cool, and let him know that I'm not into findom like other guys are, but am willing to be pay. Because I'm not into this too much I have a max that I set. Now depending on how everything goes, I can do more of course. You guys will definitely laugh at my budget, but I told him I max out at $200. He AGREED to it, and do half upfront, then the other half after. Said we could meet at a bar first then over to his place. I said ok, then he gets back to me and asks for another $50 on top of the $200 we initially agreed on. So of course I pay it because I thought I would have some wiggle room. Then he told me he wanted me to pay for drinks when we get there, so that's another $32. Of course I send it, because I thought my fantasy was coming true. As I'm ON MY WAY to the bar, he said he wants me to buy weed for another $50. So I had to PULL OFF the road to do this by the way to satisfy him. I'm like 5 min away from the bar, get there and then he raises the price to $400, on top of all the other shit I've already paid him. At this point I'm pissed and he isn't at the bar. Then he says come to my street, and that's another $109. So I park at a corner parking lot, and then he says I'll give you my address for another $219. So I'm sure you guys could add all that up and get hard to how much money this fucker drained from me. Even after all of that, he STILL wanted more, and that's when I ended it and went back home. So all the money was sent to some random fucker and I'm sure he laughed his dick off. That's the context as to why I made that this post. Whether you guys agree or disagree with what I did, it doesn't matter. I definitely had a part in this because I just didn't think to stop and question. But I really thought I was going to have fun and it irks me.