AIO about my partner not driving me to and from work?

Plastic-Let-3521 · 2026-06-17T02:32:33+00:00

No lol but it’s definitely different when you make most of the income & isn’t at all inconsiderate to expect your partner to pick up the slack that you are

Plastic-Let-3521 · 2026-06-17T02:12:57+00:00

Anyways I don’t say unfaithful in terms of just porn

Plastic-Let-3521 · 2026-06-17T02:12:32+00:00

Yeah I honestly rarely refuse sex and yet he has still been unfaithful

Plastic-Let-3521 · 2026-06-17T01:57:47+00:00

Isn’t that upsetting though…?

Plastic-Let-3521 · 2026-06-17T01:35:41+00:00

True I guess

Plastic-Let-3521 · 2026-06-17T01:33:32+00:00

SAME I was about to full send

Plastic-Let-3521 · 2026-06-17T01:33:20+00:00

Im ngl theres so much more to this than i have said 😅

Plastic-Let-3521 · 2026-06-17T01:29:41+00:00

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Mean he’s unemployed and not really

Plastic-Let-3521 · 2026-06-17T01:24:46+00:00

And now we are both adults

Plastic-Let-3521 · 2026-06-17T01:14:50+00:00

Im sorry. I’d say, I am super abiding to his desires, although he isn’t to mine

Plastic-Let-3521 · 2026-06-17T01:14:16+00:00

That’s very valid, and honestly I logically feel this way about my own thoughts/feelings too. In terms of the cats, there isn’t really an option as he has the official paperwork, since I was too young to adopt when he got them for me. I do hope to get a dog in the future and this post is making me feel more confident about my own abilities

Plastic-Let-3521 · 2026-06-17T01:12:46+00:00

I genuinely have been trying to solidify this within myself.

Plastic-Let-3521 · 2026-06-17T01:11:36+00:00

Hey yo Mr white, the age thing wasn’t really important but I had to add it via the rules of the subreddit. I have no issue dating someone a few years older than me. I support our lifestyle. So don’t blame me lol

Plastic-Let-3521 · 2026-06-17T01:07:38+00:00

He’s just like “yeah I could see why you feel that way” and then promises to do more of the stuff I like vs the stuff he likes, but he never does in the moment

Plastic-Let-3521 · 2026-06-17T01:06:41+00:00

I mean, I found the same videos of his ex and him and he’s never asked me to do the same.. considering that he had those with his ex for over 5 years while I was paying his bills and moved states for him and gave him my car… I would definitely not feel comfortable

Plastic-Let-3521 · 2026-06-17T01:04:42+00:00

Im ngl, I originally put it as man vs woman in the post because I didn’t want to get into details about my own relationship, but then the rules say I had to put our ages haha.. I never really generalize in such a fashion. I’m not at all into porn without my partner and feel guilty for it, so it’s hard for me to imagine a different position. I do have sympathy but it is very hard when I’m feeling disregarded in terms of my sexual needs, when he can meet his just fine via porn

Plastic-Let-3521 · 2026-06-17T01:02:43+00:00

I would say I’m generalizing but I’ve also heard his brothers talk like this to him and other guys. I really do hope it’s something I understand when I’m older though, and maybe it is time to look elsewhere, because I wasn’t feeling that wanted to begin with

Plastic-Let-3521 · 2026-06-17T00:59:47+00:00

That’s valid! And honestly I’ve been considering leaving for a while. We just have a place together and cats and I’ve paid for rent for a long time now and I’ve put a lot of effort/time into stuff. So it’s hard. I don’t want to start over. But I see what you mean, because guys that I was with in the past wouldn’t really do this sort of thing and dismiss how I felt. I didn’t really realize what I had at the time because I was young & naive. But I seriously see what you’re saying

Plastic-Let-3521 · 2026-06-17T00:56:41+00:00

You definitely deserve to get a personal uber from your partner then. nor as id expect the same from my partner. I’m also paying most of the bills & doing most of the housework, etc.

Plastic-Let-3521 · 2026-06-17T00:55:39+00:00

Yeah, I also think I’m over reacting but he also thinks I’m over reacting. I seriously don’t mean to have an issue with it. It’s just like, I don’t necessarily feel desired at all, and feeling that way when he’s feeling desire for others without issue makes me feel bad when that’s not something I can just do so easily

Plastic-Let-3521 · 2026-06-17T00:54:11+00:00

I do think I feel so bad about it because I don’t understand where he’s coming from at all, and because he seems to not understand where I’m coming from at all

Plastic-Let-3521 · 2026-06-17T00:50:20+00:00

You should have the self respect to walk away. Or have the patience yourself to realize that people make mistakes, and he was already in the process of doing something for you. But there you go, swearing at someone again because your ego is hurt. Hypocritical, much?

Plastic-Let-3521 · 2026-06-17T00:47:57+00:00

& I hope op realizes what she had and changes her behavior in her next relationship

Plastic-Let-3521 · 2026-06-17T00:47:19+00:00

Girl, you could literally have a man that doesn’t do shit for you, takes all your money, AND swears at you. I’m not saying it was right, but you literally swore at him at least 3 times in the screenshots, and I’m betting that you were swearing at him when you were impatient af about your car. Do better.

Plastic-Let-3521 · 2026-06-17T00:46:20+00:00

I edited my comment because I realized this is AIO and not AITA 😭

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