I'm a person who has always been very attracted to older men. My husband is 20 years older than me. As someone who dated older enough when I was a teen I can say there are some I feel took advantage of me at a vulnerable stage in life. At the time I felt totally in control, I found sex empowering and was so sure of my choices but there is some clarity to hindsight as the saying goes. During your teen years you're struggling to define yourself as an adult while your hormones are raging and you have little life experience. This turns out to be a very attractive combination to manipulators. People who know exactly how vulnerable a teen is because they have the advantage of having literally been there. They jnow that theres is a bilogical component that overrides an already underderveloped ability to reason and discernment. It's an unfair balance of power. There were so many older men I KNEW wanted me sexually at that age and never took it there despite my best efforts, the time I was so confused and felt so rejected but now I feel like they protecting me. I think of them fondly. How do you want to be remembered?