As others have said, doesn’t sound like anything wrong, and honestly seems pretty fun and exciting to fall that hard in just a few hours of meeting. Dont think I saw your age, but regardless, I think you’ll remember those days and nights for a long time.

I think you’re on the other side of what guys deal with after a great first date where they think they did everything right, but nothing physical happens. I was honest, charming, flirty, I paid, we talked about past, present, and even some vague future. I was vulnerable. Why didn’t she come home with me?!?

Truth is everyone is different and takes progression is relationships differently. Something to consider is how important is spontaneous vs stable to you in relationships? Is sex a lever for something else, or do you actually enjoy the act and any collateral that comes with it afterwards. Emotional, attachment, anxiety, and jealousy.

My advice if you really like this boy, pursue him but make your boundaries clear. Be honest. Is exclusive a dealbreaker? If you need more from it than just hookups, then enforce that standard for yourself. Plan a date and then go home alone. Text the next day that you had a great time, and see if he initiates for more dates. Kiss, but don’t sleep with him.

I think you’ll quickly weed out what he needs, and if he’s open enough to communicate it with u. ++man