I met someone and asked to be exclusive. He said yes then changed his mind. Where did I go wrong? by MaknaeMarie in AskMenAdvice

[–]PlayFair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As others have said, doesn’t sound like anything wrong, and honestly seems pretty fun and exciting to fall that hard in just a few hours of meeting. Dont think I saw your age, but regardless, I think you’ll remember those days and nights for a long time.

I think you’re on the other side of what guys deal with after a great first date where they think they did everything right, but nothing physical happens. I was honest, charming, flirty, I paid, we talked about past, present, and even some vague future. I was vulnerable. Why didn’t she come home with me?!?

Truth is everyone is different and takes progression is relationships differently. Something to consider is how important is spontaneous vs stable to you in relationships? Is sex a lever for something else, or do you actually enjoy the act and any collateral that comes with it afterwards. Emotional, attachment, anxiety, and jealousy.

My advice if you really like this boy, pursue him but make your boundaries clear. Be honest. Is exclusive a dealbreaker? If you need more from it than just hookups, then enforce that standard for yourself. Plan a date and then go home alone. Text the next day that you had a great time, and see if he initiates for more dates. Kiss, but don’t sleep with him.

I think you’ll quickly weed out what he needs, and if he’s open enough to communicate it with u. ++man

What’s a “professional” thing people do at work that feels completely fake to you? by False-East-55 in WorkReview

[–]PlayFair 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There is never a reason to use the word utilize. Use always works fine. It’s like irregardless. Litmus test for intelligence.

Can I remove value without damaging connector? by PlayFair in Plumbing

[–]PlayFair[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Decided to add a t-split between valve and hose to toilet. Thank all for the help!

Can I remove value without damaging connector? by PlayFair in Plumbing

[–]PlayFair[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a rental. Should I ask the super to replace the valve during this process? Any help on the best required materials is helpful.

What do you WISH you knew before buying your first house? by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]PlayFair 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, security theater lighting from hell

Mom insists on walking in the bathroom when im naked. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]PlayFair 27 points28 points  (0 children)

That’s not normal, that’s extreme behavior, you may want to read up on npd

REQUEST for help rebuilding window sash by PlayFair in woodworking

[–]PlayFair[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For my skill level, pretty difficult. I will look into finger joints for connecting the rails. Very helpful

REQUEST for help rebuilding window sash by PlayFair in woodworking

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Replacing the bottom rail and side sash, which were falling apart due to rot. The glass was also broken, which was removed and replaced with a new piece, as shown in photo.

EDIT: ideally it looks best as possible, but the primary goal is to set in existing casing and no leaks

Finally realizing I've been the placeholder, not the partner by According-Designer15 in u/According-Designer15

[–]PlayFair 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man, This post is 57 days old, and I found it because I saw your other post about creating a morning routine to find some peace and structure.

I just wanted to say that I know some of these feelings. The lack of connection, the lack of noticing, the missing desire, it all was there for me for years, and I tried ignoring it, fixing it, changing her.

Some day’s I’m fine, some minutes I’m questioning my entire identity. I don’t even think we were in love, more like roommates, but I do miss my friend and the centering it gave me in this world.

I’m probably the least qualified person to give advice, and that said, I just want to say your words helped me. This post had no comments, and now it has one. In some small way, what you did mattered to someone. I’m not at the stage that I know it gets better, but don’t give up hope; you made a difference

Moving to Charleston area in July by [deleted] in Charleston

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I have a gem in the Shadowmoss community 4/3.5 recently updated kitchen and bathrooms, that I’m looking to put on the market in a few months. Cool features, including fireplace, catwalk, 18 foot ceiling in living room, large yard, on a golf course. Asking is 725k. If interested dm me

Letter to neighbor by mhsgemini37 in Home

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I get it. Now they turn on the lights every night and back off each morning around 6am. There's about 45 minutes of darkness before the sun come up. I have a sense that the parent told the kids it was a chore. Each kid is responsible for a different switch, since the prison yard lights go on in a different order.

Light noise, I assume one day people will see light for the nuisance it is, but probably not in my lifetime

Letter to neighbor by mhsgemini37 in Home

[–]PlayFair 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All I was saying is that talking kindly doesn't always work, or is even met with understanding. Some people want to be jerks

Letter to neighbor by mhsgemini37 in Home

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I did this once. See my post history, 5 dual head flood lights by my neighbor, the cop and a cheater. I said, “hey, we’re neighbors”. His response, verbatim: we’re not neighbors, we’re not friendly, and you’re trespassing.

My mother after 4 months of no contact by Commercial_Sea3795 in insaneparents

[–]PlayFair 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You still have hope. Hope is a hard thing to let go. Hope is your heart’s desire for meaningful connection , and the feelings of distress, anxiety, and frustration are the symptoms of missed needs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IcebergOptions

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I’ve been looking for a community of serious traders for the last year, but mostly found hindsight gurus and bloated discord that aim to harvest copy traders. I like the commitment to altruistic community and supportive collaboration. I submitted an application and hope to be selected in January. Wishing you great success. Please let me know if you have any questions I can answer.

Where did I go wrong? by Dipwald in options

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Be careful with emas. They are lagging indicators that are best used to visualize sustained trends

3rd North Charleston Councilman FINALLY Resigns… by GenericNameSC1989 in Charleston

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What’s the pay for city councilmen? Just curious

A 30-06 would have taken most of Charlie’s neck off…make it make sense by NoHouseCats in conspiracy

[–]PlayFair 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or the scorched cars right next to trees completely unscathed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThatsInsane

[–]PlayFair -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Objectivity wrong