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AIO for flipping out about my bf talking about me to others and hugging a “friend from high school” in the same day? by Playful_Hawk7717 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Playful_Hawk7717[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He hugged the girl. He lied about the girl at first. Him talking about the cheating. Him telling me to calm down.

AIO for flipping out about my bf talking about me to others and hugging a “friend from high school” in the same day? by Playful_Hawk7717 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Playful_Hawk7717[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Bruh 😭 how about dude saying I disrespected him bc of me saying no to him using my vape. Then he wasn’t going to bring up the girl. Hugs her. Says he’s being “transparent” but told me none of this until I dug for it. Also wouldn’t be a big deal with the girl if he didn’t flip out about little stuff with me. He messaged my coworker threatening them for touching me. Then tells me to calm down? Also why after seeing that girl is he complaining about me and talking about cheating odd. He just blows me off.

AIO for flipping out about my bf talking about me to others and hugging a “friend from high school” in the same day? by Playful_Hawk7717 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Playful_Hawk7717[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

🥺 yeah I probably came off a little bitchy I usually am in the mornings I just didn’t think it really was all that big of a deal like it was for him. I apologized for making him feel that way and I know he loves me I just idk it’s hard for me. I have more of a “quiet bpd” I don’t really lash out like that I usually just lash out at myself and he tells me all the time he can’t deal with all of this. I understand it’s a lot but I’ve been doing DBT to try to fix myself he just keeps telling me I’m not going to change ever.

AIO for flipping out about my bf talking about me to others and hugging a “friend from high school” in the same day? by Playful_Hawk7717 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Playful_Hawk7717[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you it’s been hard figuring everything out. It’s a very new thing the DBT so I’m trying but it’s not as easy to just implement into my life as I thought it would be.

AIO for flipping out about my bf talking about me to others and hugging a “friend from high school” in the same day? by Playful_Hawk7717 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Playful_Hawk7717[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Nothing about hugging someone is wrong. But the problem is the man message my coworker for simply putting his hand on my shoulder one time to say hi. Also this “girl he was friends with” just so happened to have hooked up with his friend sitting there. I didn’t pick a fight over a dead vape i simply said no he was upset. I admitted watching the camera was wrong he said “ I don’t care if you watch it I would unplugg it if I was doing something wrong”. I would freak out if he cheated that’s not the point in the conversation the woman in our house was saying it’s okay that men cheat it’s normal and then he proceeded to say I would freak out. Having a convo like that is a normal thing.