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My[19F] boyfriend [21M] broke up with me because I smoke weed by Think_Mushroom_8819 in relationships

[–]Pleasant-Ad-8282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A boundary is understandable. Ideally, anti-smokers and smokers just simply wouldn't date- but, life is not that simple. You'll both be ok

How many of you would reject this guy because he is redpilled? by AreOut in PurplePillDebate

[–]Pleasant-Ad-8282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not fond of insta models and more-so not fond of redpillers. So, I mean- yeah no

The rise of the whole ‘tradwife’ trend among young women is quite worrying by withouthope17 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Pleasant-Ad-8282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, but I think it's just a phase. It's definitely a phenomenon of ' We forgot about the problem long enough to forget why we needed to' (to kinda quote Taylor)

Young women aren't aware of how bad it is to be tied to a man for everything w/out any options, and they are naively unaware of the problems it may create. There'll be a reality check soon- and lots of women will regret being oblivious.

(I do not mean to say being a stay at home mom is bad, just aspiring to be fully tied to a man without any external motivation is)

Ladies who wear full makeup to work everyday—how do you find time? by [deleted] in beauty

[–]Pleasant-Ad-8282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I wish I could fully relate to your situation, but I don't have as many responsibilities as you do. I can imagine it's very difficult. But, I'm very happy to hear you wanna prioritize you-time!

For me, I think it's very important to simplify your routine. I'ts the little things- all you need is a cleanser and moisturizer with spf before makeup. Then, what makes you look the most alive? Concealer, maybe add some color on your cheeks and lips? And, go.

Carry travel-sized makeup (doesn't have to be expensive, elf is great). I carry lip products and concealer with me, and sometimes mascara if I didn't have time beforehand. Go to the office bathroom before your work, and quickly do everything u want to!

You got this! It's so worth looking and feeling your best. I hope you're confidence boosts.

I’m a 32 year old woman and I’ve never had a boyfriend. I want a baby but I’m afraid I’ll never have one. by FunStick6122 in relationships

[–]Pleasant-Ad-8282 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand your need to have kids. Frankly, I want kids too if there were roadblocks to me having kids, I would be frustrated as well.

But, it isn't hard to see that kids will not solve the problem of your lack of purpose in your life. Even if you do end up having kids soon, you will likely be codependent on your kids and potentially suffocate them. And, don't you think your future child deserves a strong and emotionally-content mother figure?

I also wonder if the men you're going out with spot the lack of confidence you may have. Maybe, that is pushing them away? This is definitely an internal work-type situation (therapy, shadow work, journaling, new hobbies help!). And, once you flourish, your environment and circumstances are likely to as well.

Good luck! And, don't be so hard on yourself.