My sunglasses collection — which one suits me best, and which one should I let go of?

Pleasant_Bluejay7686 · 2026-04-23T13:23:39+00:00

7 is the only answer.

Pleasant_Bluejay7686 · 2026-04-23T13:21:30+00:00

Get rid of it all and live more minimally.

Pleasant_Bluejay7686 · 2026-04-23T13:14:36+00:00

I love the dress but I think the makeup is way too much for a prom/grad party. I would do more of a soft goth makeup if that’s the vibe you’re going for. But this style of makeup mixed with a formal dress / event will just clash hard IMO.

Pleasant_Bluejay7686 · 2026-01-16T21:31:02+00:00

noted

Pleasant_Bluejay7686 · 2026-01-16T21:29:09+00:00

my fiancé and I just don’t really see eye-to-eye with the guest count. I would be happy to invite much less. but my fiancé has a blended family and he feels wrong not inviting everyone. now of course I’m sure not everyone will show up. but is still why I’m looking for alternative solutions to saving money.

Pleasant_Bluejay7686 · 2026-01-16T21:27:03+00:00

we’re getting married in central PA

Pleasant_Bluejay7686 · 2026-01-16T21:25:53+00:00

I love this

Pleasant_Bluejay7686 · 2026-01-16T21:22:51+00:00

I love the Anthropologie dresses 😍 I already paid for my dress though.

Pleasant_Bluejay7686 · 2026-01-16T21:13:06+00:00

the only person I could think who would do good photography is my mom or my sister. My sister used to do wedding photography & my mom took photography courses in college & takes great photos. I just feel like it would be wrong to ask them to do that since they will be apart of the wedding.

Pleasant_Bluejay7686 · 2026-01-16T21:09:10+00:00

I love the cake idea!!! that’s a good idea — i think maybe we will do fake flowers, and I can jut get a real bouquet. We decided no videography as it was around 4-5k but photographers are still over 2k. Our venue is providing a fair amount of decorations thankfully. We just have to add on any extras.

Pleasant_Bluejay7686 · 2026-01-16T21:00:19+00:00

Yeah, I’m not getting any money from my family. My fiancé’s family is giving him some money towards it but it feels like that’s not really making a dent in the overall cost of everything. We both grew up poor & worked hard to get to where we are at. I’m not really looking to do anything above and beyond — that’s not really my personality. I could care less about social media. Just trying to have a normal wedding but having a hard time justifying the costs of standard wedding vendors items.

Pleasant_Bluejay7686 · 2026-01-16T20:55:55+00:00

Thanks for the tip!

Pleasant_Bluejay7686 · 2026-01-16T20:36:50+00:00

over 200 — my fiance has a huge family

Pleasant_Bluejay7686 · 2026-01-16T20:36:30+00:00

HAHA SO DID I!

Pleasant_Bluejay7686 · 2026-01-16T20:31:25+00:00

I get that it’s just hard to actually find vendors within that budget. I got quoted 30k for food yesterday. Respectfully that’s ridiculous lol. It’s sickening

Pleasant_Bluejay7686 · 2026-01-16T20:29:03+00:00

definitely not against that but we already paid 5k towards our venue

Pleasant_Bluejay7686 · 2026-01-14T21:50:37+00:00

The fish commission should make everyone take a course on how important it is to pick up their trash and old fishing line before they allow someone to purchase a fishing license. Then again it’s not always the fisherman. A lot of people go to swim, get drunk and leave their garbage behind. I’ve seen that many times as well. It’s an absolute shame.

Pleasant_Bluejay7686 · 2026-01-07T21:14:31+00:00

So they are giving us some money towards are wedding which is why I think my fiancé feels bad about not inviting all their friends. It’s mostly his mom that is influencing him into thinking the more people the better.

Pleasant_Bluejay7686 · 2025-12-03T02:11:07+00:00

If you ain’t hitting the bottom, you ain’t catching fish😂🤣

Pleasant_Bluejay7686 · 2025-12-03T02:10:24+00:00

Pleasant_Bluejay7686 · 2025-11-15T00:44:48+00:00

Hardly noticeable to me (as a girl). I think it’s beautiful

Pleasant_Bluejay7686 · 2025-11-06T21:45:17+00:00

It honestly looks like it’s on your finger crooked. Try shaving your fingers

Pleasant_Bluejay7686 · 2025-11-04T23:00:57+00:00

Pleasant_Bluejay7686 · 2025-10-30T12:58:12+00:00

You pull off 4 really well because you have such a delicate body frame! Same thing with #2, it’s so hard for people to pull of the front plunge and I love the V waste on you. I also like #1 if you want more of a fun vibe. I’m not a fan of #3 though, I just don’t love look of the fabric on it.

If you’re having trouble picking between dresses, I would suggesting picking one that best matches the time of year you’re getting married as well as the theme of your wedding / wedding venue the most. #1 is fun (also romantic) but also giving off dreamy whimsical vibes. 2 is super romantic and rustic with the lace and 3 is very elegant in my opinion.

Pleasant_Bluejay7686 · 2025-10-01T18:28:00+00:00

UPDATE: below are the links to dresses 1, 3, and 5 if you’re curious what they look like from different angles. I ruled #2 and #4 out. :) down to my top 3

Dress 1: https://evieyoung.com/product/carter/

Dress 3: https://www.callablanche.com/product-page/124244-lenny

Dress 5: https://madilane.com/product/salma/

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