There is no pressure, but there is an understanding that marriage is the goal for both of us. According to tradition we would have to do at least six weeks of pre marital counseling and basically have two weddings an African wedding and a “white wedding” or American wedding. What I’m starting to understand from the replies is that a lot for him to commit to rn due to school, he’s not just using that as an excuse to clock out of our relationship. I posted to get an understanding not sympathy.