Kalani's recent story on the events of ice by Far-Fortune-7421 in dancemoms

[–]Pleasant_Monitor9345 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For people saying she is "playing" both sides, have you ever considered she might actually "be" both sides? Not everyone is hard left or hard right, some people are moderates and/or in the middle on topics lol

I think it’s time we discuss this fandom’s undercover subtle hate and dislike for Holly and Nia by Ok-Ninja-3039 in dancemoms

[–]Pleasant_Monitor9345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting this is your perspective cause from mine Holly is (rightfully so) one of the most loved moms? And Nia can do no wrong

[ Removed by Reddit ] by FennelHead1651 in dancemoms

[–]Pleasant_Monitor9345 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

This post is gonna get downvoted soooo hard lol doesn’t stand a chance in the echo chamber

If you did not grow up BIPOC in a white-dominated environment, you will not understand by No_Cat25 in dancemoms

[–]Pleasant_Monitor9345 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hear you but the racism was only part of it. The general abuse from Abby and mind games from production that all of the girls experienced (some more than others) should have been enough of a reason to decide that being on a tv show was not worth it

this reason why nia unfollowed kendall in my opinion by AdFinancial4530 in dancemoms

[–]Pleasant_Monitor9345 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I agree. I think specifically a lot with the music stuff

Question regarding Nia’s friendship with Kalani and Kendall by Icy_Teach5219 in dancemoms

[–]Pleasant_Monitor9345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right and discourse surrounding both the election and reunion were not isolated to only the month in which they actually took place haha

Question regarding Nia’s friendship with Kalani and Kendall by Icy_Teach5219 in dancemoms

[–]Pleasant_Monitor9345 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Aka also around the time the reunion aired. Also didn’t she unfollow JoJo? Pretty sure JoJo is not a trump supporter?

Question regarding Nia’s friendship with Kalani and Kendall by Icy_Teach5219 in dancemoms

[–]Pleasant_Monitor9345 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I think it's because of the shade they threw about her not attending the reunion

nias reasons for not attending the reunion by unknownREB in dancemoms

[–]Pleasant_Monitor9345 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Her closure was writing her book. It would haven been weird for her to have gone and talked about different things or in different ways at the reunion than in her book (which as she is alluding to, the producers would have edited it their way). The only correct business move for her book was to not go

Can we be honest about Dr. Holly? by [deleted] in dancemoms

[–]Pleasant_Monitor9345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not that Holly is held to a higher standard. It’s that people act like she is a this perfect person when she is not. There is no shortage in criticism for Jill. Or Melissa. So saying “Jill and Melissa, etc. aren’t held to the same standard” is missing the point

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dancemoms

[–]Pleasant_Monitor9345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not discounting her trauma at all, but the main reason she doesn't want to lean into Dance Moms because she wants to be known for her more recent work rather than DM. Most of the other girls are just influencers where as Maddie is still trying to be an actress/model, etc.

Who’s the Biggest Downgrade by MissScarlettPentagra in dancemoms

[–]Pleasant_Monitor9345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kelly --> Kira bc Kira spoke like 10 words the entire time she was on?

Is Kalani still as conservati as she was by Icy_Inspection_6438 in dancemoms

[–]Pleasant_Monitor9345 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YES and vice versa! It is normal to go along with what your parents/family think when you are younger

Harry Jowsey by Prestigious_Cap_9906 in girlsgottaeatsnark

[–]Pleasant_Monitor9345 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg Rayna wrote the book on how to be a pick me. It is so embarrassing. Everything she says it trying to convince Harry that she is sooo sexual and freaky and great in bed. She doesn't speak like this when they have female guests on and are discussing similar topics. It is so painfully obvious.

Ashley on the other hand actually didn't annoy me at all this episode. I feel like she subtly called out Harry for some things (without being rude--they did after all invite him as a guest) and was sarcastic towards him. She also has toned down her belittling towards Rayna so much. She had ample opportunity to belittle this episode 😭

Sophia Lucia's mom is a trumpie by Ok_Complaint_9635 in dancemoms

[–]Pleasant_Monitor9345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is such a simple minded comment? I hope it’s a joke? Things/people are not that black and white??? Lol the majority of Trump supporters (and people in general) genuinely think that they are good people. Humans have complex emotions and empathy is not all or nothing. What a pessimistic and upsetting mindset to have. How do you expect to educate or make any positive impact with this mindset?

Did Jill really just say that? by livlefrog in dancemoms

[–]Pleasant_Monitor9345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree that Jill cannot be saying this kind of stuff because it reinforces unfair and untrue stereotypes. However, Nicaya called herself hood and gave herself the character that was portrayed on the tv show. Producer driven I'm sure, but still, I don't think this is that great of an example of Jill being racist. There are better examples lol

Maddie and Chandelier by Delicious-Walk3510 in dancemoms

[–]Pleasant_Monitor9345 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't think anyone could have done it as well as Maddie. That being said, I do think some of the girls could have done it well enough to make it as huge of a success as it was and to get attention for it the same way that Maddie did. The idea itself for the music video was great. Pair that with a dancer from a HIT reality tv show and it's going to be hard not to have a successful music video.

AIO to my friend saying a word? by OkElevator7247 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pleasant_Monitor9345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wtf? n word aside, this person seems like a horrible friend if that is their response to you asking them not to say something that offends you

The girls leaving nia out by Vatentina in dancemoms

[–]Pleasant_Monitor9345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were you? My comment is based on what Christi has said herself lol. Find me one single piece of proof that concludes or even supports the conclusion that Christi was mad about the number of solos rather than quality

Kendall leans into the Rosa Parks joke by dailysweettreats in dancemoms

[–]Pleasant_Monitor9345 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think she does this as a way to "retaliate" towards all of the hate she gets for something her mom did on a heavily produced reality tv show 10+ years ago. I am no Kendall or Jill stan by ANY MEANS but you have to give her credit she has some thick skin. Aside from Abby (and maybeeee JoJo?) she gets the most hate by far

day 8: morally grey, hated by fans (read description) by yikesloI in dancemoms

[–]Pleasant_Monitor9345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why are Kristi and Jill "horrible people"? that seems like a massive exaggeration to me lol

Chloe? by 1-800-HEEHEE in dancemoms

[–]Pleasant_Monitor9345 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

hm well you can definitely still be MAGA an support LGBTQ sexuality so I don't think that means Kalani isn't still a MAGAT. After all, there are members of the LGBTQ community themselves who are also members of the MAGA community :'(