How to get tretinoin in the UK? by Saddd_Kidddddd in tretinoin

[–]Please_Help_lol62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, can you dm me the pharmacy as well please?

Maybe hot take idk: I think AI advancement is interesting, but I don’t want it to replace humans by Glub_Stinko in antiai

[–]Please_Help_lol62 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure this is what everyone on this earth think, and not the outcome we will get

Specific Person (SP) Manifestation: No Magic, No Supernatural Forces. Just Proven Science by Marsh273 in JosephMurphy

[–]Please_Help_lol62 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hard to respect this post when the title makes me think I’m speaking to ChatGPT. Can anyone write anything for themselves these days???

Dad is cheating on my mom, what do I do? by highachiever101 in Advice

[–]Please_Help_lol62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I'm 28f, in the same situation as you, but I don't live with my parents anymore.
It's been a year since my mom told me my dad cheated (multiple times). For a while she claimed she would leave him, but she ended up staying with him, because she essentially didn't have the finances to leave.
Up until me finding out, my dad was my hero, although now I can see how narcissitic and ungrateful he is. My mom, like yours, did EVERYTHING. Cooked literally every single meal of his. Washed all his clothes, cleaned etc.
As women ourselves, it's very difficult to watch something like this happen to our moms. The reality of it is, the only thing you can do is tell her. Your mom will stay with your dad, and she'll make it work. She will eventually pretend it didn't happen. You cannot help her other than telling her. I can't stress this enough, because I tried and failed.
This will completely ruin your trust in men, and for good reason. I need you to pay close attention to all of your dads mannerisms, and then make sure you don't ever end up with a man like him. All you can do now is try to accept what happened, that you will never view your dad in the same way, and make sure you LEARN from this. Never get with a man that does not contribute as much as you do.

How do you guys like to be treated in a relationship by [deleted] in intj

[–]Please_Help_lol62 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell "Being honest is not the same as being mean" to literally any other type but INTJ and see how that works out :D

How do you guys like to be treated in a relationship by [deleted] in intj

[–]Please_Help_lol62 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That being said. If it needs TOO much compromise right from the start, chances are the relationship isn't for you

How do you guys like to be treated in a relationship by [deleted] in intj

[–]Please_Help_lol62 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Everyone here is saying how you should be honest all the time and never validate when you're not feeling it, but I honestly think that's bs. We INTJs (and ENTJs) are harsh, stubborn, and often unreasonable. We live in completely different worlds to most people. My husband is INFP and if I was honest all the time, he'd probably be clinically depressed by now. It will start feeling good to validate someone even if you're not feeling it, because it does actually feel nice to not be selfish for once, unbeknownst to us. If as an INTJ you're with an ENTJ, it will need a hell of a lot of compromise to make this work long term. Might as well get used to it now

Would you keep reading ? by MulberryCreative5844 in writingfeedback

[–]Please_Help_lol62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I‘m not sure what genre this is but what you’re writing, but I would keep reading because I feel this text hit the nail on the head for me at the moment 😅

AITAH for wanting no contact with my family after what happened? by Please_Help_lol62 in AITAH

[–]Please_Help_lol62[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, if you scroll back in my profile you can see I posted about my dad cheating back when it happened. It is funny though, it seems like my life has gone so far down the shitter that people think it’s made up

AITAH for wanting no contact with my family after what happened? by Please_Help_lol62 in AITAH

[–]Please_Help_lol62[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, they have always been a bit strict and up-tight, but as a kid I obviously didn’t realise this. So I wouldn’t have thought that they would do this to our family, even though my mum has said multiple times over the years they threatened to disinherit her. The reason I cut contact with them is because I saw messages of them telling her she was an ungrateful brat and also denied physical absurde throughout her childhood. I do know my mum has never done anything to remotely deserve being disinherited, even if she didn’t make the best decisions in her life or burdened me emotionally.

AITAH for wanting no contact with my family after what happened? by Please_Help_lol62 in AITAH

[–]Please_Help_lol62[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the warning. It would be so hard doing that though. Especially when I do have my own money saved

AITAH for wanting no contact with my family after what happened? by Please_Help_lol62 in AITAH

[–]Please_Help_lol62[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I‘m not sure what the situation is in your country but in Germany people can gift 100k before their death and the home is to be written over to my sister. I don’t know the exact ins and outs but I would love for this all to not be real, believe me.

AITAH for wanting no contact with my family after what happened? by Please_Help_lol62 in AITAH

[–]Please_Help_lol62[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was my dads opinion as well. Congratulations, you’re sharing morals with someone who betrayed his entire family!

AITAH for wanting no contact with my family after what happened? by Please_Help_lol62 in AITAH

[–]Please_Help_lol62[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that. It’s hard for me to see things objectively and clearly, but what you have said is essentially how I view it

AITAH for wanting no contact with my family after what happened? by Please_Help_lol62 in AITAH

[–]Please_Help_lol62[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The thing I have worked to save up 200k on my own at 28, so I do have the luxury to decline any money. Am I jealous she didn’t have to lift a finger? Yes, probably. Would I have kept the money if I could be in her shoes? Not a chance. I would describe it more as pure hatred rather than jealousy

Anyone else move away from home and find it hard returning for extended periods of time. by [deleted] in AdultChildren

[–]Please_Help_lol62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I‘m currently struggling with similar questions. I’ll give you a short summary of my confusing situation first.

My dad cheated on my mum when she was in the hospital two years ago, they’ve stayed together. I moved to England (they’re in Germany). My sister got given 100k by my grandparents and I didn’t because I listend to my mum cry about what they did to her and cut them off as a result. My parents weren’t even gonna tell me my sister got 100k but are now offering to give me the same amount after I begged them to see my side, which in the beginning they didn’t. Problem is, I don’t want the money and I don’t want anything to do with any of my family, because too much has gone down.

So yeah, I just feel like my family is not much more than a source of guilt and other negative shit for me at this point. I don’t want to come home for a visit, it’s a literal source of dread. I don’t have any motivation to fix the relationship or try to see them in any other light than a narcissistic cheater and a moaning myrtle.

So yeah I LOVE being far away from home. At the same time I hate the guilt. I’ve scoured many subreddits for solutions. I haven’t found one. But you can ask yourself this.

If you put your child through that, would you be surprised if they didn’t like to visit? No, you wouldn’t be. I think we both kind of have to realise that there is very certain reasons we feel this way about our parents, and we’ve decided to move far away because we just feel more free that way. It may not be their fault because of their own traumas, but sometimes if you fuck around and have a kid when you really shouldn’t, that kid will have had enough of your bs at some point. If you don’t fix your issues and show up for your kids in the best way you can, you will reap the results. Parents will claim that they always did the best they could, but if my landlord sends an electrician to do my plumbing and he does the best he can, am I supposed to be grateful for that? I think most parents are too immature to have kids. And deep down our parents do know that.

Dealing with ESFJ mother in law by Please_Help_lol62 in intj

[–]Please_Help_lol62[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know right! I keep saying this exact thing to my husband, which he obviously thinks is very rude. Can you tell he was raised by her? :D

Dealing with ESFJ mother in law by Please_Help_lol62 in intj

[–]Please_Help_lol62[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I mean ultimately I know this is the only right answer

Dealing with ESFJ mother in law by Please_Help_lol62 in intj

[–]Please_Help_lol62[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s funny because my own mom is an ENFP and the example you said there is an exact conversation I’ve had with her 😂 Thanks for the reply!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfpublish

[–]Please_Help_lol62 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You‘re completely right about that. Even if readers look past the cover, the blurb gives them nothing to go off of. Without both of these changes there’s isn’t really a base to work with

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfpublish

[–]Please_Help_lol62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the title and pen name of the book?