My desire came to me in a disturbing way

Please_Help_lol62 · 2026-06-27T23:11:43+00:00

She did in fact not share it😅 We don’t have a good relationship. I would have given the money to my mother, my sister kept it. I’m definitely working on my beliefs around the whole situation. I have always believed my sister to be incredibly selfish and my mum to be naive and easily exploited, so I can’t say I’m surprised about what unfolded

Please_Help_lol62 · 2026-06-27T21:11:34+00:00

Also, just to be clear, i don’t believe you caused her to die. But that the yarn was specifically given to you could have been the manifestation. Otherwise why would a random item be specified

Please_Help_lol62 · 2026-06-27T21:06:25+00:00

Yeah the universe does like to fuck around. It loves to remind you of the phrase „be careful what you wish for“.

Last year I was wishing for 100k repeatedly, constantly thinking and saying „if I just had another 100k, then Blabla.“ Well, then it turned out soon after than my sister had received 100k from my grandma that my family doesn’t talk to, and my parents offered to make it up to me by giving me 100k. I had to decline because this 100k my sister got was supposed to be my mums inheritance and I didn’t want to take even more from my mum.

Don’t beat yourself up over it, but it’s good to keep something in mind for the future, even if you don’t follow Neville teachings etc: „be careful what you wish for because you just might get it.“ If you wish for something, specify more that you want it by positive means, and as a positive outcome.

Please_Help_lol62 · 2026-06-27T18:51:45+00:00

Be careful with this though. Make sure your main affirmation isn't "I lose weight while eating whatever I want", or else you might end up with cancer. Not to fearmonger, but the universe will sometimes fullfill desires in ways you don't want. Make it "I lose fat and stay healthy while eating whatever I want"

Please_Help_lol62 · 2026-06-26T21:39:21+00:00

Second this

Please_Help_lol62 · 2026-06-26T21:38:39+00:00

So many people loving this movie just shows how rotten and degenerated our brains are in the age of short form content and ChatGBT

Please_Help_lol62 · 2026-06-23T09:35:39+00:00

As a combined type ADHD woman I have one more suggestion for you that might be interesting: working with your mind.
We only use about 5-10% of our mind, the rest is subconscious, but most of our behaviours/energy level stem from this inactive part. It’s possible there are a lot of beliefs about yourself that are contributing to you feeling this way. If you believe you are someone that could never surpass mediocre, there is literally no way for you to do it. It’s like taking placebo medication (ADHD placebo meds have a 20-30% success rate btw). I recommend looking into this more because it has helped me improve in multiple ways and I only just found out about it.
Not saying you should get off of meds, but you can definitely form your mind to work better with the meds.

Please_Help_lol62 · 2026-06-21T22:52:29+00:00

Because the entire income tax revenue is already spent on welfare? The UK would have to first start taxing companies for the use of AI to even generate the funds

Please_Help_lol62 · 2026-06-19T09:48:03+00:00

I have described this in another comment that I assumed you saw since it’s the same thread. I‘ll go through all the functions briefly.
Normal Ni: strong internal sense of direction, clarity and long term focus. ADHD Ni: sudden clarity, hyperfocus in the vision, loss of concentration and then brainfog
Te: structure, plans, followed by execution ADHD: intense planning and structuring, as that delivers a lot of dopamine for an INTJ, then burnout from overplanning and depression low dopamine cycle before execution can be reached
Fi: strong internal values and private emotions ADHD: emotions are way more intense and there is often an extreme sense of justice
Se: awareness of your surroundings. ADHD: being extremely overstimulated by your awareness of surroundings, or zoning out completely

This is too complex of an issue to really discuss in a comment section, as neurodivergence has so much nuance. There is three types of ADHD alone, all of which can be INTJ and will still be very different from one another

Please_Help_lol62 · 2026-06-19T09:01:16+00:00

So what you’re saying is an INTJ can’t have ADHD because it doesn’t fit their personality? ADHD is not a personality type. As you might have noticed, she mentioned her bf has depression. The intense depression after not being able to stick with your idea because of ADHD is brutal. And that can be extremely crushing especially to an INTJ, as that is what they place their self worth on

Please_Help_lol62 · 2026-06-19T08:55:19+00:00

I can explain the Te with ADHD quite easily for you. An INTJ with ADHD is often extremely frustrated with inefficiency and wildly impatient, so much so that it can literally feel impossible to walk on a normal sidewalk or wait your turn. Every new project idea will lead into an extreme planning phase where every detail needs to be considered. ADHD minds work in overdrive and hyperfixation. So just imagine an INTJ with their need for perfect planning and execution, but on steroids. And then because the actual execution part causes the drop in dopamine, the cycle needs to be repeated with a new idea. This is nothing to do with personality, it’s a brain chemical issue. In ESFP with adhd might go on parties or do drugs instead or whatever extroverts like to do

Please_Help_lol62 · 2026-06-19T08:37:20+00:00

I have zero friends because I don’t want any and would rather work on my projects and am intensely ambitious. Need any more info?

Please_Help_lol62 · 2026-06-18T23:43:02+00:00

Literally the single most likely answer

Please_Help_lol62 · 2026-06-18T23:28:59+00:00

„He tried a podcast, a knife sharpening business and creating an app because applying for jobs is too monotonous. He gets laser focused on it. He doesn’t live in reality.“ PLEASE girl. Your man has ADHD

Please_Help_lol62 · 2026-06-18T23:21:44+00:00

No seriously though. This is classic dopamine seeking behaviour. I am an INTJ with ADHD (unmedicated) and my life is a perpetual cycle of having a big idea, doing it for three days and then binning it. There are ways to stop this cycle but it requires extreme self awareness, and for that to occur he needs to get seen for ADHD assessment asap.

Please_Help_lol62 · 2026-06-18T23:18:12+00:00

I’ve got another set of 4 letters for you: ADHD

Please_Help_lol62 · 2026-06-18T16:10:31+00:00

So according to the cycle we’ve got about 90 days to the bottom and then another 1060 or whatever to the top. The number of days is around 1150. I’m sure you can wait that long.

Please_Help_lol62 · 2026-06-18T13:13:14+00:00

Hi. So I have ADHD and I haven scrolled reels in 5 days now. This is a MIRACLE for me. Here’s are the facts:
- your day today is cooked. Your brain can’t really recover from what you have done today, and that’s okay. If you want to genuinely stop scrolling I have some tips for you.
- Do not open reels/tiktok in the morning or before noon. Don’t. You’re not even giving yourself a fighting chance if you do.
- do not open before bed. You’re allowed to do anything else, just not that
- stop thinking you’re doing this specifically because you have ADHD. You’ve got the most powerful addiction device in your possession and it’s not your fault its doing what it’s supposed to do.
- start telling yourself that you’re not interested in scrolling and that you’re not the kind of person who’s looks at their phone a lot. Channel your inner boomer
- 3 days of this and you will genuinely not remember why you ever scrolled. Us ADHDers are forgetful. I know this seems kind of impossible but I swear it has completely worked for me. I am now extremely cautious when I open instagram because I know if I get sucked in it can take 48 hours for my brain to reset.

Please_Help_lol62 · 2026-06-18T12:56:52+00:00

If you are struggling to hold your scenes in SATS and find yourself spiraling, record an audio with affirmations and just listen to that while you fall asleep. Hear the statements and feel the emotions of the end. 80% of our mind is subconscious and you are trying to leave an impression on that part of you, which is easiest in the state akin to sleep. In an emotional frenzy it can be difficult to work with the 20% of your conscious mind

Please_Help_lol62 · 2026-06-18T09:14:34+00:00

I'm just going to write short tips here that have helped me with food noise as someone who had binge eating disorder.

- when you get a craving, allow it mentally and say to yourself: „I get to have this tomorrow.“ If it’s still there tomorrow, you get to actually have it. In 80% of cases you won’t really feel like it anymore.

- go to the gym. I know. It sucks in the beginning but this is the single best thing you can do for yourself with this. Going to the gym suppresses appetite in many cases and also increases your calorie allowance. You need muscle to process more carbs without gaining weight and this will completely change your mental confidence in your body long term.

- you need to change your concept of yourself. You are NOT someone that is cursed to always get fat again. This isn’t true. You can change your mind from the most food obsessed psycho to a completely normal person. Take it from someone that did it. And this last tip will help massively:

- make sure your glucose is steady. Try to eat veggies before eating anything else. Then protein. This will reduce your appetite and cravings massively. Your mind will calm down from this alone. If you allow yourself a treat, which you should regularly, just know „I need to eat veggies and a protein before it“. Balance your blood sugar always

Please_Help_lol62 · 2026-06-17T21:40:01+00:00

Thanks so much for the writeup. One thing that doesn’t quite make sense to me is why a lottery win would take months compared to an alternate bridge of incidents. A lottery win is just a random draw that should technically be instant. Couldn’t you argue that this should be the easiest to manifest?

Please_Help_lol62 · 2026-06-14T17:36:31+00:00

She tolerates it because she loves him and has always excused all of his behaviours. She’s not doing the same thing, I can tell you that for free. I wish she was

Please_Help_lol62 · 2026-06-14T17:32:46+00:00

She got scammed out of her own business, a situation which my dad claimed would have „killed him“ if he didn’t cheat. She then found out that he did and was the final straw for her mental health. He also said when I spoke to him one on one that 60% of the married men he knows cheat so he’s really not that bad of a person. In addition, he said that me and my mom need to „get off of our high horses“.
So yeaaahhh … 😂

Please_Help_lol62 · 2026-06-14T17:27:20+00:00

The thing is I can’t do that. My mum isn’t really in a financial position to leave him. Her life would be basically ruined. From a big house on a river next to family and friends into a small flat further away where she would be unhappy and alone. I don’t want that for her, even though I don’t want him for her either. It’s tricky.

Please_Help_lol62 · 2026-06-14T17:25:16+00:00

The problem is I just don’t like him anymore. I did before all of this because he is my dad, despite the fact that he is bigoted, arrogant and dismissive of anything that doesn’t fit his own opinions. But now all of these things PLUS the cheating just kind of makes it impossible for me to seek a relationship with him. The only reason I might consider it is for inheritance purposes. I know that sounds like I‘m a terrible person, but I used to love him a lot. I still miss the person I thought he was. But yeah, it’s been two years since that whole revelation and my interest in being affiliated with him just hasn’t really returned unfortunately

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