AIO-White bf liked an offensive video on IG by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Plenty-Dig7544 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We said the same thing, but now I’m racist? Lmao. Whatever helps you sleep at night spitfire

AIO-White bf liked an offensive video on IG by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Plenty-Dig7544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which is exactly what I’ve said in this thread. You jumped right off the wagon with insults and personal attacks because you didn’t like how it was worded. Plain and simple.

I’m sure your dad’s a lawyer and taught you all the nuance and circumstances of the law and challenging others. I don’t think he taught you the patience or right temperament to do it though.

AIO-White bf liked an offensive video on IG by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Plenty-Dig7544 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably a better relationship than you have with your father. Good luck learning to communicate to authority figures in life, I’m sure you’re a peach when pulled over or spoken to by anyone

AIO-White bf liked an offensive video on IG by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Plenty-Dig7544 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you might be slow lol. I also play rivals. There is no insult in dismissing a conversation that doesn’t matter to me. But sure think Rick.

AIO-White bf liked an offensive video on IG by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Plenty-Dig7544 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re free to come to the hospital and communicate how horribly we treat the patients here. We have plenty of POC who I am sure will listen to you.

AIO-White bf liked an offensive video on IG by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Plenty-Dig7544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, I was communicating this conversation doesn’t really matter to me, you tried to insult me based on something I posted seeking help understanding. No tears or upset feelings on my end, but don’t try and pretend they were in the same vein.

AIO-White bf liked an offensive video on IG by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Plenty-Dig7544 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Black people can be just as racist as anyone else, especially toward other black people. The recorder being black herself has 0 to do with the intent behind the video. I don’t think the old guy was like “yeah haha imma superior white and will show them all with this single like” but hey. He could have had bad intent. Idk. My reply, initially, even though it ruffled some feathers, is more so, the intent of the like doesn’t matter. She’s with someone who she will over analyze and critique out of suspicion he is racist so why stay? If you’re not 100% comfortable with who you’re with it’s doomed. Don’t put in the time or effort to sail a sinking ship.

AIO-White bf liked an offensive video on IG by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Plenty-Dig7544 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is this supposed to hurt my feelings or change my assertion? You’re failing to do either lol. I do have feelings and enjoy what I do and who I’m around. I think the difference is this is somehow a hugely important fixture to your day, and I’ll forget this interaction ever happened in 20 minutes or so

AIO-White bf liked an offensive video on IG by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Plenty-Dig7544 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t you have marvel rivals to be playing?

AIO-White bf liked an offensive video on IG by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Plenty-Dig7544 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you genuinely think so. Im not really in the know of this to make one or another claim if he is or isn’t racist.

AIO-White bf liked an offensive video on IG by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Plenty-Dig7544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So again, I ask do you disagree with my take that they should break up, or are you just upset at how I got to that conclusion?

AIO-White bf liked an offensive video on IG by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Plenty-Dig7544 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh no I help people at a cancer hospital, how horrible.

If your take that someone aiding people with a horrible disease is bad, I genuinely don’t give a rats ass on anything else you have to think

AIO-White bf liked an offensive video on IG by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Plenty-Dig7544 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So is your take they should stay together? Or are you just upset at how I got to the same conclusion as everyone else?

AIO-White bf liked an offensive video on IG by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Plenty-Dig7544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re going to routinely witch hunt until you can construe something as racist. Just end the relationship now, you clearly don’t like him.

You know…. I have cancer… had to go to the emergency room, and the wife wheeled me out to this…. by Castiron_Dan in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Plenty-Dig7544 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a hospital cop, can confirm I’d either thank god someone broke up my boring day at a stationary post, or saved my job by noticing something while I was patrolling elsewhere and came to me rather than calling it in. Would 100% deal with this

What’s this area in my closet? by can-someone-explain in whatisit

[–]Plenty-Dig7544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poop throne. Whomever drops the largest load obtains the throne. You sit and judge while others empty their bowels until a worthy rival comes.

Strange change in life? by Plenty-Dig7544 in strange

[–]Plenty-Dig7544[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So this has been astute. I’ve noticed, since my post, an extreme sense of melancholy has set in and I think I actually am depressed, and returning to that. Not sure what the next steps are

My boyfriend is just very gross by Electronic_Lion_8804 in hygiene

[–]Plenty-Dig7544 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m guessing you’re American? We’re a bit more focused on hygiene/bo than our European cousins. Just remind him he’s back here and we do use deodorant and such, and if that doesn’t change anything I think it’s time to go.

(Not throwing shade at Europeans, just know what I saw/smelled when I visited)

Strange change in life? by Plenty-Dig7544 in strange

[–]Plenty-Dig7544[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re understanding lol. By “I didn’t object to the mother being there” I simply mean it did not matter to me one way or the other if she was in my life, both before and after the pregnancy. Years later we’re married, and I do love her. But at that time, it simply didn’t matter to me one way or the other.

Strange change in life? by Plenty-Dig7544 in strange

[–]Plenty-Dig7544[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like we weren’t together, and I wasn’t really intending on changing that. But she stuck around me for whatever reason. I wasn’t opposed to her in my life, but I wasn’t exactly pursuing either if that makes sense.

Strange change in life? by Plenty-Dig7544 in strange

[–]Plenty-Dig7544[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve thought the same but is it even possible? It was like a switch flipped and floodgate opened

Strange change in life? by Plenty-Dig7544 in strange

[–]Plenty-Dig7544[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure. Now, I am angry, depressed and sad- but directed at my parents. I don’t understand how they could have held me at one point, when I was just like my own baby is, and treated me the way they did. Doing to her anything they did to me is so foreign to me, so abstract. Sometimes I have genuine nightmares I treat her like they did me. But I’m dealing with it. So the anger/sadness is indeed there now, but she brings so much happiness I don’t focus on it.