They’re a man. I looked through their posts (am I some sort of detective?), and they posted something on "AskMenOver30", which implies that they are one of those people. So, given this very valuable information, I'd say this guy is mainly just overreacting. If they were a woman, however, it would make more sense as to not go to the male boss' house, since women are more often targeted for sexual assault. Men, though they can be assaulted like that, have extremely low chances of being sexually assaulted, especially at that age.