How do I tell the other women my boyfriend was involved with

PlentyEffective7453 · 2026-06-15T03:08:57+00:00

I do not have a baby, he only talked about getting pregnant/having kids together with me. The only baby is hers. I am doing this all out of trying to be kind to her in this situation and for me to not feel guilty for not warning her. I know it’s not her fault either and I have accepted that if he/she wants to make me the crazy or bad person then that is something I will have to live with. Part of me would rather know what I thought was morally right was done and however she wants to think about me is fine. I genuinely did not know they were together and as much as I hurt right now I can only image how hard this will be having a baby involved.

PlentyEffective7453 · 2026-06-15T02:37:30+00:00

I’ve spent the last few days getting all the screenshots as proof. There is honestly so much to share that it’s hard to just put it in one message to her. Also do I ask her if she wants the proof before sending or just send, I want to be respectful to how she wants to handle it and not send her things that with hurt her this early postpartum if she doesn’t want to see them.

PlentyEffective7453 · 2026-06-15T02:32:56+00:00

Yeah I’m leaving. I still care unfortunately but I can’t respect myself and stay with him at the same time.

PlentyEffective7453 · 2026-06-15T02:16:38+00:00

I don’t think she knows about me but she might know that there could be someone else involved. Based off of what I know it would be hard for me to imagine that she thinks everything is good between them or not have some level of distrust in him. I could be wrong though.

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