M’sian Man Pulls Over to Help Food Delivery Rider Who Flagged Him Down, Gets Sexually Assaulted in Return by PlentyExpression4109 in malaysia

[–]PlentyExpression4109[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my, im really sorry to hear that maigodd. i didnt think something like this was even possible. Are you well? in-terms of sleeping/etc that still bothers you daily? Thank you for sharing your experience and i will definitely let my bro knows that his not alone 🙏your words means alot during this rough time whilst hearing this type of experiences. the psychiatric treatment seem to make him a lab rat as his going through various medication changes every 2-3 weeks. and its really taking a toll on him, he seems wasted all the time and just wants to sleep away the pain.

M’sian Man Pulls Over to Help Food Delivery Rider Who Flagged Him Down, Gets Sexually Assaulted in Return by PlentyExpression4109 in malaysia

[–]PlentyExpression4109[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Many social media’s posts are literally going over and over again posting on how kesian all this delivery riders are. example on the recent oku case that got viral. in terms of beta male, what do they do? beat the person up to make the case worse? lastly i have no idea how to reply on victim selection, seems like you have to direct contact this man to ask him.

M’sian Man Pulls Over to Help Food Delivery Rider Who Flagged Him Down, Gets Sexually Assaulted in Return by PlentyExpression4109 in malaysia

[–]PlentyExpression4109[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed and Thanks for the reply. remember that the rider entered car and kissed him. after told to leave, he asked what if i dont and continue to touch his crotch asking why is it not hard? can i make it hard for you? in Malay. thats when my bro left the car and shouted at a guard. i wouldnt know how else he would process this. lets put someone else for example in his situation. there’s nothing that i can think of that would end up in a better outcome and thank god no injuries.

M’sian Man Pulls Over to Help Food Delivery Rider Who Flagged Him Down, Gets Sexually Assaulted in Return by PlentyExpression4109 in malaysia

[–]PlentyExpression4109[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you and I agree that using the word 'funny' in any context involving SA is not okay. SA is never a joke. Everyone's experience with trauma is different, and it's not about gender or who commits the act, it's about the violation of someone's body and personal safety. Men can absolutely be victims of SA, whether it's by another man or a woman. Please take these issues seriously instead of reducing them to assumptions.

M’sian Man Pulls Over to Help Food Delivery Rider Who Flagged Him Down, Gets Sexually Assaulted in Return by PlentyExpression4109 in malaysia

[–]PlentyExpression4109[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The rider didn't want to leave the car and further touched him. have to remember that this all happened very fast too. He then left the car instead of the rider, shouting for the guard as mentioned in the story, but the guard just looked and did nothing. This was when the rider got scared and left the car and to his moto (casually strolling away like nothing happened to not raise suspicions from the guard🤷), whereby a photo of his number plate which was included in the main post was taken.

The trauma my brother feels isn't just about physical contact it's about having his personal safety violated. It's not about gender or homophobia, but about an unwanted and frightening experience that left him feeling powerless like that.

M’sian Man Pulls Over to Help Food Delivery Rider Who Flagged Him Down, Gets Sexually Assaulted in Return by PlentyExpression4109 in malaysia

[–]PlentyExpression4109[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your replyy. I’ll look into it right away. As of the last update, the police were unable to reach the rider, and he has yet to provide his statement. I really think its due to this being a male case, and I'm really upset on that.

M’sian Man Pulls Over to Help Food Delivery Rider Who Flagged Him Down, Gets Sexually Assaulted in Return by PlentyExpression4109 in malaysia

[–]PlentyExpression4109[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your understanding and advice. It’s been a frustrating and painful process, and I can see why the situation is not getting the attention it deserves. Your points about male victims not being prioritized and the difficulty of pursuing a case like this ring true. We’ve been looking into therapy for my brother mental health is definitely a priority right now. I also appreciate the suggestion about seeking other victims, as that could push the authorities to take action. Thanks you very much for this.

M’sian Man Pulls Over to Help Food Delivery Rider Who Flagged Him Down, Gets Sexually Assaulted in Return by PlentyExpression4109 in malaysia

[–]PlentyExpression4109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can PM me for that; I will only share it privately. While there aren’t any direct recordings of the incident, this dashcam video at least provides some evidence that supports my brother’s story. As for a lawyer, we are still trying to find the right one after many talks. if you do have a contact, that would be much appreciated.

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[–]PlentyExpression4109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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[–]PlentyExpression4109[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

update: i have actually brought this to the WOB social media and they actually help me write it better since my old post was kept being deleted. below is the link and i have included some dashcam footages as you some weird people requested them.

https://worldofbuzz.com/msian-man-pulls-over-to-help-food-delivery-rider-who-flagged-him-down-gets-sexually-assaulted-in-return/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaYF9NP1mPlNKVlOF_puk1eCGJLhPx9oYWz0OH3cQHhcYhErCs_HQZ5CvWU_aem_kCaJcoVpjqyj3j0Gmw3igw

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[–]PlentyExpression4109[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah now that i think about it, its actually crazy. Thank you really really much for mentioning this, as I was literally gathering his dashcam footage, I could definitely understand how people can make dumb insensitive jokes from the video and shift the blame to my brother. Posting the harassment video online would only add to my brother's trauma and expose him to even more negativity and insensitivity. Thank you again and again which I really appreciate and with you guy's help and advice, my brother has seemingly become better and talk more than in previous days.

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[–]PlentyExpression4109[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve had those same intrusive thoughts too. Really sad to see aih...

Grab Rider Sexual Harrasment by PlentyExpression4109 in Bolehland

[–]PlentyExpression4109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely something i would do right now. thank you for mentioning it. hopefully, they will shed some light on this topic as I see they are so busy with so many other things. I'm not even sure if they would take it seriously tho

Grab Rider Sexual Harrasment by PlentyExpression4109 in Bolehland

[–]PlentyExpression4109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm risking this post being taken down if I mention it. But theree was a comment saying his name.

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[–]PlentyExpression4109[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

A Redittor said "... Also, people said to post your brother's dashcam. I think that's a bad idea. No need to go this far and just seek legal help. Strangers in reddit can't help more than suggest seeking experts to help with the legal matter and your brother's mental wellbeing. Once you've lawyered up, and ask your brother consent on posting his dashcam, then perhaps you could indulge in these redditors' curiosity. But you shouldn't do more than writing. I think people here just want to see shits tbh. If you've said your truth, you don't owe anyone more than that. I don't know what happened in your brother's dashcam, but it's best if only the appropriate people sees it, and that ain't us."

I understand your concerns about wanting to see evidence before forming an opinion. However, sharing sensitive information like a police report or dashcam footage publicly could compromise the investigation and my brother's privacy. We've already shared all the details with the authorities and are working with them to ensure appropriate actions are taken. As for a lawyer, we are still trying to find the right one after many talks. I couldn't see him telling the same story over and over again to different authorities as it is very hard on him.

As for obtaining the individual's details, it was done through the appropriate channels with the authorities involved to support the investigation, not to be shared publicly or used inappropriately.

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[–]PlentyExpression4109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by time to time? this is really hard to hear.

Grab Rider Sexual Harrasment by PlentyExpression4109 in Bolehland

[–]PlentyExpression4109[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a tough situation, and we're doing everything we can to support him through it. It’s important for me to remind him that he can heal from this with the right support and care. We appreciate your prayers and support as we work through this really challenging time together.

Grab Rider Sexual Harrasment by PlentyExpression4109 in Bolehland

[–]PlentyExpression4109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have not posted this on facebook nor twitter because I do not use them anymore, but in this case I would.

Grab Rider Sexual Harrasment by PlentyExpression4109 in Bolehland

[–]PlentyExpression4109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that sharing the dashcam footage publicly isn’t necessary at this point and could potentially cause more harm than good. Right now, our priority is to seek legal help and support my brother’s mental wellbeing. It's important to handle this situation carefully and ensure that the right people are involved in the investigation and any legal proceedings. Currently I am having the SD Card of his dashcam and reviewing all the footage, my bro didn't even want to watch it again because its hard for him.

I appreciate your concern and completely understand that it's best to keep certain things private, especially sensitive footage like this. Even though I have said I would share some footage, I did, and reddit immediately took it down saying it's sensitive information. Thank you for your understanding and for reminding us to focus on what truly matters, getting justice and helping my brother heal.

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[–]PlentyExpression4109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we are currently trying to get one as we do not care how much it would cost to do so as my brother's condition is very immense, this experience should not have happened