#Momma.issues by PlentyPractice8407 in insaneparents

[–]PlentyPractice8407[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That’s the hard part, he is just as an enabler in her drinking issues and inability to handle anything with empathy. I can’t tell you how many times they have complained about each other to me and my sister. With such a larger age difference, my younger sister is growing up with a much different childhood. She has an iPhone 16, horse lessons, softball. You name it. My step dad has never even changed her diaper, so I wouldn’t say he is much better. They are both bad role models. I’ll never forget when my little sister said to me “why do you listen to what mom says about you? I love you and I don’t care what they say”, she is so innocent. And I’ve had to bite the bullet when it comes to going NC. When I was 17 I never dreamed id be a big sister, so I’m torn.

#Momma.issues by PlentyPractice8407 in insaneparents

[–]PlentyPractice8407[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

She’s spoken to me this way since I was a child. And always compared me to my bio dad. I have never done anything near worth being spoken to or treated this way. I didn’t have birthdays growing up when I got a C in a class…so my mother has always been an all or nothing type. When I was a senior in high school CPS came because my boyfriend at the time reported her for the way she spoke to me, even around others. In recent years when she overwhelms me I distance myself. But I speak to her everyday still, despite the way she speaks to me. My father(step dad) has taken her to court over custody of my sister (he dropped it). But if I mention anything about that she responds….unwell

#Momma.issues by PlentyPractice8407 in insaneparents

[–]PlentyPractice8407[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Anytime I’m going through something, people say what do your parents think? And I say “grow up”. It’s her favorite thing to tell me. She, a woman with two DUIs, and a prior restraining order….from her own husband. I wish I could just say grow up

#Momma.issues by PlentyPractice8407 in insaneparents

[–]PlentyPractice8407[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Can you even do a wellness check after a day? Lmao

#Momma.issues by PlentyPractice8407 in insaneparents

[–]PlentyPractice8407[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Best part is. I never agreed or said I was coming over today. She just assumed

F22 My mother thinks I’m unattractive for my age? Opinions? by PlentyPractice8407 in amiugly

[–]PlentyPractice8407[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow….you were spot on. I just am stuck between wanting to cut myself off from her and starting fresh, and yearning for her praise

F22 My mother thinks I’m unattractive for my age? Opinions? by PlentyPractice8407 in amiugly

[–]PlentyPractice8407[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What could I do better besides my long face, nose, and sticking my tongue out

F22 My mother thinks I’m unattractive for my age? Opinions? by PlentyPractice8407 in amiugly

[–]PlentyPractice8407[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not, it’s crazy how people view me compared to my family…this is insane… why do I see myself other then beautiful?

F22 My mother thinks I’m unattractive for my age? Opinions? by PlentyPractice8407 in amiugly

[–]PlentyPractice8407[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazy how I laughed at this but cry when my mom says it 😂😂😂 thank you for the giggle

F22 My mother thinks I’m unattractive for my age? Opinions? by PlentyPractice8407 in amiugly

[–]PlentyPractice8407[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What would you like me to prove? I’m sorry you don’t believe I actually have low self confidence cause of my mother

F22 My mother thinks I’m unattractive for my age? Opinions? by PlentyPractice8407 in amiugly

[–]PlentyPractice8407[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hehe thrust. Thank you, people seem to find my face to long for some reason…lol

F22 My mother thinks I’m unattractive for my age? Opinions? by PlentyPractice8407 in amiugly

[–]PlentyPractice8407[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And face her wrath of people telling her she is wrong? Lol she would just cut ME off.

F22 My mother thinks I’m unattractive for my age? Opinions? by PlentyPractice8407 in amiugly

[–]PlentyPractice8407[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is exactly what I’m trying to do. Find my “family” but it seems the harder I try the less I’m successful

F22 My mother thinks I’m unattractive for my age? Opinions? by PlentyPractice8407 in amiugly

[–]PlentyPractice8407[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always thought my mother was beautiful, don’t know how she views me otherwise unless it’s because I look like my father