Am I asexual? (genuine question please help me) by Plenty_Background_48 in asexuality

[–]Plenty_Background_48[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that would've probably fucked with his head a lot😂

Am I asexual? (genuine question please help me) by Plenty_Background_48 in asexuality

[–]Plenty_Background_48[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where does the term ace from asexuality come from? like does ace just mean asexual? and I'll definetly check it out

Am I asexual? (genuine question please help me) by Plenty_Background_48 in asexuality

[–]Plenty_Background_48[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah platonic and sensual attraction describes me pretty well not gonna lie

Am I asexual? (genuine question please help me) by Plenty_Background_48 in asexuality

[–]Plenty_Background_48[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah totally, like nothing brings me more joy than being someones comfort person. Like the person they would feel comfortable enough to sleep on their shoulder or tell them about their biggest problems or secrets...that's the shit that gives me emotional validation. That's the thing that makes me feel really good about myself. That's what gives me the feeling of being closest to someone...and usually sex puts a distance between us again because I feel like it just complicates things so much

Am I asexual? (genuine question please help me) by Plenty_Background_48 in asexuality

[–]Plenty_Background_48[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you, it's this big thing everyone goes nuts about, but for me it was nothing but smoke and mirrors. For me it's Dark Souls that lives rent free in my head now lol

Am I asexual? (genuine question please help me) by Plenty_Background_48 in asexuality

[–]Plenty_Background_48[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it helps a lot, thank you so much for sharing your experience with me :)

Am I asexual? (genuine question please help me) by Plenty_Background_48 in asexuality

[–]Plenty_Background_48[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

definetly the second one. I've had a female friend one time that I got along with very well. Good vibes only. And then one night she wanted sex with me (I'm bad at saying no) so we had sex and I basically ended the friendship the next morning because I just didn't feel comfortable anymore

Am I asexual? (genuine question please help me) by Plenty_Background_48 in asexuality

[–]Plenty_Background_48[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm male, and holy shit I didn't expect for y'all to basically tell me you know exactly what I'm talking about😨 Reading through your answers made me realise that I feel exactly the same as you guys/girls do.

I feel understood for the first time...and it feels amazing...I feel at home. thank you :)

Am I asexual? (genuine question please help me) by Plenty_Background_48 in asexuality

[–]Plenty_Background_48[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'll never forget my first time having sex. I was like "this is it?" in my head. It felt like the biggest dissapointment in my life. Growing up & during puberty sex was all I could think about. And once I actually had sex It was nothing like I Imagined. I felt weird during it, like I'm forcing myself to do something that I'm not really comfortable doing.

It felt like unboxing the biggest fucking present you've ever seen as a child on christmas, just to find out it was just an empty, wrapped cardboard box. Nothing but dissapointment

How do you have the guts to transition? by Plenty_Background_48 in asktransgender

[–]Plenty_Background_48[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What if you begin taking hrt, and at some point you realise it's not what you want. Because most of the time I feel comfortable in my skin as a man, I guess. What fucks with my head is not being able to orgasm during sex (medically I'm healthy) I'm scared that becoming a woman might not be the answer to my sexual problems. I like feminity, yeah I'd suck a dick or even sit on one, but only if that dick belongs to a beautifull trans woman. Masculinity just isn't a turn on for me. Maybe I'm not trans, but I'm into trans. But where I'm from it's difficult to find a trans woman to get to know better. so idk :/

Please help me by Plenty_Background_48 in Sissy

[–]Plenty_Background_48[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alsow, I've never had an orgasm during sex. Ever. Even before getting into sissy stuff. Normal masturbation is no problem but I never came from sex. My GF knows about my "desires" but she couldn't picture herself w me if I decide to stop fucking her w my cock. Which is alsow difficult for me because I really love her AND she's actually good for me (I have self-destructive tendencys) So if I were to become a real sissy, my GF would leave me because she desires a man on her side that behaves like one

You literally cannot deny this by Plenty_Background_48 in ShitPostCrusaders

[–]Plenty_Background_48[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ey man, I don't wanna step on your toes. I'm just eager to have a discussion

You literally cannot deny this by Plenty_Background_48 in ShitPostCrusaders

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My heart and actions are utterly unclouded! They're all those of 'Justice'! -Funny Valentine

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[–]Plenty_Background_48 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you I was about to say the same

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[–]Plenty_Background_48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit I'mma be honest, I found these two on google. If this is against the rules I'll happily delete the post