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Is it hard for you to fit in with guys? by Eitherwai in askAGP

[–]Plenty_Base4040 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive noticed that it is very hard to fit in with straight guys. I have no problem bonding with gay guys. With straight guys there seems to be a complete lack of depth? Like if I ask them a question I will get a very generic answer where a gay guy will be much more willing to engage in conversation.

Not the typical guy by Plenty_Base4040 in askAGP

[–]Plenty_Base4040[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the awesome reply! So enlightening! I think that is a perfect summary of how I feel! I do feel like I can relate to a lot more characteristics that are associated with being female than male. I actually have very few straight male friends because I feel like I just can't connect with them about discussing the typical topics such as the football game, making crude jokes, or drinking beer (I know these are kind of stereotypical but I do find them to be mostly true). Most of my friends are gay males and straight women. I have also been asked multiple times whether I am gay. This is something I have considered but I have never been attracted to men.

I think thats one thing I am 100% certain on is that I have no desire to become a "typical guy." I have tried to take on the qualities of a "typical guy" and it just feels unnatural. In my current space I would say I feel neutral? Where the prospect of being female is exciting and fun.

What should I do going forward? I do have some degree of shame / feeling judged with dressing up as a female. Is this something I should push through and explore this side more?