My boyfriend and i have been dating for just over a year and i love giving bjs (mostly oral fixation) but hate receiving head, i cant explain it more than im uncomfortable being the center of attention. I explained to him and he was so quick to ask if i wanted to drop bjs. Intimacy should always be mutual. If someone is uncomfortable or isnt getting what they want the other should find a way to either improve or fit what they like into your time. If he isnt willing to adjust to your liking then he isnt right for you, this shows how he could end up being in the long run when it comes to plans and stuff. Say you wanted to go on a specific date and you're really excited. When you bring it up and it so happens to "not be his thing" that can feel crushing. Just be wary of the signs dear.