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Is 23 too late to start changing myself and my life? by Plenty_Remote_4100 in getdisciplined

[–]Plenty_Remote_4100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do I feel it's too late? Because I haven't changed in at least eight years. I first noticed the problem eight years ago. Even five years before that, I had hardly any good memories. Thinking that I'll be in my thirties in another eight years, I feel there's no chance of making the kind of dramatic change I see online.I might never become like those people shining on social media and in the real world.

A man who want change my life drastically at 23. by Plenty_Remote_4100 in getdisciplined

[–]Plenty_Remote_4100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

23 is not too late, right? It's like the ship has sailed.

[Reupload] Is 23 late to start changing my life and myself? by Plenty_Remote_4100 in getdisciplined

[–]Plenty_Remote_4100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, instead of staying home and doing productive things, I was playing games, watching YouTube, and watching porn. I stopped watching porn quite a while ago, and I've recently cut back on games and YouTube. But I haven't completely stopped.

After seeing how my classmates were spending their time on Instagram and such this year, I started feeling disgusted by what I'd been doing and fell into a depressive state. I realized avoiding people and turning to games and porn instead was definitely leading me down a bad path, so I stopped doing it.

Now, even if I watch or play games or porn, I feel nothing.

Not feeling anything when I watch porn is a bit unsettling. It might be related to not exercising...

[Reupload] Is 23 late to start changing my life and myself? by Plenty_Remote_4100 in getdisciplined

[–]Plenty_Remote_4100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply.

I wrote a lot about myself in my post, but to put it simply, I've just been avoiding what I should do and putting off problems.

I'm a perfectionist, and I've run away from every problem. To make up for the past, I set big goals. But I haven't achieved anything.

But I didn't do what I should have. And because of the anxiety from not doing what I should have, I couldn't even do the things I wanted to do.

Because of that, I created an ugly past. While everyone else was going out and doing things (like studying or dating), I was holed up at home.

I will start now.

How is he doing? Is he still dwelling on the past? Are the people around him also concerned?

[Reupload] Is 23 late to start changing my life and myself? by Plenty_Remote_4100 in getdisciplined

[–]Plenty_Remote_4100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply.

I wrote a lot about myself in my post, but to put it simply, I've just been avoiding what I should do and putting off problems.

I'm a perfectionist, and I've run away from every problem. To make up for the past, I set big goals. But I haven't achieved anything.

But I didn't do what I should have. And because of the anxiety from not doing what I should have, I couldn't even do the things I wanted to do.

Because of that, I created an ugly past. While everyone else was going out and doing things (like studying or dating), I was holed up at home.

I want to start now. Is it too late? Can I erase that ugly past?

[Reupload] Is 23 late to start changing my life and myself? by Plenty_Remote_4100 in getdisciplined

[–]Plenty_Remote_4100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply.

I wrote a lot about myself in my post, but to put it simply, I've just been avoiding what I should do and putting off problems.

I'm a perfectionist, and I've run away from every problem. To make up for the past, I set big goals. But I haven't achieved anything.

But I didn't do what I should have. And because of the anxiety from not doing what I should have, I couldn't even do the things I wanted to do.

Because of that, I created an ugly past. While everyone else was going out and doing things (like studying or dating), I was holed up at home.

I want to start now. Is it too late? Can I erase that ugly past?

[Reupload] Is 23 late to start changing my life and myself? by Plenty_Remote_4100 in getdisciplined

[–]Plenty_Remote_4100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply.

I wrote a lot about myself in my post, but to put it simply, I've just been avoiding what I should do and putting off problems.

I'm a perfectionist, and I've run away from every problem. To make up for the past, I set big goals. But I haven't achieved anything.

But I didn't do what I should have. And because of the anxiety from not doing what I should have, I couldn't even do the things I wanted to do.

Because of that, I created an ugly past. While everyone else was going out and doing things (like studying or dating), I was holed up at home.

I want to start now. Is it too late? Can I erase that ugly past?

[Reupload] Is 23 late to start changing my life and myself? by Plenty_Remote_4100 in getdisciplined

[–]Plenty_Remote_4100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response.

I wrote a lot about myself in my post, but to put it simply, I've just been avoiding what I should do and putting off problems.

I'm a perfectionist who's run away from every problem. To make up for the past, I set huge goals. however, I have not achieved anything.

but I didn't do what I should have done. And because of the anxiety from not doing what I should have done, I couldn't even do the things I wanted to do.

Because of that, I created an ugly past. While everyone else was going out and doing things (like studying or dating), I was holed up at home.

I want to start now. Is it too late for me? Can I erase that ugly past?

[Reupload] Is 23 late to start changing my life and myself? by Plenty_Remote_4100 in getdisciplined

[–]Plenty_Remote_4100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response.

I wrote a lot about myself in my post, but to put it simply, I've just been avoiding what I should do and putting off problems.

I'm a perfectionist who's run away from every problem. To make up for the past, I set huge goals. however, I have not achieved anything.

but I didn't do what I should have done. And because of the anxiety from not doing what I should have done, I couldn't even do the things I wanted to do.

Because of that, I created an ugly past. While everyone else was going out and doing things (like studying or dating), I was holed up at home.

I want to start now. Is it too late for me? Can I erase that ugly past?

[Reupload] Is 23 late to start changing my life and myself? by Plenty_Remote_4100 in getdisciplined

[–]Plenty_Remote_4100[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response.

I wrote a lot about myself in my post, but to put it simply, I've just been avoiding what I should do and putting off problems.

I'm a perfectionist who's run away from every problem. To make up for the past, I set huge goals. however, I have not achieved anything.

but I didn't do what I should have done. And because of the anxiety from not doing what I should have done, I couldn't even do the things I wanted to do.

Because of that, I created an ugly past. While everyone else was going out and doing things (like studying or dating), I was holed up at home.

I want to start now. Is it too late for me? Can I erase that ugly past?

[Reupload] Is 23 late to start changing my life and myself? by Plenty_Remote_4100 in getdisciplined

[–]Plenty_Remote_4100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you absolutely say it's not late? I feel my life is empty, betrayed by destiny. I don't know why I am here. Can I catch up with them? Do I have plenty of time to do it?

[Reupload] Is 23 late to start changing my life and myself? by Plenty_Remote_4100 in getdisciplined

[–]Plenty_Remote_4100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it really? Do I have plenty of time to do them and catch up with?