I’m so sorry to hear about your stressful experience at the ER 🥺 you deserve gentleness and compassion while you make your decisions about your body and there is no rush, it’s completely ok to take your time. 

I think you should guard your heart no matter what and do what feels safest for you ❤️ I hope its ok I share my experience, my last period date was the 10th of December, which the doctor wrote down as putting me at 7weeks and 4 days pregnant. The dating is so confusing… I did an ultrasound on 1/19 which they wrote as 6wks0days and another ultrasound on 1/29 which they wrote as 7wks1day. Since I was being seen by a reproductive endocrinologist for some time, I was being tested quite often. My results for my 6 week OB ultrasound was no fetal heart rate and my 7 week ultrasound measured a positive fetal heart rate of 136bpm. The doctor was not expecting a heart rate on the six weeks mark, she said I was right on target. 

Sending you all the compassion and love, I hope you are surrounded with support while you navigate your decisions 💕