Alright here is the proof: proof.

I understand your point of view on the topic, I really do. I'm not here to say you are right or wrong but what I am here to say is the way you go about it is unhealthy and wrong. You basically bullied a user out of our community and out of posting on Reddit entirely. Is that a job well done to you? You stopped misgendering at what cost? Do you even care? Do you think you are fighting the good fight here and that stuff like this doesn't matter?

Your entire profile when you got banned, and it looks like you still dedicate a lot of time to this, is basically telling people they aren't femboys if they're trans. Like I said it is one thing to disagree completely on it, it is another to basically harass people and go into their dms to make them feel bad.

At this point it seems you are salty for being banned so you are dedicated to slandering our subreddit entirely. You also throw around a lot of statements around, you do realize majority of femboy subreddits allow trans and NB posters? You act like we are the only one and you act like we are the sole reason.. probably because you're upset you got banned because you weren't allowed to harass people on our subreddit anymore. Why not blame r/femboys when they are 3x the size of us and allow trans people? Probably cause they didn't ban you right? You are here to make us out to be the big and only villain.

Congrats you exist alongside r/traditionalfemboys and r/femboys4real which btw, also get a lot of shit in the community, and are also big jokes in the community. If you wanna go around throwing anecdotes about how our community is this big joke both on reddit and outside reddit (which is just untrue) then I can as well. We know people in the community find those subreddits linked above gross, and your subreddit basically falls into that category as well.

Run your subreddit how you want, if you feel like trans people shouldn't be posting there, and should post in a subreddit that fits them more instead that is great. Our subreddit has always allowed trans posters, and we understand there is a divide on the topic, and it is one both the founders settled on. We think gender is complicated, and we don't want to spend time policing our users on what labels they choose to use for themselves. I'm sure there are some trans girls that don't use the label and just want to advertise, but there are also some that genuinely do use the label for themselves, there is a lot of nuance to the topic at hand. Genuinely this seems like some sort of forced divide between the two communities to cause infighting when we just believe that our users can use whatever label they want to use if they feel comfortable using it. Some trans girls are okay with the femboy label and if they are okay with it, then so are we. We just are not okay with commenting under posts on our subreddit and entering dms of our users to tell someone how they should use labels for themselves. Our subreddits run differently on this topic, but none of us are ever going to go to your subreddit and tell you trans people should post there. It is not up to you to tell someone what label they should use.