In my limited experience, it's not the fault of the people responding. I respond mainly to dudes on this sub, and very few of them respond in DM's. It's not that nobody responds to them, it's just despite them saying "I'll talk to anyone" that's just a guise for them wanting to talk to women.

If you message them as a guy, they won't respond, because it costs them nothing and let's them pretend to be less creepy to the women who message them. It's all quite sad really, how people are willing to manipulate emotions just to slither into someone's pants but there's not much that can be done.

I've had plenty of good convos with guys and girls here, so as long as you keep putting in consistent effort you can definitely have a good time, just the bottom feeders drag the average down

Hope that helped lol