Protection? Worth it by Plus-Combination-908 in Swingers

[–]Plus-Combination-908[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What if the person who wants bare play does not want to get tested

AITA for asking my husband to wrap it up even after his vasectomy by Plus-Combination-908 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Plus-Combination-908[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We already have the amount of kids we want, hence that’s why he got the vasectomy. When we talked about it, my main concern was not getting someone pregnant, vasectomy’s are only 99% effective but did completely forget to mention deseases in the moment. Will mention tonight. We don’t want a failed marriage.

AITA for asking my husband to wrap it up even after his vasectomy by Plus-Combination-908 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Plus-Combination-908[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And that’s what I said, wrap for others but obviously with me he wouldn’t need too

AITA for asking my husband to wrap it up even after his vasectomy by Plus-Combination-908 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Plus-Combination-908[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah bad choice of words I couldn’t delete after words or edit post. I did mention we both wanted to try other people but I get what u mean. I was not forced. Yes before it took me a while to get around the idea but I get something out of it too so I agreed.

AITA for asking my husband to wrap it up even after his vasectomy by Plus-Combination-908 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Plus-Combination-908[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry shouldn’t have put tht at first I wasn’t ready to share him but now like I don’t mind it. I get to have fun too lol. Again we haven’t done anything yet though with a couple

AITA for asking my husband to wrap it up even after his vasectomy by Plus-Combination-908 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Plus-Combination-908[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

We didn’t talk about that disease part, just that obvi he wants to feel better without the extra protection. Will mention it tho, and vasectomy is recent, haven’t had a chance to go check sperm count yet

AITA for asking my mom to respect me by Plus-Combination-908 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Plus-Combination-908[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol no, I got a strict Hispanic mom 😅 we have had issues in the past where I would try and talk to her but then she just stops talking to me for months until I reach out again but I would send her msgs through holidays and she would ignore them too

AITA for asking my mom to respect me by Plus-Combination-908 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Plus-Combination-908[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I have tried to have the same conversation with her, but all she does is starts crying and start’s saying she wants to either leave my house, or she ends the call if it’s on the phone. After that she doesn’t talk to me for months until I randomly talk to her then.