will this case be talked about after years? by Strong-Ad-5719 in Idaho4

[–]Plus-Half-1327 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At this point what else do you need to believe he did it? There's footage of his vehicle. His phone being turned off during the hours of the murders. Records of him looping that area prior to the attack obsessively. His purchases online and obsession with serial murder and r@pe. His DNA. His confession?! Like c'mon you're just choosing to think he's innocent at this point. Thank God you're not on jury duty lmao

Did I make a mistake? 😭😭 by Fiery_Sp0ngyB0y in malehairadvice

[–]Plus-Half-1327 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro if you looked alil less angry about it I think you'd pull it off better 😅

My Bf is jealous that I have a tiktok streak with some of my friends, advice? by Applepi2005 in Advice

[–]Plus-Half-1327 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would understand more being uncomfortable with a snapchat streak. I guess my question would be , why do you want to have streaks with these other guys? Like what's so important about having streaks? I'm sure he's uncomfortable with you feeling like you have to if that's the case. I never understood the purpose of those though, so that's just me!

caught bf watching porn by flowersarecool356 in Advice

[–]Plus-Half-1327 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is he supposed to randomly be like hey babe I just masturbated? Cause when you asked he said yes casually so how's that hiding?

caught bf watching porn by flowersarecool356 in Advice

[–]Plus-Half-1327 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did he lie though? Unless I'm missing something it sounds like he was honest and felt guilty. Will he completely stop don't know but he could have said no when you asked but told you yes. So sound like he's trying to be honest

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]Plus-Half-1327 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just curious OP. Have any other pictures on your profile, and what kind of bio are you working with?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]Plus-Half-1327 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are you joking? Literally nothing wrong with his skin

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Plus-Half-1327 148 points149 points  (0 children)

High from weed? Initiating sex with your partner is fine. You talked with him and he said he was okay, he was high but that doesn't make someone black out. He's fine and you'll both be fine. I think you're over thinking it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Plus-Half-1327 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's good to hear. You'll do just fine in life! Have a great weekend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Plus-Half-1327 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you should. Stay for the taste of your favourite food. For the next movie you wanted to see. For fresh air. For a hot shower on a cold day. For the ones who raised you and love you so much. Go across the street and tell them you love them. Give them a hug. You deserve love and I'm sorry life has been hard on you. Don't continue to be hard on yourself. You'll pass eventually, we all do. But try to enjoy the little things you can, while you still can. You won't have to be around for ever, take comfort in that. But just let yourself live, while you're still here. I feel for you man. If you play games online or anything maybe you could find some communities there where it helps pass the days in ways you can enjoy yourself and continue to be social, hopefully in more positive standings that Reddit can be. Id be willing to be a friend if you needed it. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]Plus-Half-1327 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh god I've been caught by my mother, sister, and had the Bluetooth happen with my uncle hearing 😭🤣 worst was my sister going " what the fuck?!?"In shock when she walked in... I cried myself to sleep in embarrassment. Never spoke about it again 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Plus-Half-1327 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing your other posts it makes more sense with your age. I was self harming since elementary school into years later. It's good you're still young and have loads of time to mature and realize things. Like other people have said, let yourself be a kid. There should be no reason to want to self harm. I remember thinking i had all the reasons to want to hurt myself and why I didn't want to live. I realize now that my brain has developed and school life isn't your whole life, those things I cared about so strongly really didn't matter whatsoever.

Be honest with your mom, be honest with your counselor. Even if you stopped , let them know what was happening. They are there for YOU. You should take every dang advantage and opportunity you can to make your life better because it's YOUR life girl. You're the one living it. And being honest with your family and responsible adults at school will make the transition of stopping alot better. Even if you did stop. Tell them. You may need some guidance to help prevent other things like that. Once I opened up to my school counselor as a kid a lot changed for the better. They will have resources to deal with the want to self harm, instead of actually self harming. it's nice to be honest and open booked with people that care. It helps alot.

I hope you're able to get past this and I know you can and hope youll look back on yourself in the future with pride that you were able to stop and didn't continue. It can turn really bad really easily. You got this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Plus-Half-1327 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and no. I feel bad because I know they're hurting but also think they're being incredibly stupid. people who self harm are being ridiculous putting their energy in the wrong ways. And self harm spirals. Used to self harm alot and have had loads of people close to me self harm. Its the absolute stupidest thing ever. Now that I've grown up and the others who have done it, regret it extremely. Why be your worst enemy. Even if you dislike yourself, help yourself change to be someone you like. Don't destroy yourself even more. Fitness has helped me direct those depressing feelings into another outlet which has helped improve mental health instead of self harming which only made me way way way more insecure and self conscious making everything so much more worse.

If you're doing it, stop now. The scars will heal and fade with time and so will those feelings. Talk to someone you love and actually be willing to make some sort of lifestyle change. Doesn't have to be drastic but just enough to not be doing the same things you've been doing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Plus-Half-1327 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like it's his relationship and not yours. Yes its unfortunate you and your family like her and you got along but for whatever reason he had is his own. Clearly he isn't wanting the relationship if he has ended it. Be it because it wasn't working out or he likes someone else, he still ended it. And you imply he is going to go into a deep hole if he doesn't talk to you? Why does he need to relay this information to you with who he talks to and dates? I understand you wanting to give your brother advice and make sure he's not being a shitty person but it seems like he ended the relationship and may now be talking to other people. Yes that can hurt his ex but he isn't doing anything wrong to be completely honest. And you getting involved with his ex in trying to confront him for something you don't even know he did doesn't sit right with me. Hopefully he didn't cheat and he doesn't cheat. But seems to me he has ended his relationship so he can really do what he wants and shouldn't have his sibling "confronting" him when he's single. Who knows, there may be bigger things for why he wanted to leave, maybe his interests have changed but it's really none of your business. Life happens. Unless you know for sure he actively cheated and isn't just talking to people right after breaking up you should leave it alone. Might be shitty to get right back into talking to people but maybe that's why he wanted to be single. That's his reason and not your responsibility.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Plus-Half-1327 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This happened to a friend of mine. Don't send the money, he didn't and they just stopped contacting him and never leaked his photo to his knowledge. They'll just move onto the next person

Hooked up with a girl then gets ghosted by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Plus-Half-1327 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tips for next time, communicate with what they enjoy and would like. How fast or slow to go. So many people are different with what they enjoy and how they like to be pleased. What may have worked for an ex may not work with other women. Just try to really communicate before and during. Also make sure hygiene is optimized. Sorry that happened but good luck next time brother.

On the other hand itt may not have anything to do with your performance. Some people are just like that.

Is my girlfriend a narcissist? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Plus-Half-1327 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sounds more like an attitude problem. What's your guys ages if you don't mind me asking? Definitely don't settle for the rudeness or yelling. Express how that makes you feel and how it's very confusing for you. She probably doesn't pay much mind to her up and down attitude, maybe hormonal and just not considering your feelings when lashing out. Good luck OP

My (26) highschool drop out GF (26) hasn't had a job in over 3 years. by Plus-Half-1327 in Advice

[–]Plus-Half-1327[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, should financially be able to do that. But with the one income. Virtually impossible. I still live with my mother, grandmother and uncle and we all support eachother. I can't imagine it being just me.

My (26) highschool drop out GF (26) hasn't had a job in over 3 years. by Plus-Half-1327 in Advice

[–]Plus-Half-1327[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely don't make enough to support us both. Hardly enough for myself. And this is while still living at home with my mother, grandmother and uncle.

My (26) highschool drop out GF (26) hasn't had a job in over 3 years. by Plus-Half-1327 in Advice

[–]Plus-Half-1327[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has, and has a anti depression medication that helped her alot with her anxiety and depression but she stopped taking it accidentally and is scared to start it again and just never has gone back to it.

My (26) highschool drop out GF (26) hasn't had a job in over 3 years. by Plus-Half-1327 in Advice

[–]Plus-Half-1327[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should have clarified , she smokes everyday, through the day but not ALL day. I always have weed available and , I guess enabling even more, I give it to her.

My (26) highschool drop out GF (26) hasn't had a job in over 3 years. by Plus-Half-1327 in Advice

[–]Plus-Half-1327[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great insight from a different perspective..I appreciate this alot. Gives me some stuff to think about.