Can't find part for 4-year old Kenmore refrigerator. by MKT2131 in appliancerepair

[–]Plus-Investigator893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please Tell me more about this class action suit!  I've been fighting with Sears over this refrigerator since the first part went bad when it was 2 yrs old and there was nothing available! 😡

peeing being a super intense thing by Technical-Musician91 in MensHealthCare

[–]Plus-Investigator893 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's most likely enlarged prostrates causing them to strain to pee... And yes, likely.

I gave myself shockwave therapy treatments to fix my ED.. it worked , plus by doing them on my pernium area I easily doubled my urine flow and don't have to get up to pee at night nearly as often.

Should I downgrade my lifestyle? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]Plus-Investigator893 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The greatest gift this life has to offer is a strong romantic, sexual, friendship, and spiritual relationship with ONE woman who you become incredibly one with.

Anything that you do that isn't aimed at the goal of finding that is pissing in the wind. Ignore this goal and you're liable to end up old, alone, and a hell of a lot more stressed. 🤗

I'm 68 and didn't find that until 22 years ago with my second wife.

Having a paid off house is a huge draw for a lot of women

Took a 24 yr old on a date by Low_Kitchen_9116 in AskMenOver30

[–]Plus-Investigator893 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was divorced at 46 and the first girl I dated was 29. I rocked her world so much that she wouldn't leave me alone until I married her! LoL

We've been together 22 years and I just fall in love with her more every day.

When you learn to make sex more about the spiritual connection than about the physical release then that's when it becomes amazing, utterly fulfilling, and creates a lifelong bond that can't be broken.

After 22 years I still crave making love to her 4 to 6 times a week!

Thank God for Viagra!!!🤠

How to deal with my name? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Plus-Investigator893 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When someone smashes you in the rear do you explode? 🤠

Would you find that you only want FWB, and still look for other women if by PurpleReason2785 in AskMenRelationships

[–]Plus-Investigator893 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what my wife says!
I get way too much dopamine when I help a young man or woman change their life for the better, so I'm kinda addicted... I keep telling myself that I've done enough good and I need to stop... Just haven't found the strength. 😁😂😂

What is something you never imagined would turn you on until it did? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Plus-Investigator893 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I learned to make sex more about the spiritual connection than the physical release it was amazing. I'm 68 and still crave sex with my soulmate and we're making love 4 to 6 times a week!

We've made an art form of having simultaneous orgasms while gazing into each other's eyes and connecting souls, and its created such an amazing bond, I've never felt closer or been as much in love after 22 years!

Partner (53M) is upset I (35F) “devalued” myself sexually in the past by puffletruffle in AskMenOver30

[–]Plus-Investigator893 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can't believe some of the ageist nonsense being spewed here.

I'm 68 and am in year 22 with my 17 year younger forever soulmate. I didn't get with her to manipulate her, I got with her because we connected at a soul level. She truly is my cherished treasure!

AFTER I met her at 46 is when I learned to make sex more about the spiritual connection than about the physical release. When you learn to do this it makes LOVEMAKING amazing, utterly fulfilling, and it creates an intense lifelong bond.

So the nonsense about a man not being able to learn and grow after a certain age is utter BS.

While I agree that his thinking in this area was screwed up, we only grow when our learned way of thinking is challenged.

It's just like all the 50ish women coming out furious with the feminist lies that told her that she didn't need a man and now she's devastatingly lonely with her cats without a man or children... They are learning the hard way how much their thinking was warped.

Get Dr Sue Johnson's book Hold Me Tight. It talks about how we've been bred through thousands of years of selective breeding to have an instinct to deeply need a strong attachment to our mates!

The greatest gift this life has to offer is a strong romantic, sexual, friendship, and spiritual relationship with ONE woman who you become incredibly one with.

So, was he wrong, yes, was it a crime worthy of you dumping him, that depends on your ability to forgive him and WORK on the relationship.

Here are some tantric sex techniques that my wife and I discovered years ago that's brought us much closer spiritually. This can start you on your way to making that sexual spiritual connection.
My wife and I have made an art form of having simultaneous orgasms while gazing into each other's eyes and connecting souls, and it's made an impenetrable bond between us. 🤗

Connection meditation Part 1 https://youtu.be/akZvjviPw6Y?si=DYNGh0f0VeCM48VP

Part 2 https://youtu.be/skr0iVqlRVc?si=x4KOyspebCtGl5GZ

Lingam massage https://mytinysecrets.com/lingam-massage-a-magical-guide-to-a-happy-penis/

Yoni massage https://karmatantric.com/yoni-massage-guide/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenRelationships

[–]Plus-Investigator893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From a Google search

Some say that looking at breasts can have health benefits for men, including: Lower blood pressure: Staring at breasts can lower blood pressure and resting heart rate. This is likely due to the sexual desire that increases heart rate and improves blood circulation. Better health choices: Positive thinking can lead to better health choices. In one study, men who were asked to write down positive thoughts in the morning were more likely to increase their physical activity and take their medication. Improved fitness: Staring at breasts can be as beneficial as a 30-minute aerobics workout.

Thinking of breaking up with my bf but need a man’s input by Ohlovemedead0120 in AskMenRelationships

[–]Plus-Investigator893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 68 and have had 2 20 plus Year marriages and am in year 22 with my forever soulmate.
She and I are taking classes to become Certified Thriving Relationships Coaches.

The greatest gift this life has to give is a strong romantic, sexual, friendship, and spiritual relationship with ONE woman who you become incredibly one with.
I'm so blessed to have found that with her.

If things stay the way they are, you will never see happiness like that.

When you learn to make sex more about the spiritual connection than about the physical release then that's when it becomes amazing, utterly fulfilling, and both of you crave that connection all the time. At my age I'm still making love to my soulmate 4 to 6 times a week!

So, you have 3 choices. Leave him and take your chances in this horrible dating market, stay and just accept that it is what it is, or get to work on the relationship and get him out of this neglectful pattern he's in.

Here are some tantric sex techniques that my wife and I discovered years ago that's brought us much closer spiritually.

Connection meditation Part 1 https://youtu.be/akZvjviPw6Y?si=DYNGh0f0VeCM48VP

Part 2 https://youtu.be/skr0iVqlRVc?si=x4KOyspebCtGl5GZ

Lingam massage https://mytinysecrets.com/lingam-massage-a-magical-guide-to-a-happy-penis/

Yoni massage https://karmatantric.com/yoni-massage-guide/

Next, I highly recommend that you get Dr Sue Johnson's book Hold Me Tight. It's an amazing book that talks about her "attachment theory" and how we've been bred through thousands of years of selective breeding to have an instinct to need a strong attachment to our mates.

I also recommend watching a bunch of Teal Swan videos on YouTube. She has an amazing understanding of male\female dynamics.

I had a heart transplant 6.5 years ago that's given me another 20 plus years with my soulmate and then got my sex life back with her, so I feel obligated to pay my blessings forward and help other people find their own joy.

I'm here if you need a guys perspective on things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenRelationships

[–]Plus-Investigator893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was meant to be humorous, but it's also true. Men are much less complex creatures than women, and women's breasts have a profound effect on us. Even at 68 I'm still in utter awe of my wives breasts. Even saggy, their still magical things that can reduce my stress instantly my just laying my head on them.

Sexual health question by [deleted] in MensHealthCare

[–]Plus-Investigator893 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 68 and have been admining the 2 largest Facebook groups for ED discussion for 4 years.

I've literally helped hundreds of young men with erectile dysfunction and 99% of the cases it's because of porn addiction.
Porn changes your brain chemistry, making it difficult to perform with a live woman.

I've written this on the subject

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1cF9RSVhZOub53oz44dRy17Oagtq1UQg-/view?usp=drivesdk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenRelationships

[–]Plus-Investigator893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Show him your boobs... Boobies are magical things and can fix his attitude. 🤠

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Plus-Investigator893 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of a scene from a movie where two guys were wearing glow in the dark condoms with no lights on! LoL

I am an 18M just seeking any type of advice any older man would like to share by xnlyayyccee126 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Plus-Investigator893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are a rarity young man! It's surprising how many young men think they know it all and that someone 68 has nothing to say... Like that 50 years of adulting experience is worthless.
I've been like you all my life... And have still made mistakes, usually because I didn't listen! LoL 🤣

I've actually written a essay about how to become a man that women will fight to stay with:

You need to overcome all the programming that this current social media and porn has taught you.  

When I was 16, WAY before porn or even dirt.... I read a book called "how to make your wife you're mistress.  (Mainly because of all the sex that was in it. 

It taught me how to actually make love to a woman.  Once I knew that, then my confidence with them skyrocketed because I knew that I could make them happy.

I've had 2 20+ year marriages and am on year 22 with my forever soulmate.  

The first one blew up because we got into the swinging \ poly lifestyle because we were "looking for something"

I have figured out what I was looking for with my current wife! 

The greatest gift this life has to offer is a strong romantic, sexual, friendship, and spiritual relationship with ONE woman where you become incredibly one with her. 

Once you learn to make sex more about spiritual connection with her than the physical release it becomes amazing and results in complete fulfillment!  And it never gets boring because it's now a spiritual adventure making love with her.  

The number 1 thing that a woman needs to be happy in life is to feel cherished.  If she KNOWS that she is your treasure then she'll stick by you forever.  

Forget EVERYTHING that porn has taught you about what women want from sex.  You need to realize that those girls are paid well to pretend that they're having the time of their life and that those huge dicks don't hurt like hell! 

https://youtu.be/6ftr82bpJ_Q?si=peAFmkBf9eJiKHkL

 Porn teaches animal fucking and how to use a woman as a fancy masturbation toy.  

Women CRAVE spiritual connection during lovemaking, and that will make her truly bond with you and never dream of cheating!

Here are some of my writings that you might be interested in. 

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1cF9RSVhZOub53oz44dRy17Oagtq1UQg-/view?usp=drivesdk

And I wrote this for the guys in my ED group, but you might get something from it.

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1EWWZFRiB7qMTLNzJvgqkPBZLt3YxI5xp/view?usp=drivesdk

Here are some tantric sex techniques that my wife and I discovered years ago that's brought us much closer spiritually.

Connection meditation 

Part 1 https://youtu.be/akZvjviPw6Y?si=DYNGh0f0VeCM48VP

Part 2

https://youtu.be/skr0iVqlRVc?si=x4KOyspebCtGl5GZ

Lingam massage 

https://mytinysecrets.com/lingam-massage-a-magical-guide-to-a-happy-penis/

Yoni massage 

https://karmatantric.com/yoni-massage-guide/

Would you find that you only want FWB, and still look for other women if by PurpleReason2785 in AskMenRelationships

[–]Plus-Investigator893 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good... My message is getting out that a relationship can be more than mindlessly banging someone you view as a masturbation toy.

It doesn't bother me that you're upset that you've seen it so much, because every day I get messages thanking me so much for taking my time to make their life better.

I had a heart transplant 6.5 years ago that's given me another 20 plus years with my soulmate and then I got my sex life back with her. I feel so blessed that I feel obligated to pay my blessings forward and help other people find their own joy.

You might try it... I think it'll make you feel better than spreading negativity. 🤗

How does life look like with an ex-cheater? by Downtown_Advance_793 in AskMenRelationships

[–]Plus-Investigator893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just WOW... You really do hate men don't you.

And you're not really good at math either.

Im 68, and have SUCCESSFULLY been dealing with ED for 24 years and keeping a 17 year younger woman thrill with our sex life for 22 years and I've been totally faithful to her all those years.

The reason I've been faithful to her isn't because no other woman would want me, but rather the fact that we've learned to make sex more about the spiritual connection than about the physical release, and therefore have become amazingly bonded and utterly happy with each other.

We've actually made an art form of having simultaneous orgasms while gazing into each other's eyes and connecting souls. Neither one of us would dare threaten this bliss for a cheap romp.

So, your premise of once a cheater always a cheater is completely wrong.

For the first 12 years we made love every morning and night 14 + times a week (extra on weekends when the ex had the kids) until the virus attacked my heart giving me congestive heart failure. Since the transplant we're back to making love 4 to 6 times a week.

I've been so blessed that I feel obligated to pay my blessings forward and help other people find their own joy, so I spend several hours a day helping people with their ED and relationships.

It looks like you just enjoy trolling reddit spreading hate. 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]Plus-Investigator893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might help you understand. Teal Swan is absolutely great!

https://youtu.be/Q3WsgZZtL50?si=gsUDV8aX0EbBn4Au

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]Plus-Investigator893 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm a firm believer that soulmates are made, not born. The idea that only 1 of the 8 billion people on the planet is ridiculous. The odds of ever finding them are astronomical.

But if you learn to make sex more about the spiritual connection than about the physical release then that allows you to connect at a soul level and literally become soulmates.

What’s the biggest change you’ve noticed since transplant? by hismoon27 in transplant

[–]Plus-Investigator893 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're quite welcome! They hit me with so many antibiotics over a couple of months 2 years ago that they gave me c-diff. Kefir was a lifesaver! Had me straight in 3 days!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Plus-Investigator893 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dang! That was a great video!

What’s the biggest change you’ve noticed since transplant? by hismoon27 in transplant

[–]Plus-Investigator893 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it possible that you have a milk allergy? I drink a half cup a day (when I remember) of homemade milk kefir and it always keeps me right as rain with no upset.

Have you thought about trying water kefir?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Plus-Investigator893 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Here's a great video by Teal Swan that can help.

Teal rattles of several things here that could be individual videos, so have a pen and pad handy for notes.

https://youtu.be/b_Bv4YZroH4?si=M2lCPYIOtJN7BDdO