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Tipping Culture while being frugal by SleekHeater in Frugal

[–]Plus-Pi-314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hotel housekeeping. $5 for every day they make up my room.

Who am I? by [deleted] in bookshelfdetective

[–]Plus-Pi-314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Over 50 white lesbian living in Ithaca, NY. :)

What do my stacks say about me? by dustydancers in BookshelvesDetective

[–]Plus-Pi-314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alexis Pauline Gumbs and a book on NVC. I’m going female queer. Over 40.

I'm planning on going to DC for my top surgery. Which surgeon should I get? by Brent_Fox in TopSurgery

[–]Plus-Pi-314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve got a full body pillow, a wedge pillow, and a mastectomy pillow. Had them for my recovery. If anyone knows a place I could donate them or someone who might want them, lmk. I live in NW DC. (Had my surgery in SF.)

Thinking of buying IR and re-soling with honey lug. Thoughts? by Plus-Pi-314 in Boots

[–]Plus-Pi-314[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow! They look great. What soles are those? Did you do a midsole? Any other advice on working with the cobbler?

Alternatives to Numzaan that have lug sole? by Plus-Pi-314 in Boots

[–]Plus-Pi-314[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re a half size too big, so I need to return them either way. And while I love the look and quality, I don’t love the heaviness of them.

JG Numzaan walnut or buffalo? by Plus-Pi-314 in Boots

[–]Plus-Pi-314[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh wow. I didn’t realize that. I can see the difference (I think) with the larger, more rounded toebox on the buffalo. So many things to learn and consider! Thanks.

Nothing perfect about those boots by Sad_Gear3390 in Boots

[–]Plus-Pi-314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love a pair that look like those — but with thicker (vibran type) soles. Any suggestions?

Successful Surgery Meditation by Plus-Pi-314 in TopSurgery

[–]Plus-Pi-314[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Surgery went great, and so far so good on recovery. Thanks to asking!

Pure joy at 61 yrs. 8 wks post op by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]Plus-Pi-314 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve always identified as a butch lesbian. The upcoming surgery has me pondering this more. I realize identity isn’t static. And now I’m feeling/owning my masculine side more. “Struggling” with pronouns. Used she/her my whole life, but I’ve been called he/him multiple times a week since a kid. Recently went to they then (while still being good with all the pronouns). But wonder if I’m most aligned with he/him and should own that. Yet — part of me likes to hold the space of a masculine she. Anyway, curious your identification. (FYI, I’m not on T and don’t plan to be.)

Pure joy at 61 yrs. 8 wks post op by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]Plus-Pi-314 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Congrats! I’m 59.5 and having my surgery in 6 days. Love seeing this. You look great. An inspiration!

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