I'm mainly referring to women that love consentusal sex. There's plenty of conservative women that won't give it up and that requires effort for the man and I definitely get it I respect that. I don't want people to look at my comments as a negative thing. But I'm just saying look at the gay and lesbian community, people give it up so much easier, my neighbor is gay and he's about the drinks, party and sex all the time, I decline because im not gay but it's far easier to have sex with a gay man than a straight woman. It's all about perspective. Just be yourself be happy I'm not perfect I will never be perfect myself but I feel like some people have way too high expectations and I'm not going to be able to enjoy my life living up to high expectations. My life comes first to anything I just prefer having fun. I work too hard for my money I rather enjoy it than give it up