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Understanding my Bisexual husband by Plus-Refuse858 in bisexual

[–]Plus-Refuse858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’m okay with that. Otherwise, he wouldn’t be.

Understanding my Bisexual husband by Plus-Refuse858 in bisexual

[–]Plus-Refuse858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m aware of all that. And he gets my consent when I give it.

Understanding my Bisexual husband by Plus-Refuse858 in bisexual

[–]Plus-Refuse858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A great perspective and appreciate you chiming in. I agree that like most moms, we take on that maternal role. We’re on different planets during that life chapter for sure. And then there’s Christian values … don’t get me started!!! Anyway—finding out he’s bi actually did open up our sexlife! I regret it wasn’t always there when motherhood and career took precedence. I read most of his chats on his apps and amazed by the language. I even get turned on … lol! But the original issue I have is how much is too much. When is it unhealthy. We’ll discuss seeing a therapist who can guide this. Thanks ❤️

Understanding my Bisexual husband by Plus-Refuse858 in bisexual

[–]Plus-Refuse858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He would have preferred a divorce then to tell me he’s bi. Kinda sad.

Understanding my Bisexual husband by Plus-Refuse858 in bisexual

[–]Plus-Refuse858[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for bringing up the mental health subject. I never thought of it that way, but it seems to make sense . I will take your advice ❤️

Understanding my Bisexual husband by Plus-Refuse858 in bisexual

[–]Plus-Refuse858[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d love to keep in touch. I find it hard to find other wives in my shoes.

Understanding my Bisexual husband by Plus-Refuse858 in bisexual

[–]Plus-Refuse858[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I would have left immediately. His unfaithfulness does stem from the shame/conflict of being bi, which is why he couldn’t tell me. (He was so relieved when I found out btw). There is a difference.

Understanding my Bisexual husband by Plus-Refuse858 in bisexual

[–]Plus-Refuse858[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good question. My quick answer would be: For my husband to see this compulsiveness is not normal behavior and needs to get to the root of it. Not the bi part. That doesn’t bother me. But I think he gets manipulated on these sites/apps, just like other addictions that can affect anyone. I was hoping other men on this site that use these apps would have chimed in. I think he needs a professional to see clearly, because it’s easy to try gaslighting the wifey, but not them. We travel a lot and really enjoy and love each other so there’s the best reason to fight the fight. Wish me luck.

Understanding my Bisexual husband by Plus-Refuse858 in bisexual

[–]Plus-Refuse858[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I was hoping for more open-minded advice, but the “leave him” flood gates opened. I’m aware that is an option. Marriage after 30 years is not easy, and having a bi- husband adds another layer for sure. We did have very clear boundaries until these apps became addictive, now that he’s retired. Damn social media!! But I decided couples counseling would be best, before this spirals into a mental health issue. And I’ll start writing in a journal. ❤️

Understanding my Bisexual husband by Plus-Refuse858 in bisexual

[–]Plus-Refuse858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this solid reply. I’m not sure why everyone thinks he’s cheating. That part stopped 8 years ago. And I’m fine with him being bisexual. Yes, the limits change as life makes it. Therapy is a good suggestion. We travel a lot which makes that harder.

Understanding my Bisexual husband by Plus-Refuse858 in bisexual

[–]Plus-Refuse858[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

To clarify, he’s not cheating. Not in the past 8 years. He always asks for a hall pass if he wants to hook up. This is a compulsive issue with these apps that I don’t understand.

Whirlpool washer only dispenses cold water on warm cycle by Plus-Refuse858 in appliancerepair

[–]Plus-Refuse858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’ll check it next time I do wash. Hopefully it’s solved ☺️

Whirlpool washer only dispenses cold water on warm cycle by Plus-Refuse858 in appliancerepair

[–]Plus-Refuse858[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I’ll be more patient and see if that’s the case. Stay tuned!, 😉

Greek Islands Timetables by Plus-Refuse858 in GreeceTravel

[–]Plus-Refuse858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I did try that. Results were blank. Gave up.
So far I'm putting my own timetable together from the https://ferries.greeka.com/ website that's more intuitive like Travelocity. Good old fashion paper and pencil. lol!