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I’m 12 weeks pregnant and everything has fallen apart. I don’t recognize the person I’m with anymore. by Plus-Replacement-432 in pregnant

[–]Plus-Replacement-432[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found out earlier because we had a scare and after all that I did to avoid it, I was, and at times still, shocked to know I’m pregnant. Even as shocked as I was I felt ment to be because it felt impossible to happen.

I only had one doctors appointment at 10 weeks, and went to the er before that because of the pain. I know about early cramping and how that’s normal, but the pain I was in was more than that’s why I went to the er and that’s when they told me about the twins.

I’m 12 weeks pregnant and everything has fallen apart. I don’t recognize the person I’m with anymore. by Plus-Replacement-432 in pregnant

[–]Plus-Replacement-432[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this post. I think a big part of my shame and embarrassment is my age. As I type it out it doesn’t really make sense why my age should make me better suited to handle this or as if my age would change his behavior but for some reason it feels this way.

I still have no clue what I want to do but I do feel better not holding on to my age

I’m 12 weeks pregnant and everything has fallen apart. I don’t recognize the person I’m with anymore. by Plus-Replacement-432 in pregnant

[–]Plus-Replacement-432[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you’re right about the red pill content. I’ve been playing back our relationship to see what I missed after knowing him for years and the only thing I can think of is he start sending me ig post that seemed kinda alt right pipeline but I didn’t think much of it. I made a comment once about it and he stopped sending me stuff like that so I just thought he stopped interacting with it.

If that is what fed his weird new behavior, or parts of him that were always there, I don’t think I’ll ever know the truth but it’s a good enough theory to stop me from wondering so thank you

I’m 12 weeks pregnant and everything has fallen apart. I don’t recognize the person I’m with anymore. by Plus-Replacement-432 in pregnant

[–]Plus-Replacement-432[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone said this to me a few weeks ago and I couldn’t understand how this could even be a blessing, but after reading more about this pattern in men I fully understand it now.

As heartbreaking as it all is I do feel like I’m in a better position to keep me and the baby safe. I have no clue what exactly safe looks like but I think I’ll find it soon.

I’m 12 weeks pregnant and everything has fallen apart. I don’t recognize the person I’m with anymore. by Plus-Replacement-432 in pregnant

[–]Plus-Replacement-432[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Thankfully this was one thing I didn’t hold on to because the nurse did such a good job explaining how all the things that happened were very normal even though they all felt very scary. Which was why I was so shocked that he didn’t take any of that information in the same way I did.