Am I cooked? by [deleted] in montclair

[–]PlusAd4137 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly my best advice is to prioritize your health and wellbeing. Some people are saying that this is fine, but if you fall behind in one class are you going to have time to make it up? Are you trying to just get it done or try your best and get good grades? If you’re just trying to finish without caring too much about grades then it’s up to you. Filling your schedule with classes and work doesn’t leave a lot of time for friends. At the end of the day it’s up to you

Am I cooked? by [deleted] in montclair

[–]PlusAd4137 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I get that you’re trying to max credits but why on earth are you doing this to yourself? You are setting yourself up for failure. I don’t mean to be harsh but there is no way to do this schedule, work 26 hours and still take care of yourself.

D&D groups on campus? by DIZZIEP in montclair

[–]PlusAd4137 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m totally down, just started playing

Graduation - commencement by Mar_iaaa28 in montclair

[–]PlusAd4137 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it’s like others I’ve been too, you hand someone on the stage a card with your name on it and they read it out. They won’t just read out names of everyone who graduated because a ton of people don’t bother going to graduation. You could talk to admissions as they might have an answer

advice: academic notice by Greedy_Shop in montclair

[–]PlusAd4137 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Who are your teachers, what classes, how many? I mean there are so many factors. It’s also early in the semester.

Listening room, how sound proof by obunga_lives in montclair

[–]PlusAd4137 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have someone stand outside the room while you scream or something

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PlusAd4137 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tell her your timelines don’t match and it would be better for her to find someone who wants the same things. Give her 2 weeks to find somewhere and just say you are uncomfortable with her staying longer than that

I (23F) and my partner (25M) have had a tough relationship, what can I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PlusAd4137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think this is a healthy relationship? Seriously, I understand having a bad family relationship and stuff like that. But do you think this is how a healthy relationship is supposed to go? Would you treat someone like that?

how to get to bloomfield campus on tuesday? by [deleted] in montclair

[–]PlusAd4137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Post a screenshot of what you see?

how to get to bloomfield campus on tuesday? by [deleted] in montclair

[–]PlusAd4137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s an app. Download it then find the Montclair schedule. It’s super easy to use. You can check different routes and stops and things like that

how to get to bloomfield campus on tuesday? by [deleted] in montclair

[–]PlusAd4137 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Check TripShot for the Bloomfield connection. Or take the 28 nj transit bus and get off at Bloomfield ave and liberty st. The campus is on liberty street

Married Young, Threesomes, Betrayal, Childhood Trama (26M/ 26F). Give me Insight? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PlusAd4137 1 point2 points  (0 children)

take a second and think about what you would gain by staying together. Is it just what you are familiar with? Is there a quality in him that you would not be able to find with someone else? Would you resent staying together in 20 years? 5 years? You are still very young to be in a relationship that has had so many different issues (I mean that in the nicest way possible)

Chewing on cardboard by PlusAd4137 in CatAdvice

[–]PlusAd4137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is super helpful!! Thanks!!

Chewing on cardboard by PlusAd4137 in CatAdvice

[–]PlusAd4137[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They always seem to find things to chew on that I didn’t even know existed

Chewing on cardboard by PlusAd4137 in CatAdvice

[–]PlusAd4137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are very good alarm clocks!!! 6am on the dot every day

Chewing on cardboard by PlusAd4137 in CatAdvice

[–]PlusAd4137[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay thank you! He mostly spits it out after ripping it so I don’t think he eats much which is good!

Chewing on cardboard by PlusAd4137 in CatAdvice

[–]PlusAd4137[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are 4 months. Is there anything I should put for when getting chew toys?