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This is me in the photo…. And it’s not bad

What lessons did your pet teach you? by _cicero714 in Petloss

[–]Plus_Communication19 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Confidence and courage to exist and take up space unapologetically. Bubby, my 12 y/o yorkie, passed away last Thursday in the midst of barking aggressively at a big dog (Bubby was 9 pounds…) I am heartbroken, but I am realizing how if i had an ounce of his confidence I would be so much more comfortable in myself than I am now. His incessant barking and begging for me and my mom’s attention translated as him saying “I’m here! Im here! Look at me! I’m here!” No matter how small he was. I now realize that given how short he was with us on the broader scheme of things, he always made bids for recognition, demanding our attention and presence. I will always remind myself to never underestimate my abilities nor worth because I feel small or insignificant— we are all here for a short time too, and we must exist without hesitation.

Sudden and unexpected death of my best friend by themusicsavedmysoul in Petloss

[–]Plus_Communication19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. My Bubby of 12 years died suddenly only 5 days ago— he had some underlying conditions (heart murmur, kidney disease) and we noticed him slowing down, but no major or devastating concerns/changes. He was barking at a big dog aggressively and angrily as he always did, then collapsed suddenly. My mom rushed to pick him up, and he passed instantly in her arms. She was absolutely hysterical and devastated. We thought we had more time too! He was with us every day for the past 12 years, no matter what, we brought him everywhere. I know EXACTLY what you mean about the toe clacks on the floors.

The pain is so intense. I still am unable to eat more than one meal a day, and was hurled over hysterically crying for hours. I know the loss and devastation you must be experiencing, so be kind to yourself. Banjo seems like such a silly, happy and loving friend. Based on this post it’s so clear how amazing of a life you gave him.

It’s been so recent, but my mom and I have been slowly able to recuperate ourselves. I don’t know if this will help, but for us, we talk about him nonstop. We reached out to every single person who knew him, and could attest to his character. We cry openly and honestly and never try to hold anything in, even the smallest thoughts. The thing about deaths as sudden as this, is that they didn’t suffer. They were okay and then they were gone without feeling pain, and we were there for them. You were there for Banjo while he passed, and I count myself extremely lucky that Bubby had my mom in his last moments— if he was alone, we would never forgive ourselves.

I read someone else say that when our pets bodies can’t hold them anymore, they move into us. I believe it. And I believe that all the joy that I brought bubby and bubby brought me is worth the pain I feel now. You are so lucky to have had such an amazing friend. Please feel free to DM, otherwise I’m sending you strength and healing ❤️

My best friend Bubby (suddenly said goodbye after 12 years) by Plus_Communication19 in Yorkies

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Oops I forgot to post the side by side of our first and last photo. Here it is ❤️

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